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"Oh! So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof. I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted. I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good. I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted." Two women in there, blimey | |||
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" GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES " You know what, I reckon if it was talked about in these terms more frequently more people would go. I'm sorry for what you've experienced | |||
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"I never, ever delay. I had a major cancer scare many years ago, within 18 months of a smear test. If I had ignored it, I would have been in trouble. " CIN3, as with other ladies here. | |||
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" GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES You know what, I reckon if it was talked about in these terms more frequently more people would go. I'm sorry for what you've experienced " Thank you I bang on about it on faceache like that, taking the stigma away helps I think! | |||
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"Oh! So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof. I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted. I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good. I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted. Two women in there, blimey " Ha, yeah. She's a hussy. I'm glad though, it's one of those things that you really need to keep on top of. | |||
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" GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES You know what, I reckon if it was talked about in these terms more frequently more people would go. I'm sorry for what you've experienced Thank you I bang on about it on faceache like that, taking the stigma away helps I think!" Oh absolutely. I wish they'd put things like this on the side of buses etc. Just demystify the whole thing. | |||
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"I’ve never had a chaperone and never delayed or missed one. Good thing too, I had two lots of severe dyskaryosis (CIN 3). Both treated with LLETZ under general anaesthetic. Had 4 clear years then it returned so had my cervix removed as part of a hysterectomy last month GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES " I had the LLETZ procedure too, but with a local anaesthetic. All been fine since then | |||
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"Oh! So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof. I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted. I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good. I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted. Two women in there, blimey Ha, yeah. She's a hussy. I'm glad though, it's one of those things that you really need to keep on top of." your friend had two women in her foof ??! she’s definitely a hussy And Nerolicious I’m up to date after being late. It’s just such a palaver to book a doctor appointment for anything that it always takes weeks to remember to do it after getting the reminder in the post | |||
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"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises!" Doing mine now, can you tell | |||
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"...And Nerolicious I’m up to date after being late..." • Terms of endearment such as these makes a thread worthwhile. | |||
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"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises!" If you haven't done them you certainly won't be jumping | |||
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"Oh! So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof. I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted. I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good. I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted." • Well done ex-wife. I shall remind you again next year. #NationalHealthCervix | |||
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"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises! If you haven't done them you certainly won't be jumping " Or if you do you’ll be landing in a puddle | |||
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"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises! If you haven't done them you certainly won't be jumping Or if you do you’ll be landing in a puddle " Of squirt. Sure some man on here would clean that up for you. | |||
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"I never, ever delay. I had a major cancer scare many years ago, within 18 months of a smear test. If I had ignored it, I would have been in trouble. " • | |||
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"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises! If you haven't done them you certainly won't be jumping Or if you do you’ll be landing in a puddle Of squirt. Sure some man on here would clean that up for you. " They’re more than welcome to, saves me a job | |||
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"I do like to take my husband because he buys me hot chocolate afterwards. I'm sure I could maybe get some jewellery out of him next time. F" • I know it's a long way away (London, not your cervix), but there's a Screening Clinic next to Bond Street, Mayfair. Perhaps next time after your screening you could accidentally stumble into Tiffany™...? Lucky husband. | |||
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"I don't think there's a gynecological professional that hasn't seen my vag over the years, had plenty of probings so pretty relaxed about them. One nurse did heat up the speculum first (which I've never noticed before) once upon a time and burnt me so I had to be given a cooling agent. You'd have thought she might have tested it first Generally they're fine though, even if I always have to have 2 done bc they can never read the first set of results. That's annoying when you're trying to fit appointments around work etc" Aye. I'm tempted to move into the gynae clinic, because I go there so often | |||
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"As a trans man who hasn't had a hysterectomy, I make sure I go when it's time. I hate it, it hurts but I lost a friend to cervical cancer as she didn't ever have one. So that's who I think of. I'm lucky I go to same nurse each time and we share a joke or two. " • | |||
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"Don't know why but wife loves having It done " She's probably thrilled to establish whether or not she has a cancer gnawing away at her reproductive organs | |||
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"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia. However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from. I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience. We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. " I want to go for cancer gene testing but have a distinct fear that I'll have the drs laugh in my face | |||
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"Don't know why but wife loves having It done " I actually quite like the feeling of having it done. If there's any issues though, letz or loop excursion really really isn't anywhere near as pleasant, but obviously very necessary. | |||
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"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia. However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from. I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience. We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. I want to go for cancer gene testing but have a distinct fear that I'll have the drs laugh in my face" I’ve had cancer gene testing due to family history, if you have a family history your GP won’t laugh they’ll take it seriously. Because of mine I now have yearly smear tests and yearly mammograms, I was offered anti cancer drugs as well but I’m not one for taking tablets so I get checked regularly. Down side is I’m not allowed HRT for the menopause | |||
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"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia. However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from. I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience. We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. " Interesting. My doctor referred me on account of the amount of breast cancer in my family. Actually it was to have a mammogram. I got sent away from the hospital bc I was too young (35 at the time). They said they didn't know why I'd been referred (I mean my age must have been on my notes apart from anything else). Not sure how I was too young, my mum died of breast cancer at 37 after getting it at 34. Maybe now it's a few years later I should follow this up. I get that about cardiology too, I'd feel like that. But again weird that's not been flagged either..... :/ | |||
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"I have delayed having mine. I know I need to have it, and I will, but it's my eldests birthday next weekend and have PTSD from her birth (and I only got diagnosed after my last smear threw me into a massive downward spiral) I always find that hard in some respects, so gonna get past that and will then book it in. I know how important it is, but I am terrified that it gonna throw me back into that trauma state " Absolutely understand. I spoke to my doctor first who made me an appointment with the nurse just to talk through the smear then another one to actually do it. I was able to get through it trauma free | |||
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"Had cancer in 2020 and since then I changed as much as possible to reduce risks like booking in for smear, stopped drinking, vaping stopped taking the pill, braca gene testing. Was so happy to have clear smear. " | |||
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"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia. However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from. I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience. We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. I want to go for cancer gene testing but have a distinct fear that I'll have the drs laugh in my face I’ve had cancer gene testing due to family history, if you have a family history your GP won’t laugh they’ll take it seriously. Because of mine I now have yearly smear tests and yearly mammograms, I was offered anti cancer drugs as well but I’m not one for taking tablets so I get checked regularly. Down side is I’m not allowed HRT for the menopause " I will stick it back on my to do list then, as having more regular tests is what I want as with my family genes I'm likely to be doomed by my 50s without them. | |||
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"I had mine done recently. The worst bit was having my height, weight and blood pressure done, too. On the up side, I’m still 5’6” " • More and more people are going for DEXA/Bone Density Scans to check for Osteopenia. | |||
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"The current smears don't look for pre cancerous or cancerous cells though. They've not done for a few years. They just look for the presence of strains HPV associated with cervical cancer. If your sample is positive for particular strains of HPV, THEN they look for abnormal cells and they might ask you back for more tests. But they don't routinely look for abnormal cells in everyone. The thing is, not all cervical cancer is caused by HPV. Anywhere from 1-5% of cancers are non-HPV, although I accept that is a small minority. Anyone who has had a negative smear in the UK since 2019 has essentially had a negative HPV test, not a result saying you absolutely have no cellular changes. " I was told this at my last smear. Then just got a letter to say I'm negative of hpv. I'm not sure if it's such a good way of doing it x | |||
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"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia. However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from. I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience. We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. Interesting. My doctor referred me on account of the amount of breast cancer in my family. Actually it was to have a mammogram. I got sent away from the hospital bc I was too young (35 at the time). They said they didn't know why I'd been referred (I mean my age must have been on my notes apart from anything else). Not sure how I was too young, my mum died of breast cancer at 37 after getting it at 34. Maybe now it's a few years later I should follow this up. I get that about cardiology too, I'd feel like that. But again weird that's not been flagged either..... :/ " Same with me, I was told I can't have the genetic testing unless my mum had it done, and classed as too young to have regular mammograms even with a strong family history, my mum and aunt had it within a couple of years of each other in their early 50s and nearly every aunt on their dad's side has had breast cancer and other female cancers too T x | |||
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"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia. However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from. I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience. We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. Interesting. My doctor referred me on account of the amount of breast cancer in my family. Actually it was to have a mammogram. I got sent away from the hospital bc I was too young (35 at the time). They said they didn't know why I'd been referred (I mean my age must have been on my notes apart from anything else). Not sure how I was too young, my mum died of breast cancer at 37 after getting it at 34. Maybe now it's a few years later I should follow this up. I get that about cardiology too, I'd feel like that. But again weird that's not been flagged either..... :/ Same with me, I was told I can't have the genetic testing unless my mum had it done, and classed as too young to have regular mammograms even with a strong family history, my mum and aunt had it within a couple of years of each other in their early 50s and nearly every aunt on their dad's side has had breast cancer and other female cancers too T x" Crazy my mum and aunt both died younger than what I am now and dad died in 40s and his mum but again won't look into it . Geography plays a part here too unfortunately I think as I know others that have had referrals and investigations for less than this Interesting what they said about genetic testing. I haven't heard that before. I got told i could only have it if I was Jewish. | |||
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"I had mine done recently. The worst bit was having my height, weight and blood pressure done, too. On the up side, I’m still 5’6” • More and more people are going for DEXA/Bone Density Scans to check for Osteopenia. " I had one a few weeks ago and I have osteoporosis have to start treatment for it. | |||
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"A few years ago, my friend did exactly that. She put it off and off until simething else flagged uo in her health. Wasbt quite the 40th birthday she imagined as she had to undergo full hysterectomy and treatment for cancer. Was grim to say the least. It's not something I'd ever put off. In Scotland the frequency has changed and over 50s who were previously screened every 3 years changed to 5. My 3 or 5 years landed in December 2022, attended the appointment. Took the lab 3 months instead of 6 weeks to feedback results and now I've to undergo in depth screening +/- a procedure in 2 weeks time. I'm keeking my breeks and hope it's nothing too sinister. Ladies, please don't put it off and get yourself checked out." | |||
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"It's one of the reasons why I am trying to get out of the house. To brave going to the doctors, i am very overdue " You are doing great and this is such an important reason | |||
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"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia. However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from. I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience. We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. " I always go for my smear as soon as I get the letter it's booked. Do you have to refer to your Dr for cancer gene testing? Or is it done privately. | |||
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"This has actually reminded me that I'm horribly overdue for mine. I'll need to get this booked sooner rather than later. " • Book it now, my Caledonian Thistle, lest I remind you with my Penny Whistle. | |||
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"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia. However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from. I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience. We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. I always go for my smear as soon as I get the letter it's booked. Do you have to refer to your Dr for cancer gene testing? Or is it done privately. " Hey lovely . I was given a letter from my cousin who was told to contact me about it. There was a number to call on it and I made an appointment. It was NHS. A clinic in a local hospital. I imagine if you speak to your GP they would be able to refer you x | |||
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"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?" If you get a clear result then usually it's 3 years or more till your next one. It is too long but I guess it's too costly to make it more regular. | |||
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"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?" Yes and no if you have normal cells then no but doesn’t mean they can’t develop which is why as humans we should all really get to know our bodies and cycles. You are your best doctor | |||
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"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?" It's 3yrs between as standard for women aged 25-54, then every 5yrs from 55-64. In the USA, it's recommended annually (for those who can afford insurance cover) and women have an annual pelvic examination as standard as well as the smear. In the UK, the smear appointment is literally just for that and I doubt that the generalist nurses who do them in GP surgeries would be trained to do these pelvic exams. Lots of women have really bad, symptomatic pelvic organ problems but are not treated because it's not picked up etc. Lots of people think incontinence is normal after giving birth, for example, lots of people make jokes about it. But it's not. Etc. | |||
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"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood? It's 3yrs between as standard for women aged 25-54, then every 5yrs from 55-64. In the USA, it's recommended annually (for those who can afford insurance cover) and women have an annual pelvic examination as standard as well as the smear. In the UK, the smear appointment is literally just for that and I doubt that the generalist nurses who do them in GP surgeries would be trained to do these pelvic exams. Lots of women have really bad, symptomatic pelvic organ problems but are not treated because it's not picked up etc. Lots of people think incontinence is normal after giving birth, for example, lots of people make jokes about it. But it's not. Etc." Totally agree. If you aren’t already familiar I would suggest you might be interested in reading up on “medical misogyny” it’s not just in gynae medicine we aren’t treated correctly. | |||
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"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood? It's 3yrs between as standard for women aged 25-54, then every 5yrs from 55-64. In the USA, it's recommended annually (for those who can afford insurance cover) and women have an annual pelvic examination as standard as well as the smear. In the UK, the smear appointment is literally just for that and I doubt that the generalist nurses who do them in GP surgeries would be trained to do these pelvic exams. Lots of women have really bad, symptomatic pelvic organ problems but are not treated because it's not picked up etc. Lots of people think incontinence is normal after giving birth, for example, lots of people make jokes about it. But it's not. Etc. Totally agree. If you aren’t already familiar I would suggest you might be interested in reading up on “medical misogyny” it’s not just in gynae medicine we aren’t treated correctly. " Thanks. I've read quite a bit about medical misogyny and have experienced it first hand on lots of occasions, unfortunately. There have been lots of occasions where I'm sure possessing a penis would have seen me taken seriously and/or different (better) treatment offered. And yes, I've had it suggested that some of my issues might be mental in origin (or "in my head"). Strange that when the right tests have been done and interpreted by people who know what they're doing, it's clear that it is NOT in my head | |||
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"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood? It's 3yrs between as standard for women aged 25-54, then every 5yrs from 55-64. In the USA, it's recommended annually (for those who can afford insurance cover) and women have an annual pelvic examination as standard as well as the smear. In the UK, the smear appointment is literally just for that and I doubt that the generalist nurses who do them in GP surgeries would be trained to do these pelvic exams. Lots of women have really bad, symptomatic pelvic organ problems but are not treated because it's not picked up etc. Lots of people think incontinence is normal after giving birth, for example, lots of people make jokes about it. But it's not. Etc. Totally agree. If you aren’t already familiar I would suggest you might be interested in reading up on “medical misogyny” it’s not just in gynae medicine we aren’t treated correctly. Thanks. I've read quite a bit about medical misogyny and have experienced it first hand on lots of occasions, unfortunately. There have been lots of occasions where I'm sure possessing a penis would have seen me taken seriously and/or different (better) treatment offered. And yes, I've had it suggested that some of my issues might be mental in origin (or "in my head"). Strange that when the right tests have been done and interpreted by people who know what they're doing, it's clear that it is NOT in my head " Ohh don’t even get me started! I’m aware of your posts and know you’ve been through horrific experiences. I’ve had visible physical symptoms dismissed as down to my Mh! ludicrous! Feel free to pm if you want to exchange war stories | |||
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"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood? It's 3yrs between as standard for women aged 25-54, then every 5yrs from 55-64. In the USA, it's recommended annually (for those who can afford insurance cover) and women have an annual pelvic examination as standard as well as the smear. In the UK, the smear appointment is literally just for that and I doubt that the generalist nurses who do them in GP surgeries would be trained to do these pelvic exams. Lots of women have really bad, symptomatic pelvic organ problems but are not treated because it's not picked up etc. Lots of people think incontinence is normal after giving birth, for example, lots of people make jokes about it. But it's not. Etc." Yet I live in the US and my I have a pap every 6 months. Free of charge with my insurance. If I call tomorrow and ask for one I immediately get it within 2 days. | |||
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"I imagine even the most confident people get some form of anxious thoughts around getting their smear. I was definitely part of the ignorance is bliss crew… took 6 months of symptoms for me to get checked out I’ll just say, having a smear is much nicer than having injections in your cervix and bits of it burned off, while awake… twice Had my first 3yr check in 2021, all clear! " So glad you finally got tested and then treated good luck for your future health x | |||
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"I imagine even the most confident people get some form of anxious thoughts around getting their smear. I was definitely part of the ignorance is bliss crew… took 6 months of symptoms for me to get checked out I’ll just say, having a smear is much nicer than having injections in your cervix and bits of it burned off, while awake… twice Had my first 3yr check in 2021, all clear! So glad you finally got tested and then treated good luck for your future health x " • | |||
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"Thankfully my results were fine this time. All negative. " Good news indeed. My reminder hasn't materialised so will phone the docs anyway and find an appt. | |||
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"Thankfully my results were fine this time. All negative. Good news indeed. My reminder hasn't materialised so will phone the docs anyway and find an appt. " That is good news PW and get it done KC! J | |||
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"As someone who is currently recovering from surgery for removal of cells that were picked up on my smear. Your never too young, and always always go. My consultant said to me that is wasn't a case of if it turned cancerous, but when. Go and get them done. " Glad it was caught and hope you recover quickly x | |||
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"Thankfully my results were fine this time. All negative. Good news indeed. My reminder hasn't materialised so will phone the docs anyway and find an appt. That is good news PW and get it done KC! J" I rang but I'm actually not due till July, so can't make an appointment yet..... | |||
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"It's bump worthy, I tell thee. " I never miss mine!! As soon as the letter comes in I go | |||
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"I had accidentally delayed mine. Had it recently ago and all clear " • Don't delay / Test today. | |||
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"It makes me smile they disceetly cover you with a paper towel yet they are probing inside your vagina and having a good look !" Hahahaa yesss!!! | |||
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""Dear Lådìes, Nøn-Bínarìes and Persons of Interest..." Ladies then. " And NB, trans men... | |||
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"Such an important topic OP No I never delay mine. Soon as I get my letter I get booked in. As someone who carries out cervical screenings everyday, please don’t put it off. It’s 10 minutes out of your day and almost always pain free. If you are nervous speak to the nurse about it. Some people like to be talked through it and some of us would rather just get it done. Your nurse will fully understand if someone is nervous/anxious/worried/scared and it’s our job to help to make you leave your appointment thinking oh what was I worried about. We all lead busy lives and we all forget things and don’t put ourselves first. We’re all only human Get your bits out ladies. Once you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all " | |||
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"I get mine done as soon as it's due! I and friends have had results come back needing follow ups so not worth the risk. I don't like the fact they have increased the age to 25 either " Had they lowered it? When my mother discovered I was sexually active she dragged me to the doctor's for my first smear. I was 17. They said then it was 25 (and this was 26 years ago) | |||
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"I get mine done as soon as it's due! I and friends have had results come back needing follow ups so not worth the risk. I don't like the fact they have increased the age to 25 either Had they lowered it? When my mother discovered I was sexually active she dragged me to the doctor's for my first smear. I was 17. They said then it was 25 (and this was 26 years ago)" 25-64 | |||
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""Dear Lådìes, Nøn-Bínarìes and Persons of Interest..." Ladies then. And NB, trans men... " So that'll be a woman. | |||
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"Thank you 'Princesse des ninjas' for bumping this humble thread." | |||
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""Dear Lådìes, Nøn-Bínarìes and Persons of Interest..." Ladies then. And NB, trans men... " Thank you! | |||
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"It makes me smile they disceetly cover you with a paper towel yet they are probing inside your vagina and having a good look !" This also makes me laugh too. Lots of faffing with curtains that don't close easily/properly while you take your keks off; two squares of blue roll for "modesty" and then they're rooting around your nether regions. Me: Just don't bother closing the curtain. I couldn't care less if you see me take off my pants.... | |||
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" Another bump for a reason to remind you lovelies to book in if you havnt! " • She's a bumper... ... ... ^ | |||
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"Booked mine for Thurs but now I'm bleeding. Again. Will have to rearrange but no idea when I'll not be bleeding. FFS " • KC², are you feeling sanguine? | |||
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"I always went for mine. They now deem me too old to go for a test. " So, women over a certain age don't get cervical cancer? | |||
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