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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus

is there any point no one responds to them these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is there any point no one responds to them these days "

I prefer them to messages! I can check the profile and wink back if I would like to chat ... simple

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By *eachButtonWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I usually thank people for winking at me and it's then up to them to keep the conversation going at a level I enjoy,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above, I don’t like ignoring messages because I don’t want to come across as rude. With a wink, we can wink back if we like the look of the profile, if not, we just ignore it.

Mrs

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"is there any point no one responds to them these days "

Whenever I wink at people in the street they look at me with disgust, so I've given up as well. Mind you they still look at me with disgust so I dunno what to tell you.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Don’t like them so straight to delete.

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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus


"is there any point no one responds to them these days

Whenever I wink at people in the street they look at me with disgust, so I've given up as well. Mind you they still look at me with disgust so I dunno what to tell you. "

Erm I did wink back xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people on fab ignore them and I can understand why.

I've had a number of occasions where I've either winked at someone and they've winked back - or they've winked at me - and I've followed up with a message only to be completely ignored or my message deleted.

It's hard to know why someone has winked.

A message is always much better

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I admit I actually don't look at winks or fabs! I'm usually in the forums chatting instead

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I always thank people who wink at me.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

I normally send a wink back then follow up with a message if there's an attraction or more to find out if there's an attraction, wich is rare as I tend not to send messages on here as see many many status updates of had to delete my inbox so gave up on the messaging front

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I would say some don't see them because they have loads and some just aren't interested. I always send a message if I see a wink from someone I like the look of but sometimes they then don't message back which means them winking was pointless

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Don’t like them so straight to delete."

You do say don't wink in bio

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By *beeMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I've always assumed it was a slip of the finger!!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I think winks are good, they show interest without being pushy. I'm still getting used to how direct most people are in the Fabiverse. It's taken pretty much the whole 4 months that we've been here for the yellow unread message not to send me into a panic. I actually almost like it because we have some lovely friends here and I can't wait to see what they've sent (still a little bit of panic though).

That said I'm rubbish with winks, we have accumulated hundreds and I can't remember who I liked the look of and who I didn't I will do a bulk delete I think and try to stay on top this time.

Sorry for the waffle.

Jx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't, as they're usually from people miles away .

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"is there any point no one responds to them these days "

Some do it depends on the person

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I do when I like the look of the person sending them to me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've had some good meets that started with a wink.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a fan of winks.

I think they can be a nice wee ice breaker.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I do like winks. I get all giddy when I get a wink maybe I'm just a romantic after all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above, I don’t like ignoring messages because I don’t want to come across as rude. With a wink, we can wink back if we like the look of the profile, if not, we just ignore it.

Mrs "

I agree entirely. Wink back and they know you are interested and then exchange messages.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Is there a reason when women wink why they can't message instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get any

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We don’t get loads so they always grab our attention. Whether we follow up is a different story xx

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I've never looked until just now when I saw this thread. I'm not meeting from here atm and state that so I'm not sure why people would?

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