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"Hello all. Any tips on how to get a response to messages. I've sent so many, and always make an effort, however, hardly ever get a reply, not even a no thank you. It's becomming a touch disheartening!" Just be yourself, Fab is fickle and it can be like wading through Chocolate at times. Hang around the forums, get stuck in, you'll soon get to know people | |||
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"Well, there are thousands of women on here, so there are quite a lot that fit my type! " What, female?? | |||
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"Hello all. Any tips on how to get a response to messages. I've sent so many, and always make an effort, however, hardly ever get a reply, not even a no thank you. It's becomming a touch disheartening! Just be yourself, Fab is fickle and it can be like wading through Chocolate at times. Hang around the forums, get stuck in, you'll soon get to know people " There are some truly fabulous people here. Get to know them, and be cool. | |||
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"Thank you, I appreciate the advice. This is my first time in the forums, I may stick around!" Welcome. It's fun....crazy at times, but fun | |||
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"Always send a dick pic it increases your chances immediately. Genuinely though a wee forum search would field results to the same asked question with some helpful answers truth is its mainly about going to clubs is the popular 1 " Send a dick pic? Always? No! Don’t send a dick pic unless it’s actually specifically asked for! | |||
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"Always send a dick pic it increases your chances immediately. Genuinely though a wee forum search would field results to the same asked question with some helpful answers truth is its mainly about going to clubs is the popular 1 Send a dick pic? Always? No! Don’t send a dick pic unless it’s actually specifically asked for!" So, that'll be why you asked me | |||
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"There can be all sorts of reasons, but given that this is a common problem for men and an equally common issue raised in the forum, I think the best thing I can say is this - rather than looking at what you're doing wrong, look at what you can improve on. Your profile, your appearance, the types of photos you put up etc. and slowly make those changes and see how it goes for you" This…book of face pics or dating site pics aren’t best suited to here. People are looking to complete fantasises, have great sex and build connections…so pics that get the mind racing work better… They don’t have to be sexually explicit though…just make you think sexy thoughts. K | |||
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"There can be all sorts of reasons, but given that this is a common problem for men and an equally common issue raised in the forum, I think the best thing I can say is this - rather than looking at what you're doing wrong, look at what you can improve on. Your profile, your appearance, the types of photos you put up etc. and slowly make those changes and see how it goes for you" This | |||
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"Hello all. Any tips on how to get a response to messages. I've sent so many, and always make an effort, however, hardly ever get a reply, not even a no thank you. It's becomming a touch disheartening!" Op, it's fab, it can take time. What I'd suggest is, interact in the forums, get to socials, clubs, there is more than one way to skin a cat, so to speak. Fab is more than sending messages. . Look at some of the males profiles who frequent the forums, draw some inspiration from these, as there is some really good examples of male profiles... Just remember you awash in a sea of cock, your profile is a selling point, make it unique make it yours | |||
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"The only guaranteed way of getting a response is to only message people that will be attracted enough to want to fuck you " Damn. That's why you didn't respond | |||
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"Have a look at the profiles of men already on this thread, and see if you could improve your 'sexual CV'!" Don’t look at mine at pointers | |||
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"See the problem here "I've sent so many messages" is there really that many women on here that fit your type?? " I was going to say the same thing. I think sending messages should only be for when you have that intuitive feeling that you and the other person will click on many levels. I probably seen six or so a year, sometimes less. Get known as an interesting member of the community who contributes well - IMO, that’s the best way to have rewarding times (in everu sense) on here. | |||
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"Dick pics. Wimin love dick pics LvM" Veiny throbby dic pics..... spurty n squirty with straggly pubes. | |||
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"Dick pics. Wimin love dick pics LvM Veiny throbby dic pics..... spurty n squirty with straggly pubes. " Have you been reading Dr Seuss again? | |||
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"Damn, it seems nobody wants to fuck me then! " You see, joining in with the forums and showing some humour is so much better than any pity post. I don't think you've actually asked for profile advice so I will tread carefully. On this site I find some profile names off-putting. J | |||
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"Dick pics. Wimin love dick pics LvM Veiny throbby dic pics..... spurty n squirty with straggly pubes. Have you been reading Dr Seuss again? " Dr Seuss ? What would be the use He never sends pics of fat dicks , he just tricks The ladies that lust and fiddle till bust. Then they weep in the forum and lose all decorum! No. I haven't | |||
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"Dick pics. Wimin love dick pics LvM Veiny throbby dic pics..... spurty n squirty with straggly pubes. Have you been reading Dr Seuss again? Dr Seuss ? What would be the use He never sends pics of fat dicks , he just tricks The ladies that lust and fiddle till bust. Then they weep in the forum and lose all decorum! No. I haven't " Absolutely brilliant. Please can we have a thread of this Granny?! J | |||
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"Dick pics. Wimin love dick pics LvM Veiny throbby dic pics..... spurty n squirty with straggly pubes. Have you been reading Dr Seuss again? Dr Seuss ? What would be the use He never sends pics of fat dicks , he just tricks The ladies that lust and fiddle till bust. Then they weep in the forum and lose all decorum! No. I haven't " Well he should post a pic, a pic of his dick, a pic of his dick should do just the trick And will he succeed? Yes! He will, indeed! (98 and 3/4 percent guaranteed.) | |||
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"If you don't get a response straight away immediately send a 2nd message informing them how ugly and fat and stuck up they are and how grateful they should be that you took the time to message them in the first place, never fails " I had one of them yesterday, took a day to get round to his message and I went from being the 'hottest woman on Fab' to 'Bertha Boiler' Fair enough I thought | |||
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"If you don't get a response straight away immediately send a 2nd message informing them how ugly and fat and stuck up they are and how grateful they should be that you took the time to message them in the first place, never fails I had one of them yesterday, took a day to get round to his message and I went from being the 'hottest woman on Fab' to 'Bertha Boiler' Fair enough I thought " Oooosssht!!! Cannot beat the lovely charmers on fab. Think tons of ladies in Scotland was getting the same lovely messages yesterday going by the status updates. Someone must have been doing the rounds chancing it with every single female | |||
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"Dick pics. Wimin love dick pics LvM Veiny throbby dic pics..... spurty n squirty with straggly pubes. Have you been reading Dr Seuss again? Dr Seuss ? What would be the use He never sends pics of fat dicks , he just tricks The ladies that lust and fiddle till bust. Then they weep in the forum and lose all decorum! No. I haven't " Marvellous!! I might even look at a pic of George’s dick | |||
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"Have a look at the profiles of men already on this thread, and see if you could improve your 'sexual CV'. I don't even open a new message until I have had a quick look at the profile!" Exactly this you have to seriously sell yourself on this site By all means take note from my profile it's not perfect and is always evolving but I think I'm proof this site does yield what you are looking for | |||
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"See the problem here "I've sent so many messages" is there really that many women on here that fit your type?? " Yes. Have you seen how many women are in here? But! And this is a big BUT! ( not to be mistaken by a BIG BUTT! ) they look and sound attractive on their profile page and the initial billboard image. It’s only until you talk to them you find if they are your type. *just my opinion, how many stupidly attractive females I now know on here is minimal after the initial “good god, everyone is gorgeous!’ When I first stepped foot in here. I hope that makes sense, it did when I started to type it. | |||
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"See the problem here "I've sent so many messages" is there really that many women on here that fit your type?? Yes. Have you seen how many women are in here? But! And this is a big BUT! ( not to be mistaken by a BIG BUTT! ) they look and sound attractive on their profile page and the initial billboard image. It’s only until you talk to them you find if they are your type. *just my opinion, how many stupidly attractive females I now know on here is minimal after the initial “good god, everyone is gorgeous!’ When I first stepped foot in here. I hope that makes sense, it did when I started to type it. " Are you trying to say you're bored of the sweet shop now Woody? J | |||
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"It seems we have another chap who thinks there is some magic forumla. There isn't. Well, not strictly speaking anyway. You mention on your profile that you've been on fab before, so I would ask two questions. Firstly, what did you learn from your previous experience and secondly, what were your expecations on joining either before or 5 months ago? Pretty much everyone you message will check out your profile before even thinking about reading anything you've sent them, so you should make sure that it is the best it can possibly be. Also something to bear in mind, I would suggest, is your user name. Do you think it's working for you or against you. You'll be surprised at how many people will be put off by the wrong user name. If on looking at your profile, the recipient of your message doesn't like what they see, doesn't think you have anything in common, or simply doesn't find you attractive, they'll either ignore your message or simply delete it. You should also check out the site FAQs as the site owners have covered the 'I don't get replies to my messages' subject. Basically, a non-reply should be considered a 'No thank you' Nobody owes you a reply. Think about those takeaway menus that get posted through your door. You never asked for them, and are likely not interested in ordering from any of the establishments. Do you contact them all to tell them? Of course you don't. You file them appropriately. The people of fab are not sitting by their computers or phones waiting for a message from someone wanting a shag. Everyone has a life. Also, no-body is obliged to shag anyone and everyone who asks. To be fair, your opening comment on the thread gives of a sense of entitlement." He knows how to pull the ladiesssss | |||
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"See the problem here "I've sent so many messages" is there really that many women on here that fit your type?? Yes. Have you seen how many women are in here? But! And this is a big BUT! ( not to be mistaken by a BIG BUTT! ) they look and sound attractive on their profile page and the initial billboard image. It’s only until you talk to them you find if they are your type. *just my opinion, how many stupidly attractive females I now know on here is minimal after the initial “good god, everyone is gorgeous!’ When I first stepped foot in here. I hope that makes sense, it did when I started to type it. Are you trying to say you're bored of the sweet shop now Woody? J" I don’t even like sweets. | |||
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"See the problem here "I've sent so many messages" is there really that many women on here that fit your type?? Yes. Have you seen how many women are in here? But! And this is a big BUT! ( not to be mistaken by a BIG BUTT! ) they look and sound attractive on their profile page and the initial billboard image. It’s only until you talk to them you find if they are your type. *just my opinion, how many stupidly attractive females I now know on here is minimal after the initial “good god, everyone is gorgeous!’ When I first stepped foot in here. I hope that makes sense, it did when I started to type it. Are you trying to say you're bored of the sweet shop now Woody? J I don’t even like sweets. " Now I'm even more confused! J | |||
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"See the problem here "I've sent so many messages" is there really that many women on here that fit your type?? Yes. Have you seen how many women are in here? But! And this is a big BUT! ( not to be mistaken by a BIG BUTT! ) they look and sound attractive on their profile page and the initial billboard image. It’s only until you talk to them you find if they are your type. *just my opinion, how many stupidly attractive females I now know on here is minimal after the initial “good god, everyone is gorgeous!’ When I first stepped foot in here. I hope that makes sense, it did when I started to type it. " What, treating women like human beings and want to talk to them and not just use them as a warm wanking implement? They won't like that! They have their tits and bits out for a reason ... and it's not chit chat. | |||
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"See the problem here "I've sent so many messages" is there really that many women on here that fit your type?? Yes. Have you seen how many women are in here? But! And this is a big BUT! ( not to be mistaken by a BIG BUTT! ) they look and sound attractive on their profile page and the initial billboard image. It’s only until you talk to them you find if they are your type. *just my opinion, how many stupidly attractive females I now know on here is minimal after the initial “good god, everyone is gorgeous!’ When I first stepped foot in here. I hope that makes sense, it did when I started to type it. What, treating women like human beings and want to talk to them and not just use them as a warm wanking implement? They won't like that! They have their tits and bits out for a reason ... and it's not chit chat. " | |||
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"See the problem here "I've sent so many messages" is there really that many women on here that fit your type?? Yes. Have you seen how many women are in here? But! And this is a big BUT! ( not to be mistaken by a BIG BUTT! ) they look and sound attractive on their profile page and the initial billboard image. It’s only until you talk to them you find if they are your type. *just my opinion, how many stupidly attractive females I now know on here is minimal after the initial “good god, everyone is gorgeous!’ When I first stepped foot in here. I hope that makes sense, it did when I started to type it. Are you trying to say you're bored of the sweet shop now Woody? J I don’t even like sweets. Now I'm even more confused! J" I Like a pick and mix | |||
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"A sense of entitlement. LMFAO! " If you tap ‘reply+quote’ under a comment, people know whose comment you’re replying to | |||
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"A sense of entitlement. LMFAO! If you tap ‘reply+quote’ under a comment, people know whose comment you’re replying to" Thank you..... | |||
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"A sense of entitlement. LMFAO! If you tap ‘reply+quote’ under a comment, people know whose comment you’re replying to" Just tried to PM you however i am not yet a site supporte. Leeds to Guilford is 217 miles. I'd have to maintain an average speed of 140 miles per hour to make it in 90 minutes, as per your profile specifications. After viewing your photos, I believe I can make it, on foot, simply by sheer determination alone! | |||
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"A sense of entitlement. LMFAO! If you tap ‘reply+quote’ under a comment, people know whose comment you’re replying to Just tried to PM you however i am not yet a site supporte. Leeds to Guilford is 217 miles. I'd have to maintain an average speed of 140 miles per hour to make it in 90 minutes, as per your profile specifications. After viewing your photos, I believe I can make it, on foot, simply by sheer determination alone!" Comedy is a good way of breaking the ice | |||
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