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Newby, looking to chat and go to my first club meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning fab!

So I recently joined, and had a club booked but didn't go, because I was worried I might bump into someone I know aha.

It'd be wicked to meet a couple, or a woman to go to my first club meet with, even if it's just a chat and chill before

Any advice welcome

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet anyone you know in a club, nod and acknowledge them and leave it at that, Remember they are their also!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh that's a fair point, that's a good way to look at it x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Morning fab!

So I recently joined, and had a club booked but didn't go, because I was worried I might bump into someone I know aha.

It'd be wicked to meet a couple, or a woman to go to my first club meet with, even if it's just a chat and chill before

Any advice welcome

x"
If you meet someone you know in a club never look down maintain eye contact and don't touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh that's a fair point, that's a good way to look at it x"

By the looks of your profile picture I don’t see you having too many issues seems very attractive

The only thing I will say is you have that your gf knows about your account … would you not have them just made a couples account and if she didn’t want to play stated this on the account

Could've got you more interest?

With clubs and being a single guy best advice is to not be pushy or lurking around every corner, try to be smiley and polite.

Ask people is it ok to sit with them, stand and chat by them.

I can’t imagine how it must feel as a single genuine male for your first club visit good luck to you !

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By *ason_silverMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Main thing is don’t mix up Facebook and fab

(Different worlds)

Keep that mentally online and club.

Beyond that it’s statistics, social skills and dumb luck.

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By *elcome68Man
over a year ago

manchester

ace if you bump into someone you know at the club. you have to ask urself the question, why are they there!!!!!!!!!!!!1 listen m8. live once, but live it to the full with no regrets, thats wat ive learned on my journey. good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you come across someone you know, I wouldn't be worried after all they are there two

Try a club I think you will like it I loved my first club experience.

Just be polite, engage in conversation and give people space.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Are you less worried about bumping into someone you know if you go there with a woman or couple then?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Start of easy with the Hampshire's most wanted social in Fleet. Chat and get to know people

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Check out the london forum, there is a fab social at abfabs once a month which loads of people go to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh thank you

And I was thinking about that at first, but saw a lot of people that were apparently single guys just saying the other half didn’t want to play, and I didn’t want people to think it was a fake account aha.

Really appreciate the advice thankyou, good to meet you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh yeah I guess that’s part of it, going in with people would take the pressure off aha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh thankyou! I’ll have a look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP . Which club was it ? Only asking as you’re fairly local to me so was wondering if it was the same one I visit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah that’s a fair point, thankyou for the advice! Hopefully going to go to one soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey! It was hellfire club mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey! It was hellfire club mate "

Yes I have been there . Not my favourite club. There is a social party on May 19 at AbFabs . It’s near Heathrow T5. Maybe put your name down for that ? The last time they also waived the joining fee. Not sure if they will do that again but if so would also save you a fair few pounds. Worth considering I would say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh thankyou mate, that’s good to know. Really appreciate the details

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By *agnar73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

I’d really like to go too but reckoned for most of the events it’s with a partner and I’d love to meet someone that I could do that with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh thankyou, I’ll take a look! X

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