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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. " I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it " can be annoying if its realy bad tex and slang, the odd tex like 2, wth, jst, slightly shortend words aren't that bad are they? | |||
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"If i get a message in text typing i dont even read it i just have the image of some 18 year old chav on the over end of the message with his track suit and base ball caps on back to front " u just described me but im 37 and its a shell suit | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. " It's not petty. If you want to impress people, particularly of a certain age group, then u r unlikely 2 do it wiv txt spk. | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it can be annoying if its realy bad tex and slang, the odd tex like 2, wth, jst, slightly shortend words aren't that bad are they? " Yes, yes they are. If they want short cuts writing a message, I imagine they want short cuts to sex to haha | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it can be annoying if its realy bad tex and slang, the odd tex like 2, wth, jst, slightly shortend words aren't that bad are they? " Can't stand it, if we get a message like that we normally just delete it, there's no need for it ( the lol ,lmao etc are ok as they are to show emotions ) but bad text speak from a thirtyor forty year old just screams wrong | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it can be annoying if its realy bad tex and slang, the odd tex like 2, wth, jst, slightly shortend words aren't that bad are they? Yes, yes they are. If they want short cuts writing a message, I imagine they want short cuts to sex to haha" or u could have a guy with all the Grammar and punctuation, and also be totally shite.... in fact more than likely will be | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it " I agree | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it can be annoying if its realy bad tex and slang, the odd tex like 2, wth, jst, slightly shortend words aren't that bad are they? Yes, yes they are. If they want short cuts writing a message, I imagine they want short cuts to sex to haha or u could have a guy with all the Grammar and punctuation, and also be totally shite.... in fact more than likely will be " Why more than likely? For me the biggest sexual organ is my brain and text speak suggests to me that the person messaging me doesn't have the capacity to communicate properly. I may sound a snob, I may be stereotyping but with the choice on here I can afford to | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it " Absolutely and some of us oldies struggle with it, not sure my son would appreciate me asking him to translate either | |||
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"shortend words aren't that bad are they? Yes, yes they are. If they want short cuts writing a message, I imagine they want short cuts to sex to haha or u could have a guy with all the Grammar and punctuation, and also be totally shite.... in fact more than likely will be " LOL! This cracked me up! | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it can be annoying if its realy bad tex and slang, the odd tex like 2, wth, jst, slightly shortend words aren't that bad are they? Yes, yes they are. If they want short cuts writing a message, I imagine they want short cuts to sex to haha or u could have a guy with all the Grammar and punctuation, and also be totally shite.... in fact more than likely will be Why more than likely? For me the biggest sexual organ is my brain and text speak suggests to me that the person messaging me doesn't have the capacity to communicate properly. I may sound a snob, I may be stereotyping but with the choice on here I can afford to " exactly my point, saying more likely is the same as saying if u use tex speak ud be a lazy lover unfounded facts !! | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. I don't think it's petty really. Often it takes longer to work out what the message says than it did to write it can be annoying if its realy bad tex and slang, the odd tex like 2, wth, jst, slightly shortend words aren't that bad are they? Yes, yes they are. If they want short cuts writing a message, I imagine they want short cuts to sex to haha or u could have a guy with all the Grammar and punctuation, and also be totally shite.... in fact more than likely will be Why more than likely? For me the biggest sexual organ is my brain and text speak suggests to me that the person messaging me doesn't have the capacity to communicate properly. I may sound a snob, I may be stereotyping but with the choice on here I can afford to exactly my point, saying more likely is the same as saying if u use tex speak ud be a lazy lover unfounded facts !!" You're correct it is unfounded but its first impressions isnt it. I just turn off from someone who uses it and can't be bothered with them if they can't be bothered to type a message properly. | |||
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"If only the majority found that their biggest sexual organ really were their brain - there would a few on here who would the Kings & Queen of the Swingers - the proverbial Jungle VIP's! " Still not eating fish eyes or kangaroo testicles... sorry! Wolf | |||
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"Mrs Scoobs again. As for putting on your profile that you don't like text speak what's the point? Most people don't read what you've written anyway so they're not likely to stop. " No I don't mean just put it on profile. I mean have it as a compulsory filter. If you like txt spk then allow people who also like it and if you don't then if blocks those people. We can do it For males TVs etc why not text speak? It is one of the biggest discussions on here constantly. I seem to remember a Dating site I was on a loooooong time ago allowed you to block people who put less than 100 characters in a message. So why not the same process? | |||
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"Mrs Scoobs again. As for putting on your profile that you don't like text speak what's the point? Most people don't read what you've written anyway so they're not likely to stop. No I don't mean just put it on profile. I mean have it as a compulsory filter. If you like txt spk then allow people who also like it and if you don't then if blocks those people. We can do it For males TVs etc why not text speak? It is one of the biggest discussions on here constantly. I seem to remember a Dating site I was on a loooooong time ago allowed you to block people who put less than 100 characters in a message. So why not the same process?" thhheeennn iiii gueeeessss uuuuuu couldddddd messssagggge liiikkkeee thhiiisss lol | |||
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"Mrs Scoobs again. As for putting on your profile that you don't like text speak what's the point? Most people don't read what you've written anyway so they're not likely to stop. No I don't mean just put it on profile. I mean have it as a compulsory filter. If you like txt spk then allow people who also like it and if you don't then if blocks those people. We can do it For males TVs etc why not text speak? It is one of the biggest discussions on here constantly. I seem to remember a Dating site I was on a loooooong time ago allowed you to block people who put less than 100 characters in a message. So why not the same process?thhheeennn iiii gueeeessss uuuuuu couldddddd messssagggge liiikkkeee thhiiisss lol " I seem to remember there was a Reason you couldn't do that but don't remember why. I think the only thing You're hoping for is to reduce the amount of messages that are irrelevant to you, you'll never eliminate them | |||
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"is it realy that bad , seems petty to me. " I hate it, takes no longer to write word could instead of cud, unless you have a copy of text speak dictionary, can't understand most of it. Give me proper writing any day of the week | |||
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"Unfortunately it seems to give the impression that the sender is either lazy, a chav or simply cant spell words normally... Its a strange thing, but I get texts from a lot of people from various backgrounds and walks of life..by some coincidence texts that come from the more educated ones are the only ones free of text speak...not wishing to put people in boxes but unfortunately, whatever our feelings on the subject, we are placed in these 'social groups and 'classes'... So putting it bluntly..the lower end of the educational/social/class ladder someone 'appears' (and officially I guess Im down there with them)to be the more text speak arrives.. Thus reinforcing peoples perceptions of others who use it... Why is this? " +1 | |||
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"Text speak will soon become a GCSE subject, a degree or masters study next... Methinks it already is... I get text speak from some 40 something year old friends too of mainly shortened words. And they have masters degrees! Another language in the world to discuss and dissect. Doesn't bother me. " Text-Speak is already acceptable as a form of writing in English Language exams.... unbelievably... Exam markers are not allowed to deduct marks if it's used in an exam paper.. | |||
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"Text speak will soon become a GCSE subject, a degree or masters study next... Methinks it already is... I get text speak from some 40 something year old friends too of mainly shortened words. And they have masters degrees! Another language in the world to discuss and dissect. Doesn't bother me. Text-Speak is already acceptable as a form of writing in English Language exams.... unbelievably... Exam markers are not allowed to deduct marks if it's used in an exam paper.. " That's a disgrace. No wonder when I see job applications, that the spelling is so poor | |||
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"Text speak will soon become a GCSE subject, a degree or masters study next... Methinks it already is... I get text speak from some 40 something year old friends too of mainly shortened words. And they have masters degrees! Another language in the world to discuss and dissect. Doesn't bother me. Text-Speak is already acceptable as a form of writing in English Language exams.... unbelievably... Exam markers are not allowed to deduct marks if it's used in an exam paper.. " sheesh almighty - speechless | |||
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"i don't think it should be in the education system, that's not the thread. At school u should learn spelling etc, this is about shortening spelling on a swingers site profile or forum. Not a job application form . " yeah but this is what happens on a forum - we get waylaid and ddistracted and such | |||
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"i don't think it should be in the education system, that's not the thread. At school u should learn spelling etc, this is about shortening spelling on a swingers site profile or forum. Not a job application form . yeah but this is what happens on a forum - we get waylaid and ddistracted and such" thats fine, it wasnt a moan its a debate and people can take it where ever they want to, thats part of the fun | |||
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"Text speak will soon become a GCSE subject, a degree or masters study next... Methinks it already is... I get text speak from some 40 something year old friends too of mainly shortened words. And they have masters degrees! Another language in the world to discuss and dissect. Doesn't bother me. Text-Speak is already acceptable as a form of writing in English Language exams.... unbelievably... Exam markers are not allowed to deduct marks if it's used in an exam paper.. That's a disgrace. No wonder when I see job applications, that the spelling is so poor" Now you know why..... innit m8 | |||
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"Text speak will soon become a GCSE subject, a degree or masters study next... Methinks it already is... I get text speak from some 40 something year old friends too of mainly shortened words. And they have masters degrees! Another language in the world to discuss and dissect. Doesn't bother me. Text-Speak is already acceptable as a form of writing in English Language exams.... unbelievably... Exam markers are not allowed to deduct marks if it's used in an exam paper.. " Wow! times have changed since leaving the teaching profession 7 years ago! Some people use it in social situations to text if they are extremely busy, especially with those they know well... However I find that the classic English language is sadly a dying art in social interactions.. When organising meets or dirty sexy talk emails I like to use the classic English as much as possible... D H Lawrence and Anais Nin (who wasn't even English) comes to mind. Some people can get away with text speak due to their age... Yet it's supposed to be a fun swing site where there is something for everyone... We can't take things as text speak too seriously when it comes to sex eh? | |||
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"Dear Grandmother, I have read your profile and wish to enquire as to whether you will rub your dirty bits up against mine this coming Sunday. I do hope you will reply in the affirmative; I long to hear yes yes yes! I am your humble servant and most positively punctuated personal admirer. Shane MacGowan of Pogues. A grn. gz a fk n a b.j. dis Sundy. lowdza luv Brdly Kuper. x x x x x x x Really ? Wipe your superiority off your sleeve and make more informed choices. Me n Brd wr jnd by chnng tatum too .... x n mi drms x " well i dont understand any of that shit i was talking about shortenig a few words as written above! | |||
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"Text speak, in my opinion, is destroying the integrity of the English language. It's well documented that children are leaving school without knowing how to read and write . Text speak only adds to that. In the same way that calculators have replaced the ability to add, subtract and divide , text speak is also stopping people from learning basic spelling ." No - sorry. You are wrong. All children leave PRIMARY school with the basics of reading and writing (at various levels). This is a common myth propagated by the ignorant in the media. Text speak is appropriate in only ONE instance - when texting. That is why it is called TEXT speak. | |||
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"Dear Grandmother, I have read your profile and wish to enquire as to whether you will rub your dirty bits up against mine this coming Sunday. I do hope you will reply in the affirmative; I long to hear yes yes yes! I am your humble servant and most positively punctuated personal admirer. Shane MacGowan of Pogues. A grn. gz a fk n a b.j. dis Sundy. lowdza luv Brdly Kuper. x x x x x x x Really ? Wipe your superiority off your sleeve and make more informed choices. Me n Brd wr jnd by chnng tatum too .... x n mi drms x well i dont understand any of that shit i was talking about shortenig a few words as written above! " But thats exactly what you get sent through in messages and its supposed to impress?? | |||
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"doesn't bother me at all if the sender has more than 9 inches if less, fuck off and write properly you lazy bastard. I am quite open minded about it" | |||
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"Dear Grandmother, I have read your profile and wish to enquire as to whether you will rub your dirty bits up against mine this coming Sunday. I do hope you will reply in the affirmative; I long to hear yes yes yes! I am your humble servant and most positively punctuated personal admirer. Shane MacGowan of Pogues. A grn. gz a fk n a b.j. dis Sundy. lowdza luv Brdly Kuper. x x x x x x x Really ? Wipe your superiority off your sleeve and make more informed choices. Me n Brd wr jnd by chnng tatum too .... x n mi drms x well i dont understand any of that shit i was talking about shortenig a few words as written above! But thats exactly what you get sent through in messages and its supposed to impress?? " No it's not meant to impress. It's meant to illicit a shag and to be honest I'd excuse Brad Cooper his text speak before I'd be impressed by Shane McGowan's written perfection .... Point is ........... it's sex no more no less. | |||
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"Dear Grandmother, I have read your profile and wish to enquire as to whether you will rub your dirty bits up against mine this coming Sunday. I do hope you will reply in the affirmative; I long to hear yes yes yes! I am your humble servant and most positively punctuated personal admirer. Shane MacGowan of Pogues. A grn. gz a fk n a b.j. dis Sundy. lowdza luv Brdly Kuper. x x x x x x x Really ? Wipe your superiority off your sleeve and make more informed choices. Me n Brd wr jnd by chnng tatum too .... x n mi drms x well i dont understand any of that shit i was talking about shortenig a few words as written above! But thats exactly what you get sent through in messages and its supposed to impress?? No it's not meant to impress. It's meant to illicit a shag and to be honest I'd excuse Brad Cooper his text speak before I'd be impressed by Shane McGowan's written perfection .... Point is ........... it's sex no more no less." how the hell will that impress? yes it's all about sex but if someone can't string a few real words together then how are they going to get through the door? | |||
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"I R NT RPLYG 2 LZY PPL." I think I use some text speak but not to the level above lol. My _iew of my text speak is saying cos, ur, wanna etc not sure how much that bothers people but the above text speak annoys me lol | |||
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"Unfortunately it seems to give the impression that the sender is either lazy, a chav or simply cant spell words normally... Its a strange thing, but I get texts from a lot of people from various backgrounds and walks of life..by some coincidence texts that come from the more educated ones are the only ones free of text speak...not wishing to put people in boxes but unfortunately, whatever our feelings on the subject, we are placed in these 'social groups and 'classes'... So putting it bluntly..the lower end of the educational/social/class ladder someone 'appears' (and officially I guess Im down there with them)to be the more text speak arrives.. Thus reinforcing peoples perceptions of others who use it... Why is this? " Coz ppl r presumptuous | |||
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"Dear Grandmother, I have read your profile and wish to enquire as to whether you will rub your dirty bits up against mine this coming Sunday. I do hope you will reply in the affirmative; I long to hear yes yes yes! I am your humble servant and most positively punctuated personal admirer. Shane MacGowan of Pogues. A grn. gz a fk n a b.j. dis Sundy. lowdza luv Brdly Kuper. x x x x x x x Really ? Wipe your superiority off your sleeve and make more informed choices. Me n Brd wr jnd by chnng tatum too .... x n mi drms x well i dont understand any of that shit i was talking about shortenig a few words as written above! But thats exactly what you get sent through in messages and its supposed to impress?? No it's not meant to impress. It's meant to illicit a shag and to be honest I'd excuse Brad Cooper his text speak before I'd be impressed by Shane McGowan's written perfection .... Point is ........... it's sex no more no less. how the hell will that impress? yes it's all about sex but if someone can't string a few real words together then how are they going to get through the door?" Um they will open their mouth and speak or do you want to have an essay supplied before you shag said person? Your logic only works if the text speak doesn't follow, that is, the sentence doesn't run together. Granny's example from her bit of stuff, Brad, (lol. Btw) shows this. Though it may be annoying trying to read it, it runs just fine and thus implies oor Brad would string a sentence together just fine should he use his voice and I suspect in real life that is what he would do | |||
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