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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long do you wait before you write someone off after you've messaged?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you wait before you write someone off after you've messaged?"

5.5 mins

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long do you wait before you write someone off after you've messaged?

5.5 mins "

Mins or seconds I'm familiar with man timings

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

10 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it takes

Normally after a day

They are not interested

So then I get the picture and don’t send anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Length of one wank seems the general measure.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witchery wish lane

Lol I get lots messages at the moment there are 162 i try to answer them,(even if its to say no thanks) but just can't keep up with them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Immediately.

Once the message is sent, it's out of our hands until (unless) there's a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a terrible attention span.

Also, too eager must doesn't work for me.

I give them at least 3-5 weeks.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Couple days usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long it takes to get to the moon and back

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Depends on my mood or how much I think I'm reaching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I press send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood or how much I think I'm reaching "

I didn’t realise people wrote back after messaging them.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

If it's a friendly chat then there is no time limit. If there was no reply within a day of a first message being seen. Not sure with regards to an ongoing message exchange leading to a potential meet - I've just deleted one after 2 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you wait before you write someone off after you've messaged?

5.5 mins

Mins or seconds I'm familiar with man timings "

Well if we're talking true man timings you know the answer to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if they haven’t read my message or replied after a day or two, I’d assume they weren’t interested. I appreciate people are busy and have a life away from here so I don’t really expect a reply straight away.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"How long do you wait before you write someone off after you've messaged?"

34.7 seconds

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

expect nothing.

but be careful of getting into long conversations that never seem to be going anywhere.

once that happens your friendzoned and thats game over.

any sign of doubt or delay in my experience it isnt going to happen because people who want to meet do, and they are excited too.

your time is the most precious, your life could change in a blink of an eye so dont let anyone control your time.

everyone seems ruthless, monkey see monkey do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont unless they delete the message there end

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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A couple of weeks? But I'm really awful at replying to messages recently, I'd hope people would realise it's me that's the problem, not them. So there isn't a length of time really.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

On here when they have deleted my message, other places I just slide them down my priorities list, if they read me, no reply frequently

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...


"Immediately.

Once the message is sent, it's out of our hands until (unless) there's a reply.

"

This. It's unusual that I send a message, but when I do, it's generally ignored, so I "fire and forget" if I then get a response back, great. If not, doesn't matter as I'd forgotten about it.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

a reply? whats that? I don't think they exist!

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