FabSwingers.com forum: Post op or pre op transgender

By *arteene OP Woman
over a year ago

aylesbury

Hi all

I have just had my surgery and was wondering if I will now have less guys interested in me or will there be guys who now will be interested

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think the demographic may shift slightly as those men who like ladies with a bit extra drift away in favour of men who like women without that bit extra.

Congratulations on your successful transition and good luck.

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By *arteene OP Woman
over a year ago

aylesbury

Thank you

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By *az699Man
over a year ago

pboro

Good on you

I’d be more interested now

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Hi all

I have just had my surgery and was wondering if I will now have less guys interested in me or will there be guys who now will be interested "

Congratulations on your transition! You look wonderful and I sincerely hope it's everything you hope for. You must feel so much more comfortable in your own skin now.

I think the opinion expressed earlier is about right. You'll still attract guys, just a slightly different set.

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

warrington

As above congratulations on your end goal and transition, I imagine the journey was tough!

You'll probably get less 'fab straight' guys now, buy im sure they will be replaced with more genuine suitors!

Good luck on the search

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

"Hi all

I have just had my surgery and was wondering if I will now have less guys interested in me or will there be guys who now will be interested "

Possibly less guys but more the ones interested will be better suited to you.

Quality not quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel happier in yourself now I’m sure you’ll attract more suitable guys.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Congratulations on your transition. As others have said I think you will just have different guys interested in you. You'll probably find the overall amount is around the same.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Congratulations on what has probably been a very long road to reach this point. I hope most people are wanting to find the joyful person, at peace with themselves, with whom they can have a Fab time. I hope so anyway.

Chris

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Congratulations, I think it will change some of those that are interested but its quiet difficult to know the shift in overall numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya,

Firstly congratulations, hope the recovery continues well.

Secondly, I do know exactly what you’re trying to describe. It can feel like you’re now this “halfway house” on here, those that specifically are looking for trans aren’t looking for you because you no longer have that specially extra something and those that are looking for women probably aren’t interested because of you past.

I’m not going to lie, it does happen to a degree but happily it’s a far less degree than I’d feared and whilst my history has been an issue for some, it’s been really pleasing to see how many there are around that take it in their stride.

I’ve had many differing versions of profile here since I joined, ranging from ones that have no indication of my past to full disclosure and the almost mid ground I have now which is fine for me, it does what I want, tells people who I am now without any shame about my past. I am who I am and if someone doesn’t want to meet me for that, I’d rather know up front.

Isn’t that what we all want after all ?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Congratulations I hope you’ll be happy and for me, it wouldn’t change things.

You’re who you are at the end of the day. X

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By *arteene OP Woman
over a year ago

aylesbury

Thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I don't think you should be concerned about this, those who are aware of your transition into womanhood and are still interested are the ones who are worth your time. Don't let the men who view pre-op trans women as a fetish get you down and feel unwanted. What matters is the beginning of your new life and sexual exploration, congratulations Martene

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By *lan4FFUUNNMan
over a year ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

Don't worry about it you look great x

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Why worry when you are where you wanted to be.?

Respect for being true to yourself

Love

Maria

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Why worry when you are where you wanted to be.?

Respect for being true to yourself

Love

Maria "
,,, exactly this,,

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Good luck to you.

Hope to see you post more on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wanted to add my congratulations xx

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

The main thing is you've surely gone through all the effort for yourself, there is someone for everyone but tripping over them is the hard bit.

In the right place to meet sex partners as a huge variety on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

I have just had my surgery and was wondering if I will now have less guys interested in me or will there be guys who now will be interested "

I would be interested in you before and after. Like someone said before, you will lose some guys that were interested in your male genitalia. But thats never been me. Its all about the femininity for me.

You will gain others.

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By *arteene OP Woman
over a year ago

aylesbury

Thank you everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations and good luck x

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Thank you everyone xx"

How’s it going a few weeks in?

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By *arteene OP Woman
over a year ago

aylesbury

Good thank you

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Congratulations on everything you've accomplished, I hope things continue to go well and you enjoy your new chapter in life x

As for the guys - who cares? Those who have an issue with your past aren't worth your time, I'm sure a new wave of respectful gents who will accept you as you are will soon replace them.

Best of luck for the future x

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

Op please message me and I will show you just how much a guy like me loves post op girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Good thank you "

I hope you are feeling as fabulous as you look.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Congrats!

I guess the penis loving men may start to decline but you'll start getting more who are interested and fetishise post op transexuals. I'd consider it! X

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