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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever blocked someone on here that you like but that doesn't reciprocate just to prevent yourself any more pain?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I haven't but I don't get heavily invested in anyone on the net.

I understand other people do though

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope. I just don't get that attached to people anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh well never mind

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Nope.

I only block people I am certain are not my people and that I don't ever want to hear from.

Oh. And one guy who was bragging that he'd never been blocked a couple months ago. I don't remember his username to pick him off the blocklist.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast

If you feel sufficient angst that you have to block someone to stop torturing yourself, you might be in a bad place.

I have in the past got too involved with people I've met, but it is because we both got on and semed to be on the same wavelength.

If it is a one way street and they don't reciprocate, then as already stated you are too invested in something that isn't ever going to go how you believe you want it to go.

Step back.

Add them to the pile of broken dreams and show personal restraint.

I personally only block those who have either blocked me (and there are many) or something about them is not what I'm looking for.

Blocking to stop you engaging with them further isn't healthy and it sounds like obsession.

However, don't take my advice, I can't even choose a decent username for myself!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, I just like to torture myself, knowing I'll never have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’ve ever liked someone that much for it to cause me any suffering seeing them, so no.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I have, once, but it didn’t really work because I always had the option to unblock. And blocking doesn’t disappear them from the forums, so you still see everything they post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wank over them then flip them off.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Have you ever blocked someone on here that you like but that doesn't reciprocate just to prevent yourself any more pain? "

Who is it wonko?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. I can honestly say no one has ever caused me pa9n on here

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, I don't like anyone that much, this is friendly fun not serious feelings.

Mrs

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, I have. We had met and played. I was interested, they were not, but wanted to remain friends socially.

After a number of invites to meet socially which never came to fruition, I decided it wasn't worth the upset.

So blocked and moved on

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. I mean whilst my beating heart remains tortured I can still flick my bean to their pics.

Every cloud and all that! Got to look for the positives in life!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I block rarely but pain is never involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever blocked someone on here that you like but that doesn't reciprocate just to prevent yourself any more pain?

Who is it wonko?"

It was just a question that came to mind that I thought would make an interesting thread

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