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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

On the back of the thread last night, a lovely fabber floated the idea of a similar thread but where people message someone that they’ve never messaged before. So here it is!

Much the same concept as yesterday but with the one extra change;

State that you’re in on the thread, then at 8pm tonight (Tuesday 4th of April), send a lovely message to someone else on the thread that you’ve never sent a message to before.

Remember that the point is to send, not to receive!

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Well I'm willing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in. Filters will be respected of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in. I do often try to send to people I've never spoken to before anyway

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fun. Count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're in. I do often try to send to people I've never spoken to before anyway

F"

The procrastinating going well then I see....

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also in though I may not be on fab much today.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I'm going to send one or two to new people. Feel like spreading the happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd welcome a message from a lovely lady, especially as you'll be my first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in! Sounds like a bit of fun!

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

present

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on I am in x

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m in, nice to see some new victims, err I mean people.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm not in... but I love the idea, Tea.

I do that on the usual thread... is nice to say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'd welcome a message from a lovely lady, especially as you'll be my first x"

Remember, the intention and onus is on the sending, not the receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By *ummerfield94Man
over a year ago

falkirk

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame I won't be in tonight as it's a genuinely lovely thought and would've loved to have sent some out. Hope everyone gets some wonderful messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *punkandSquirtCouple
over a year ago

High Peak

We’re in

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thats what I've been doing on the other thread sending to those I've never messaged before but I will still join in on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

A nice thought and thread, OP.

Declaring myself in.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I like new people. I’m in

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm in for this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in.

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By *opking99Man
over a year ago

Wales

I’m in

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Lovely idea Tea.

Bookmarking for later.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Message someone new

...the outrageousness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

In

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

I'm in.. why not. Love it when you message someone new and just connect

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’m in, will set an alarm to remind myself

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm in!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I dunno if there is anyone left for me to message. Ya know how it is, copy and paste to every profile I see.

Pray and spray!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I'm in.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

Lol apologies for those I messaged.

I may have been premature (again)

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Just to say ,please dont message me asking me to pass messages on to people .

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I dunno if there is anyone left for me to message. Ya know how it is, copy and paste to every profile I see.

Pray and spray!"

is there really any praying involved?!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Just to say ,please dont message me asking me to pass messages on to people ."

Filters should always be respected

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By *izzer888Man
over a year ago

south Manchester

if I'm finished work I shall be hear at 8 again

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By *rodie568Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We’re in xx

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% in, I need to be more on the ‘scene’

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By *nquisitiveMan
over a year ago

dudley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The old people are boring me so I'll take someone new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a bit dubious about these kind of threads.

I will say ‘in’ however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Why not I’m in

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By *fcman1993Man
over a year ago

Wirral

I am in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *tu100Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm in

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By *iv JonesMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Love a mature lady/couple in the Cardiff/Valleys area to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

OK in always happy to compliment and receive a nice message .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn, I'm a long way from new....

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Even though I have already had some nice chats with certain people in this thread, I shall declare myself in

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I'm in but have to remove all my filters

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By *iPythonMan
over a year ago

In my pants

I’m in!!! Hmmmmm who to choose as my victim

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By *iPythonMan
over a year ago

In my pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in! someone's going to be getting a cringeworthy pun.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Last night was great. I'm in again

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

Such a lovely idea I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in n looking let's see

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By *iggy5Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

In in in!

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Great I'm in...this is a nice thread.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm in

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By *aunchycouple2410Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

We’re in

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By *litpleaserMan
over a year ago

Oldham

I'm in

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Ten minutes

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

I’m in

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Nearly time.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m up for it

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By *azbo97Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Im in

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Nearly time. "

Yes but know sexy message from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it a go

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Ten minutes "

Is that all it takes

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sent

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Sent

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Message sent

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By *iPythonMan
over a year ago

In my pants

Sent!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Haven't sent any yet as I'm still eating my fruit salad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Message sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In please. Thanks

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

This is a marvellous idea, Mr Monkey. Thank you. I shall look carefully for someone I haven't messaged before.

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I'm in for this, enjoy chatting with new people

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I think mine must be broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent a few out just now! , Great idea op!

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Oooh why not in for a bit

Sweet xx

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"We're in. I do often try to send to people I've never spoken to before anyway

F"

Dam it too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's past 8pm, though we've just read this and so we're in, tonight.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out now

Off to watch

Chelsea v Liverpool

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I think mine must be broken. "

Mine to or to old for this

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By *un_Time_Frankie_69Man
over a year ago

By The Sea

Im in x

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By *ir RickyMan
over a year ago

Rainham

Dont mind jumping in the bandwagon while watching city vs liverpool

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Ah. Blocked. Perhaps that's why I haven't messaged before. Ah well.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I forgot it sounds like filters were a stumbling block so I won’t bother now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tried same issues

Am to old for filters

I hate birthdays lol

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Sorry I totally forgot, my friend popped in to see me.

Going to send some now

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

I’m in

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

In

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Great idea, wish I'd seen it earlier.

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By *Jblue321Man
over a year ago

Chester

I’m in if this is still going post 8pm

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I'm in, messaged a few on here too.

Sure it's an old profile, but only just started really getting into things on here

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I missed this one but shall endeavour to join the next round of parchment letters, delivered with a wax seal and calligraphic scriptures.

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I was pleasantly surprised to receive a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new .. ish

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By *iPythonMan
over a year ago

In my pants

My inbox must be broke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox must be broke "
.

Mines fucked also

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

What harm can it do, I am in.

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I missed this one but shall endeavour to join the next round of parchment letters, delivered with a wax seal and calligraphic scriptures."

I think mine are still being carved on a tablet of stone.

With a quill.

With the duck still attached.

Yes, it's been that long...

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

I'm a bit late, someone send me a message

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I'm a bit late, someone send me a message "

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Done.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I'm a bit late, someone send me a message "

Your not new gorgeous

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

So many must of thought it was 8am...and not 8pm! My inbox could be broke too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in, thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *ot such a shyboy990Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Go on then I'm in

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