FabSwingers.com forum: Safe Word

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just for fun: What is your safe word, or what would it be, AND at what point would you use it?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My safe words are "No" and "Stop."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's strictly on a need to know basis and after a much longer conversation first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pineapple

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Condom safe as can be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pineapple "

Lol - I’m sure that was in a romcom!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My safe words are "No" and "Stop.""

Not “octopus” or “tentacles”? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's strictly on a need to know basis and after a much longer conversation first. "

Let’s talk!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"My safe words are "No" and "Stop."

Not “octopus” or “tentacles”? x"

Surely those would be Go words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pineapple "

I read that in Kevin Harts voice

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Supercalafragilisticexpealadocious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pineapple

Lol - I’m sure that was in a romcom!

It was

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Use the traffic light system for swinging or BDSM.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Meatloaf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just for fun: What is your safe word, or what would it be, AND at what point would you use it?

I'm on the phone

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

The running joke in our house is that my safe word is

Don't stop , don't stop, thats it , keep going , don't stop , im nearly there ! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Mr j

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Supercalafragilisticexpealadocious

It’d be all over by the time you got to the end of that word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our safe word is Kangaroo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our safe word is Kangaroo

To stop you bouncing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a freind who we are seeing this week for the first time in ages who is very much into impact play and her safe word is Spongebob Square Pants but its usually a very loud Sponge, Sponge , for fuck sake Sponge

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

From my BDSM days the traffic light method,

Green - Keep going

Amber - Slow down

Red - STOP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's strictly on a need to know basis and after a much longer conversation first. "

Shit!!! Another code to figure out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From my BDSM days the traffic light method,

Green - Keep going

Amber - Slow down

Red - STOP"

Or how I drive.

Green / go.

Amber. / get ready to go.

Red / floor it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Traffic lights for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's strictly on a need to know basis and after a much longer conversation first.

Shit!!! Another code to figure out.

Not a code. Well the traffic light system is I guess.

Never simple is it.

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Margaret Thatcher."

That brings things to an immediate halt!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Meatloaf.

This is an excellent one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's strictly on a need to know basis and after a much longer conversation first.

Shit!!! Another code to figure out.

Not a code. Well the traffic light system is I guess.

Never simple is it.

Never simple.

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

What safe word

Jess

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Meatloaf.

This is an excellent one.

And very appropriate.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes yes yes

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

""Margaret Thatcher."

That brings things to an immediate halt!"

As quickly everyone is made redundant

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

""Margaret Thatcher."

That brings things to an immediate halt!

As quickly everyone is made redundant

That just happens if you're having sex with a miner. (Minor!)

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Avocado, never used it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getthefuckoffmenowyoufuckingprick

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"Getthefuckoffmenowyoufuckingprick"

Pretty much the same as this. It gets the message straight out there.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

""Margaret Thatcher."

That brings things to an immediate halt!"

In the interest of balance

Diane Abbot

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Is that the car phone I can hear ringing Rodney?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Getthefuckoffmenowyoufuckingprick"

Hearing this in Honey Bunny from Pulp Fiction's voice

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

Safe word = Poodle.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Oh yes yes stick that pineapple up my arse.

It’s not really been working out that well for me, perhaps I should change it.

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By *es_salopesCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

We always use the traffic light system

But also three(or more taps) is important as sometimes people go non verbal or have something blocking their mouth

Also safewords are for all. Including the Dominant person/any one else in the scene. Someone else could be seeing something isn't right or is being triggered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fluggaenkoecchicebolsen.

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London

"JACOB REES-MOGG!"

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From my BDSM days the traffic light method,

Green - Keep going

Amber - Slow down

Red - STOP"

In USA I’m sure you can turn right on red. Would you switch holes in this instance?

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By *r_BigHeadMan
over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

"Oh god, I've shit myself"

Always guaranteed to stop the action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Donald Trump - guaranteed to stop things dead in their tracks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pomegranate, and if Nickelback starts playing.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Sausages.

I chose it because a) I like sausages and b) it’s not likely to fall into casual sensual bedroom conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sausages.

I chose it because a) I like sausages and b) it’s not likely to fall into casual sensual bedroom conversation."

I beg to differ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mumstopivehadenough

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I told you, I'd have to kill you...

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

I usually suggest the word "There" as a safe word, sadly so many say "their" which obviously means nothing so I keep going. ??

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Stop? Usually works

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Only those who need to know it need to know it

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By *sianflower77Woman
over a year ago

Emerald City

Baboushka!!!

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Ouch !

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Nicotinamideadeninedinucleotidephosphate

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

... not so great with a ball gag though

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By *rungeguyMan
over a year ago

leeds

Safe words are for pussys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just for fun: What is your safe word, or what would it be, AND at what point would you use it?

Quite simply "no" and "stop" - to be used at any point that either I or Mr felt uncomfortable. No for one of us is no for both of us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is 'fuck off'

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Only those who need to know it need to know it

^^ this

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

?? bananas

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

"Donald Trump - guaranteed to stop things dead in their tracks!!"

Hmm not sure about that. That would mean to any sensible person Go For It. But maybe Biden should be your Stop Word as he is already Dead Walking lol

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"My safe words are "No" and "Stop.""

Or possibly, if those ^ fail, "Fuck off"

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By *obby1Man
over a year ago

newcastle

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

"Mine is 'fuck off' "

The only words everyone knows

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

"?? bananas"

Sounds delicious so add more

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Personally not needed one but heard a few the were never used lol

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

"?? bananas

Sounds delicious so add more"

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Donald Trump - guaranteed to stop things dead in their tracks!!

Hmm not sure about that. That would mean to any sensible person Go For It. But maybe Biden should be your Stop Word as he is already Dead Walking lol"

Surely "Donald Trump" means: Move on me like a b1tch, grab my pussy, fuck me up the arse, piss on you and run away with all my money then squeal like a stuck pig when you're caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was domming a sub who tried to 'top from the bottom' so l told him to pick a safe word which was a flower, when he shouted ' daffoldil ' l carried on . He complained ,l told him l was waiting for a word like ' homepride ' etc .he never visited me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My safe words are "No" and "Stop.""

Lol YES!!! This!!!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Ginger beer

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