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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Do you apperciate hearing home truths... I was told something today that made me step back and think....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it brummies sound really funny ? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i was told a few last week and i didnt want to hear it but was refreshing that someone has the guts to tell me

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always said I'd rather people just be honest with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you apperciate hearing home truths... I was told something today that made me step back and think.... "

...if it from someones opinion i'd respect and knew well,then yes....but if it was from a complete stranger,then no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its constructive criticism then yes

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Was it brummies sound really funny ? x"

No it was from a Southerner who prob knows me better than I know myself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I prefer people who can be honest vs liars, people that tell white lies or people who are two faced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - would rather someone was honest and told me things as they were than gloss over problems and leave me making a fool of myself or doing something 'wrong'. I have more respect for people that can do that rather than pander to what they think I want to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was honest the other day with someone and got deleted and blocked on faceache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I prefer people who can be honest vs liars, people that tell white lies or people who are two faced."
i always say." if you cant say it to my face, dont say it at all"

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"i was honest the other day with someone and got deleted and blocked on faceache "

Maybe they just did not want to hear it or face up to it... I know what was said to me was right as I'd been thinking it myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you apperciate hearing home truths... I was told something today that made me step back and think.... "

Yes but there is a time and a place for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer honesty above everything and if its constructive then yes !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Was it brummies sound really funny ? x

No it was from a Southerner who prob knows me better than I know myself.. "

Wasn't me! I for one have learnt a little about myself from being on here. That my jokes are crap, for starters.

I'd be accepting that people are free to tell me things, i would not say I would always follow their advice. I know me best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constructive criticism is good. Bad manners and intolerance with insults is not good.

My theory is if they are so rude/ bad mannered/intolerant then you are better off without them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you apperciate hearing home truths... I was told something today that made me step back and think....

...if it from someones opinion i'd respect and knew well,then yes....but if it was from a complete stranger,then no! "

totally agree.

Also, I think that there's a way of saying home truths without being insulting or offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was honest the other day with someone and got deleted and blocked on faceache "

Have had similar and was almost glad of it as it meant they stopped clogging up my newsfeed with their constant whining about how hard done to they were! Chances are what you said was right on the money and so they didn't like it as they just wanted their ego massaged...could be wrong, but that's my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was honest the other day with someone and got deleted and blocked on faceache

Maybe they just did not want to hear it or face up to it... I know what was said to me was right as I'd been thinking it myself... "

nah she was just a stupid bitch who needed some truths x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was honest the other day with someone and got deleted and blocked on faceache

Have had similar and was almost glad of it as it meant they stopped clogging up my newsfeed with their constant whining about how hard done to they were! Chances are what you said was right on the money and so they didn't like it as they just wanted their ego massaged...could be wrong, but that's my experience"

my point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it brummies sound really funny ? x

No it was from a Southerner who prob knows me better than I know myself.. "
How is that possible ?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I welcome it but I don't always welcome the delivery.

There was a post on here last year that made me take a hard look at myself. It was delivered well and I didn't take offence. If it had been written in a different way I might have been offended and not learnt the lesson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, I like to think of it as an opportunity for self improvement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer honesty... But as has been said before the time and delivery is what sometimes people ignore :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather be told the truth than someone to think it and say nothing, but yes from someone I respect, not someone who thinks they know me, if I'm getting on your tits, or if you think I'm up my own ass, tell me....then I'll never speak to you again and sulk in a corner haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There,s honesty and then there,s honesty that would hurt someone,

so we like to speak our minds but if it would hurt someones feelings and is disrespectfull we wouldnt say anything, as in recieving this no we dont like it unless done in a approiate manner

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

don't need them, I am totally aware of my good points and my lesser so ones. I know when I am being a hypocrite and a twat.

I am very good at giving them though

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Nahh. I prefer to live in blissful ignorance!

Actually, at my age, I sort of know where my failings lie. I don't necessarily act on that knowledge but that's my choice - I don't really need people telling me what I already know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone can tell me something about myself that I don't know already. I know myself well enough to know what my faults are, which are basically none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone can tell me something about myself that I don't know already. I know myself well enough to know what my faults are, which are basically none. "

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