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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Double text?

If someone hasn’t read your message, will you message again or wait patiently for their reply?. Does it annoy you when others do this to you or do you just take it as them being interested?. Not just on fab but in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It it's about work then yes sometimes. Anything else not very often.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No I never double text, message or email.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Never on fab

Otherwise i will double contact friends and they me.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Sometimes, depends how long I'm kept hanging and I've I think something may have been taken in the wrong way.

I don't mind people double texting me, unless I don't like them that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes, depends how long I'm kept hanging and I've I think something may have been taken in the wrong way.

I don't mind people double texting me, unless I don't like them that is "

I’ve got too much shame. I just hope for the best

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"In real life yes "

Is this the real life, is this just fantasy?

Earworm

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes. Double messaging is what the cool kids are doing these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In real life yes

Is this the real life, is this just fantasy?

Earworm "

Haha if I had your number I’d text you every line individually

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Sometimes, depends how long I'm kept hanging and I've I think something may have been taken in the wrong way.

I don't mind people double texting me, unless I don't like them that is

I’ve got too much shame. I just hope for the best "

I'd say you can double, double message me but I've never left you hanging

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Double text?

If someone hasn’t read your message, will you message again or wait patiently for their reply?. Does it annoy you when others do this to you or do you just take it as them being interested?. Not just on fab but in general.

"
It happens all the time on here you get used to it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"In real life yes

Is this the real life, is this just fantasy?

Earworm

Haha if I had your number I’d text you every line individually "

That would wind me up if I didn't always have my phone on silent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Double text?

If someone hasn’t read your message, will you message again or wait patiently for their reply?. Does it annoy you when others do this to you or do you just take it as them being interested?. Not just on fab but in general.

It happens all the time on here you get used to it "

Oh I wasn’t complaining. Just curious

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Double text?

If someone hasn’t read your message, will you message again or wait patiently for their reply?. Does it annoy you when others do this to you or do you just take it as them being interested?. Not just on fab but in general.

"

On the rate occasion i may do so, if i think my message is lost in the pile, hasnt been read or deleted and I think we are a good match then, i will send a follow up.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

If we are chatting and then don't get a reply (even when the others are showing as being online) then we just tend to go straight to the block button.

In our book it's just bad mannered so it won't be going any further.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, I really don't care for the "rules" , with friends we'll send multiple messages, on multiple platforms and can also be having 3 different conversations, that's how we roll!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"In real life yes

Is this the real life, is this just fantasy?

Earworm

Haha if I had your number I’d text you every line individually "

Every word is even better

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I do with friends. Normally cracking memes or gifs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time we double text is when we text our teenage children and they don't reply after an hour, when you know they constantly have their phone in their hands and have read the message.

A few ????? usually does no trick

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

With people I message outside of here, yes. Otherwise, no.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"In real life yes

Is this the real life, is this just fantasy?

Earworm

Haha if I had your number I’d text you every line individually

Every word is even better"

That's a lot of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I call. I’m a monster right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only time we double text is when we text our teenage children and they don't reply after an hour, when you know they constantly have their phone in their hands and have read the message.

A few ????? usually does no trick "

I do this with my sister because I know she’s just looking at her phone ringing

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Double text?

If someone hasn’t read your message, will you message again or wait patiently for their reply?. Does it annoy you when others do this to you or do you just take it as them being interested?. Not just on fab but in general.

It happens all the time on here you get used to it

Oh I wasn’t complaining. Just curious "
I know you weren't in fact its very difficult to keep up with usernames on here so if they don't reply it doesn't actually matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on two things

1) how tired I am

2) if I checked what I sent

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

On Fab, no.

In real life, sometimes, if it's work related.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yep. Fuck convention. If I want to message someone I'm going to do so. I like those kind of freeflowing conversations where it's not hampered by waiting for the other person to reply. A lover sends me videos, voicenotes whenever that desire hits him - I quite like opening WA to see 8 odd messages from him.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Oh on Fab? Rarely. If I've not covered something I will. Think it's because I hate when you're talking, ask questions and they're ignored and the person just talks about their stuff. So I like to interact properly with messages.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"Double text?

If someone hasn’t read your message, will you message again or wait patiently for their reply?. Does it annoy you when others do this to you or do you just take it as them being interested?. Not just on fab but in general.

"

I think it all depends on the situation or how the convo has been, but I very rarely double message

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"No I call. I’m a monster right? "

... you mean actually speaking to someone, that still happens?!?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Some people are multiple messengers. It’s just in their DNA. There are some friends I can even recognise from the cadence of the notifications buzzing on my phone.

*buzz*

*buzz buzz*

*buzz*

Ah, that’ll be so-and-so then.

It’s quite endearing really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I call. I’m a monster right?

... you mean actually speaking to someone, that still happens?!? "

I’m not talking about phone sex. I’m talking about real conversation that can lead to play footsie under the table moments

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. Fuck convention. If I want to message someone I'm going to do so. I like those kind of freeflowing conversations where it's not hampered by waiting for the other person to reply. A lover sends me videos, voicenotes whenever that desire hits him - I quite like opening WA to see 8 odd messages from him. "

Oh yeah. If it’s friends I’m going to double, triple text you, leave you a voice note and call you until you answer me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are multiple messengers. It’s just in their DNA. There are some friends I can even recognise from the cadence of the notifications buzzing on my phone.

*buzz*

*buzz buzz*

*buzz*

Ah, that’ll be so-and-so then.

It’s quite endearing really."

Yes! I know what you mean. I can usually differentiate who it is with the buzz buzz too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Some people are multiple messengers. It’s just in their DNA. There are some friends I can even recognise from the cadence of the notifications buzzing on my phone.

*buzz*

*buzz buzz*

*buzz*

Ah, that’ll be so-and-so then.

It’s quite endearing really."

Oh that's lovely! I set different people as different vibrations so I know who has messaged me without looking. Is that a bit weird to admit? Possibly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are multiple messengers. It’s just in their DNA. There are some friends I can even recognise from the cadence of the notifications buzzing on my phone.

*buzz*

*buzz buzz*

*buzz*

Ah, that’ll be so-and-so then.

It’s quite endearing really.

Oh that's lovely! I set different people as different vibrations so I know who has messaged me without looking. Is that a bit weird to admit? Possibly. "

Nope, remote toys are pretty common these days

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"No I call. I’m a monster right?

... you mean actually speaking to someone, that still happens?!?

I’m not talking about phone sex. I’m talking about real conversation that can lead to play footsie under the table moments "

Get that, but even then don't the kids just use voicenotes ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time we double text is when we text our teenage children and they don't reply after an hour, when you know they constantly have their phone in their hands and have read the message.

A few ????? usually does no trick

I do this with my sister because I know she’s just looking at her phone ringing "

Sometimes it takes more than a few ???? It annoys the pluck out of them, but I just love winding them up

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In real life yes

Is this the real life, is this just fantasy?

Earworm

Haha if I had your number I’d text you every line individually

Every word is even better

That's a lot of messages "

Buzz buzz motherfucker

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If I don't get a reply, I won't normally message again. If I'm not worth a response, it's plainly going nowhere, so it's best to leave it be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's someone I get on with and am already having a lot of conversations with I'll double/triple/quadruple text.

Someone new, then no.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Yep, I'll message whatever the status of my previous, though I am normally the recipient of the double message as I am notoriously slow to reply to anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's someone I get on with and am already having a lot of conversations with I'll double/triple/quadruple text.

Someone new, then no. "

Call me. I can’t text and play Xbox at the same time but I can take a call

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

i understand that women and couples get so much mail that any reply ive sent maybe missed or has just buried.

if they started the conversation then didnt reply i just take it that they are not interested and move on.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Noooo, I never double text. If I sent them a message I’ll leave it up to them whether they reply or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just send one message generally

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm a nightmare replying so sometimes a double text gives me that kick up the arse I needed to remember, more than two though just pisses me off.

I don't double text I send one and wait.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only to people that I am already chatting to, and normally because I have sent a text and then realise there was something else I meant to say.

I tend not to send a message to someone who has not responded before (unless of course something new appears on their profile and catches my eye).

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never. I wait for them to reply

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Nope! I wait for a reply, if its urgent, I'll call them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a nightmare replying so sometimes a double text gives me that kick up the arse I needed to remember, more than two though just pisses me off.

I don't double text I send one and wait.

Mrs"

This. Sometimes I need a little “are you still alive?” Message

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