FabSwingers.com forum: Just been blocked and no idea why ?

By *jstyles47 OP Man
over a year ago

SWINDON

I've just been blocked by a woman i've been chatting to for ages and have no idea why. I thought we got on ok but it appears not. I must have bored her to death , its a funny old world lol.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Sure you're blocked and she's maybe not went UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off on a tangent here but those pants are tighter than my weekly shopping budget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off on a tangent here but those pants are tighter than my weekly shopping budget "

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off on a tangent here but those pants are tighter than my weekly shopping budget "

Comments like this, deserve a GIF option on Fab

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Off on a tangent here but those pants are tighter than my weekly shopping budget "

Cost me more than your weekly shop in oil to get them on

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Its a compliment she thought you were too good for her

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By *jstyles47 OP Man
over a year ago

SWINDON

And what is UNLOS ????

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By *p2norfolkngoodMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"And what is UNLOS ????"

User no longer on site

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By *jstyles47 OP Man
over a year ago

SWINDON

"And what is UNLOS ????

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chseers bud , i'm so thick or its just lack of sleep. Nope i'm thick.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Best way to get over this block some random users

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

must be the night for it

idiots everywhere

best you find out now than further down the line, imagine if you shelled out for a room and it was a no show?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a lot.

They hold the power and we are mere pawns in their mind games.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Happens a lot.

They hold the power and we are mere pawns in their mind games."

I work alone

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Im blocked by loads - only reason I can think of is everything i say & do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the account was suspended by admin, it shows up like a block would

I wouldn't overthink it OP

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe you said something in your last message which offended her ?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Not sure how she had the will power to not say "hasta la vista, baby", before blocking...

But check out the countless words you hate, phrases you hate or ick threads. It's a minefield out there. Say an innocent word and they're getting sick in their mouths.

And watever happens never ever say... moist panties.

I'm probably blocked by another 100 people now.

Point is, people are strange, anything can put people off, don't worry about it or overthink it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked by many here - usually best to jump to the conclusion they have decided you're a piece of shit for whatever reason. But don't let it knock you down and be yourself cause there will be other people on your page!

Some people just don't know a good thing when it's in front of them right?

(this is a joke if you have blocked me please don't report me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had the same yesterday, have been speaking to someone for sometime and now I’ve been blocked, we wasn’t going to meet because they were too far away,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocked by many here - usually best to jump to the conclusion they have decided you're a piece of shit for whatever reason. But don't let it knock you down and be yourself cause there will be other people on your page!

Some people just don't know a good thing when it's in front of them right?

(this is a joke if you have blocked me please don't report me)"

I’ll give it till 3pm before you’re off again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just don't know a good thing when it's in front of them right?

(this is a joke if you have blocked me please don't report me)

I’ll give it till 3pm before you’re off again

At this rate probably. I've upset some very influential people. It's like a man on the run out on here for me atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they accidentally blocked you?

I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?

I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.

Can you show me how quick your fingers are?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Some people are weird... I only block people if they are rude ..I chat to people all over the UK, and even though we'd probably never meet I'd certainly never block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?

I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.

Can you show me how quick your fingers are?

Sure, how are we gonna do this though? Like a typing test thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?

I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.

Unblock me for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?

I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.

Unblock me for fun "

Ah I'd never block you. Your cock is far too pretty.

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By *m_hardMan
over a year ago

Swaffham

Sometimes a really hot chat ends in me being blocked, because they wanked all the way to an orgasm.

If you have exchanged many messages and get blocked when you didn't do anything wrong, the person may be ego-dystonic about sex, be lacking in confidence or simply tired of the lies they told you throughout and want a reset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?

I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.

Can you show me how quick your fingers are?

Sure, how are we gonna do this though? Like a typing test thing? "

Yeah, something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?

I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.

Can you show me how quick your fingers are?

Sure, how are we gonna do this though? Like a typing test thing?

Yeah, something like that

Following...

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"And watever happens never ever say... moist panties. "

The only thing that goes with the word is cake

... moist cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?

I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.

Unblock me for fun

Ah I'd never block you. Your cock is far too pretty. "

Peen said don’t be a stranger

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

It happens op, block in return and move on.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Maybe she was a he? And knew the game was up...

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yea it happens, try not let it discourage you.

We block most people that message and we have no intention of chatting to/meeting. That said if we have been chatting we say why before and leave it amicably.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"And what is UNLOS ????"
she left the site to go to matchmaker. Cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens op, block in return and move on."

Yeah I've had this a few times or just stop replying.

Ive checked through messages and nothing odd. One hadn't blocked me and we thinking of meeting then noticed they meet another guy that week.

It could be so many reasons. Personal stuff, overwhelmed, other options.

At least when blocking you know it's a no. Its note frustrating when people dont reply it delete as you have no idea what's going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea it happens, try not let it discourage you.

We block most people that message and we have no intention of chatting to/meeting. That said if we have been chatting we say why before and leave it amicably. "

I like this approach. Especially as you may have done something innocently to offend someone. Left knowing where you stand.

At least then you can course correct in future if it holds true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off on a tangent here but those pants are tighter than my weekly shopping budget "

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

Relax mate.

I go to check profiles who I have never even talked to and they have already blocked me! I do wonder why, but have to shrug it off as it is not worth my time getting upset by it.

Like you, I have also chatted fine and then got blocked for no reason known to me too. but life goes on and its them who are missing out!

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Yea it happens, try not let it discourage you.

We block most people that message and we have no intention of chatting to/meeting. That said if we have been chatting we say why before and leave it amicably.

I like this approach. Especially as you may have done something innocently to offend someone. Left knowing where you stand.

At least then you can course correct in future if it holds true."

Yup exactly. How are you supposed to learn/develop if not given the opportunity?

Feel sorry for the genuine guys on here tbh as the numpties make it hard work for you.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's hard to hit the block button if you've died.

So plus side, OP, it's unlikely you bored her to death.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Maybe they decided they didn't want the chance of getting the styles clash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's either you pissed them off, you turned them off, or they just wanted to blank you off.

It happens. Consider that they did you a favour. Because clearly they're not people you should be wasting energy on.

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

It's happened to me too, I can't understand as I'm always polite to them, wish they would just have the guts to say that there not interested anymore.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"It's happened to me too, I can't understand as I'm always polite to them, wish they would just have the guts to say that there not interested anymore."

Perhaps they get inundated with messages (we do). I wouldn’t take it personally, after all it’s just a swinging site.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Probably a bloke. Had a wank and now uninterested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done this, sometimes it’s just because I’ve decided it’s not working for me and they’re not getting my hint (or even straight no) the whole ‘stay friends and chatter anyway’ thing becomes too much

I also won’t give feedback because a lot lot lot of the time it’s because of a red flag, others will want to see the same flag as I did. If I gave feedback, that would just make them more sneaky

If they’re actually a genuine person and listening to the conversation we’re having, I wouldn’t be pushed to these measures. Those genuine few are the ones I get to say a fond farewell to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just happened to me. I was chatting to a woman and getting on well. We swapped face pics and she said I was "handsome". I said I'd be up for meeting her and she said "That sounds good to me". Then suddenly I'm blocked.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I feel for you man, I share your pain.

I was talking to a charming young woman a while back and then nothing. My heart was broken. I thought we had something special, she was even a switch and witchy one at that!

Life is cruel good sir. Don't be sad that it ended, be glad that it happened. Also don't use that line when you dump someone, it doesn't go down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?"

Why block? Just don't bother with me

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with me"

Perhaps just no interest in meeting/chatting and would rather just block.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with me"
It could be they didn't like something you said on the forum

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with me"

That doesn't prevent you contacting her at any point (in theory).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum"

Yeah I do have that effect

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

This is the way OP

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"This is the way OP

They have spoken!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum

Yeah I do have that effect "
Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum

Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone"

You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum

Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone

You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years

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lol I haven't blocked you

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

people block for all reason so best not to worry about it alot pre block too there does not have to be a reason ..nobody owes you a reason

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"This is the way OP

They have spoken!"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Op seriously I understand yeah why I didn't do anything but please don't let it bother you its online and plenty more we can't always be someone's liking or they thought hey hey and it backfires at a later date I've been here for 9 years I'm still here because I've made some genuine fantastic friends and you know the rest keeps us going so keep your chin up everything happens for a reason you don't need to be the one at fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum

Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone

You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years

lol I haven't blocked you"

I remember you about 8 years ago when I first went into the forums,one of the good ones

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By *he massage manMan
over a year ago

filey

It does happen a lot and most of the time you can never work it out.

I had a couple contact me arrange a meet for a massage. All went well and afterwards I had a very complementary message and a great verification then without any messages between us they blocked me.

I then realised why they needed a varification once they had one from a couple my verification was no longer needed and I was blocked.

As someone else has said just moved on.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum

Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone

You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years

lol I haven't blocked you

I remember you about 8 years ago when I first went into the forums,one of the good ones

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Thankyou. I joined the site 6 months after it opened. Did you have a different name back then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum

Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone

You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years

lol I haven't blocked you

I remember you about 8 years ago when I first went into the forums,one of the good ones

Thankyou. I joined the site 6 months after it opened. Did you have a different name back then"

Yes I've had a few,I will tell you in a PM if you care

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....

Possibly just not her type?

Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum

Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone

You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years

lol I haven't blocked you

I remember you about 8 years ago when I first went into the forums,one of the good ones

Thankyou. I joined the site 6 months after it opened. Did you have a different name back then

Yes I've had a few,I will tell you in a PM if you care"
Yes that would be good

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Hmmmmmm.....

Part of being on fab.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Block them back and move on

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

It was probably a guy he sensed you wanted a meet so blocked

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