FabSwingers.com forum: Fabbers on dating sites

By *oofy321 OP Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

I've seen a few people from fab on other dating sites and got me wondering....if you met someone from other site...would you tell them your on here?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't keep anything from people I intend to keep in my life

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I deleted the dating app because it was too complicated to explain to a lot on them why I was on here. Gave up and just stuck with Fab

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Im not looking to date anyone with the notion of a relasionship but, if I did then, I would include what I was into here into any potential dating experiences. My "lifestyle" is part of who I am and I couldn't misslead anybody to think anything different.

They are then in the position of making an inform choice to date me or not.

But I not looking for a potential partner anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be arsed with dating sites...but yeah, why would you not tell them

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

There are dating sites that you can indicate you’re in the swinging/polyamory scene so then you’re meeting like minded people and people do meet and end up in relationships on fab too

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I wouldn’t stay on here if I met someone from a dating site (and it got serious). I’d be off!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m on dating sites. I say straight away that I’m not wanting anything serious.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd be honest with anyone I planned to have as a part of my life. But I'm not on dating sites.

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By *laytime78Man
over a year ago

Oldham

"I wouldn’t stay on here if I met someone from a dating site (and it got serious). I’d be off!"

This!

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

If i was on them or dating someone yes! Best to be open and honest.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Not on any dating sites, and not really looking for anyone.

If I did enter into a relationship with someone then yes I would say that I'm in this lifestyle as its a part of who I am.

It would be great if I found someone in this lifestyle or be open to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not on any dating sites, and not really looking for anyone.

If I did enter into a relationship with someone then yes I would say that I'm in this lifestyle as its a part of who I am.

It would be great if I found someone in this lifestyle or be open to it.

Well said

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Yep! When I had a profile on different dating sites they were told I was on here and that wouldn't change.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Soon as I'm in a serious relationship I quit here.

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By *rangesmartieWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Yep I've got chatting to people on other apps who are on here..I usually approach it by asking if they are on any other adult websites (my profiles indicate non vanilla and polyamorous) and that usually opens the conversation up. Still doesn't go anywhere though. A dating section here would go a long way.

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By *ubyBlairWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow-ish / Edinburgh

I’m on other dating sites and if I end up dating someone, I’ll most likely come off here - it’s what I’ve done in the past and then I end up back whenever I’m single again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen a few people from fab on other dating sites and got me wondering....if you met someone from other site...would you tell them your on here? "

We actually met on plenty of fish, now married, now on her together.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

I'm on dating sites aswell not logged in to any in a while but my intentions are made clear on them when I have been on and chatting that I'm not looking for any sort of commitment just to much in ny life right now for a full on relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted my profile when I was dating someone from a dating app...

I wouldn't tell them I was on here because what I do prior to dating someone is not their business...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m on other dating sites and if I end up dating someone, I’ll most likely come off here - it’s what I’ve done in the past and then I end up back whenever I’m single again. "

Yeah that's my approach also. I experimented telling women i.was only looking for open casual when I was busy building a business and studying ams out of 40+ only 1 was happy with that.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Dating sites are awful. Catfish and the like. Can't honestly be arsed with it.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I wouldn't delete my profile on here, I would hide it and not use it

Hopefully in time I would create a couples profile.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I wouldn't delete my profile on here, I would hide it and not use it

Hopefully in time I would create a couples profile.

This sounds like a plan

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By *art1968Man
over a year ago

stafford

I’m on bumble but make it clear what my lifestyle is

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By *uthentic GuyMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I’ve always been open about this when I have met up with people on dating sites, and taken a break from it when I’ve started to see someone. Most women have been very non judgemental and very interested.

Currently deleted all dating apps and being a singleton for a while.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yeah I’m always honest. It usually has a good response but occasionally I get blocked.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yeah I’m always honest. It usually has a good response but occasionally I get blocked.

They do know what they're missing

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By *aretobstupidCouple
over a year ago

Moray

I do use other apps with some success, I do tend to say first def not on for anything serious and if it develops then mention fab to them. Most of the time turns out they are or have been on fab anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll either be on here or a dating site, not both at the same time. Not ready for a full relationship, still got some healing to do, but when I am ready I’ll leave here and look for someone long term. It wouldn’t bother me explaining that I had been on here, but I’m not looking for loads of conquests, just someone to have fun with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted my profile here when I started seeing someone .

Now I'm back you can tell how that went !

Don't plan on going back to dating sites

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I prefer to date occasionally on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online dating sites are horrible.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes often get spotted on pof they tell me they seen me here! Have introduced many from there to this site along the way x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"I've seen a few people from fab on other dating sites and got me wondering....if you met someone from other site...would you tell them your on here? "

Other ?

This is not a dating site.

No I wouldn't tell them right away. What would be the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I genuinely like them and see it progressing I am open about my sex life, this included. X

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Most people seem to be on both, I've scrapped all the dating sites, it's hard to ever get anyone to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on another dating site and I would tell them about my sexual preferences etc. would depend on the person I found if I would tell them about fab.

However I would leave fab if I found someone I connected with and was to pursue a relationship with.

Counter question:

Is there many people on Fab actually looking to date?

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

It would be disastrous to start a relationship with deceit.

Surely you would be looking for a partner who shared all of your “ interests” ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t stay on here if I met someone from a dating site (and it got serious). I’d be off!"

^ this.

I'm on a dating site and fellas from here who are on same dating site tend to have blurred lines and treat the dating site like fab ie a gateway for a f*ck.

I did meet up with a chap recently from dating site who was only a couple of years older than me, seemed way older than his years. There was no "oomph" in him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be gone in a heartbeat, same as I have before, but this time there’s complications…….I’m not on any dating sites/apps

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I am on some online dating apps. For me, things get serious with someone once it becomes sexual. It’s at that point I hide my fab profile and concentrate on the relationship. I don’t share my fab experiences with them unless I sense it will be taken well.

If I have to choose, a ‘normal’ relationship is more important to me. But, ideally, I’d like to find someone who would be open to the swinging lifestyle. Meeting and dating someone I meet on Fab would be great. Interested parties will find a link to the application form at the bottom of this page.

*Please bear in mind that not all applicants will get an interview.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Depends on the relationship. Once we are at a place where we have discussed relationship boundaries openly and agreed them, I stick to my word.

I don't expect to know every detail about a partner including online activity. If I feel I can't trust them or like they don't trust me. It's not going anywhere further.

Testing me rather than talking openly is a red flag for me. If I call that out and they don't own it I am usually gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'd share that side with someone. I'd be open about kinks too. I tend to avoid the really vanilla dating sites anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So everyone knows the vanilla dating sites. What other dating sites is there ?

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

On a few and hope to meet someone who will be open to joining this with me

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Id rather date on here as i want to find a nice girl who i can also enjoy the lifestyle with as well as the usual meals, drinks, cinema holidays etc.

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