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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Your profile says next to nothing except that you're apparently a couple. Ambiguity isn't your friend on here.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You could start by writing a profile

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

You have an individual profile that claims it is a couple. And you're here saying you want a fwb, whilst your profile status says you need an affair.

All a bit confusing, tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get to meet a FRIEND with benefits much the same way with any friends ... not on demand but more naturally and agree with the above posters, your profile is just a little confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ah ok understand I haven't looked at it in a while. My gf and I started this year's ago.

Married now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?"

But don't the two words tell you an awful lot about his personality?

I think I will sign up instantly to be his friend.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ah ok understand I haven't looked at it in a while. My gf and I started this year's ago.

Married now."

Has she stopped swinging ?

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

No she's not stopped but want other fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold on. She must know about the profile then?

So she could log on any day now and see your status and get that lovely kick in the guys feeling?

Nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?"

Take some of the dick picks and action shots out, show some how do i say it, intrigue, allure, mystery, fun.

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

We both play outwith and yes she can log on. Hardly a site for judging lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"No she's not stopped but want other fun."

Is it her wanting an affair ?

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

No this is the male who posted

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm pretty sure it's not the site's fault you're struggling to find interested people

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Didn't say it was the sites fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both play outwith and yes she can log on. Hardly a site for judging lol"

You wanted advice that's what you got, no judgement in the above comments

Your profile is not enticing at all. There's so many other ways i could say it but that is the nicest. You have to take the feedback otherwise don't ask for it in the first place

Sorry. Feel free to block

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not at all.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Didn't say it was the sites fault."

You said you were finding it hard to get anywhere on the site.

I'm just saying that that's not incredibly surprising.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yeah… you’re not fooling anyone.

You’ve put about as much effort into this as others have in responding to you; none.

In fact, I’ve put more emotional energy into this post than you have into your profile…

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I ok then

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?"

Any little mistake in your profile will be picked on by the gang..they hunt in packs...always pick the negative and pounce..Next day they in mental health threads saying be kind to each other

I know I know ill be chastised for this....my advice is do your profile your way...ask for encouragement not criticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

Any little mistake in your profile will be picked on by the gang..they hunt in packs...always pick the negative and pounce..Next day they in mental health threads saying be kind to each other

I know I know ill be chastised for this....my advice is do your profile your way...ask for encouragement not criticism "

logic doesn’t live here.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You seem to be implying swingers are indiscriminate people without boundaries or morals - completely untrue.

I’m in your area and wouldn’t be interested as I don’t play with cheats and that appears to be what you are at the moment. Despite the supposed couples profile. It’s very unclear.

If you’re genuinely in a swinging/enm couple then set up a proper couples profile with her input and consent.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

Any little mistake in your profile will be picked on by the gang..they hunt in packs...always pick the negative and pounce..Next day they in mental health threads saying be kind to each other

I know I know ill be chastised for this....my advice is do your profile your way...ask for encouragement not criticism

logic doesn’t live here."

Your right but its welcome to visit sometime

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You seem to be implying swingers are indiscriminate people without boundaries or morals - completely untrue.

I’m in your area and wouldn’t be interested as I don’t play with cheats and that appears to be what you are at the moment. Despite the supposed couples profile. It’s very unclear.

If you’re genuinely in a swinging/enm couple then set up a proper couples profile with her input and consent."

Not implying anything. And already said she's on this so hardly cheating. But thanks for the advice lol

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yeah… you’re not fooling anyone.

You’ve put about as much effort into this as others have in responding to you; none.

In fact, I’ve put more emotional energy into this post than you have into your profile…

"

Is it a full time job for you running your profile on a sex site lol

If so get a life mate.

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?"

Sorry wrong I said any advice or interested people.

Not interesting.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?"

My advice:

-sort out your expectations.

-sort out your profile.

-put effort in.

And no, I'm not interested.

Good luck.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?

Sorry wrong I said any advice or interested people.

Not interesting."

Yeah Red. He doesn't care if they're interesting. Just as long as they have no standards

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?

Sorry wrong I said any advice or interested people.

Not interesting.

Yeah Red. He doesn't care if they're interesting. Just as long as they have no standards "

It's a sex site no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?

Sorry wrong I said any advice or interested people.

Not interesting.

Yeah Red. He doesn't care if they're interesting. Just as long as they have no standards "

Got it

Well this thread will have helped your cause infinitely, I’m sure.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?

Sorry wrong I said any advice or interested people.

Not interesting.

Yeah Red. He doesn't care if they're interesting. Just as long as they have no standards

It's a sex site no?"

Of course it is. That's why you're so wildly successful here

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

My advice:

-sort out your expectations.

-sort out your profile.

-put effort in.

And no, I'm not interested.

Good luck."

Sorry but where is fabville?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

My advice:

-sort out your expectations.

-sort out your profile.

-put effort in.

And no, I'm not interested.

Good luck.

Sorry but where is fabville?

"

It doesn't matter.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Looking for a JCB. Any advice?

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

My advice:

-sort out your expectations.

-sort out your profile.

-put effort in.

And no, I'm not interested.

Good luck.

Sorry but where is fabville?

It doesn't matter. "

Maybe sort your profile lol

Good advice.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

My advice:

-sort out your expectations.

-sort out your profile.

-put effort in.

And no, I'm not interested.

Good luck.

Sorry but where is fabville?

It doesn't matter.

Maybe sort your profile lol

Good advice."

I am happy with my profile as it is

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

My advice:

-sort out your expectations.

-sort out your profile.

-put effort in.

And no, I'm not interested.

Good luck.

Sorry but where is fabville?

It doesn't matter.

Maybe sort your profile lol

Good advice.

I am happy with my profile as it is "

Me too actually I think I'll keep it as is now after all the advice lol

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Ignore the woman on the forums..they only 5% of women on this site....keep trying op..you give hope to us dickheads

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

My advice:

-sort out your expectations.

-sort out your profile.

-put effort in.

And no, I'm not interested.

Good luck.

Sorry but where is fabville?

It doesn't matter.

Maybe sort your profile lol

Good advice.

I am happy with my profile as it is

Me too actually I think I'll keep it as is now after all the advice lol

"

Why are you getting pissy, when you ask for advice?

Your profile and this thread tell about 4 different stories and your attempts to clarify things just make things worse.

Now you're not cheating, but you're "bored" and need an "affair." Honestly, would you believe you?

You are more than welcome to dismiss this or tell us to sod off, but as things currently stand, you are not going to get anywhere.

My advice is to start a new profile (as your current want will be forever linked with this train-wreck of a thread). Additionally, no one is going to believe you are a couple on the current profile.

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?

My advice:

-sort out your expectations.

-sort out your profile.

-put effort in.

And no, I'm not interested.

Good luck.

Sorry but where is fabville?

It doesn't matter.

Maybe sort your profile lol

Good advice.

I am happy with my profile as it is

Me too actually I think I'll keep it as is now after all the advice lol

Why are you getting pissy, when you ask for advice?

Your profile and this thread tell about 4 different stories and your attempts to clarify things just make things worse.

Now you're not cheating, but you're "bored" and need an "affair." Honestly, would you believe you?

You are more than welcome to dismiss this or tell us to sod off, but as things currently stand, you are not going to get anywhere.

My advice is to start a new profile (as your current want will be forever linked with this train-wreck of a thread). Additionally, no one is going to believe you are a couple on the current profile. "

Pissy?

Why does this anger you so much?

I'm not constantly on this site updating a profile like you or others.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Pissy?

Why does this anger you so much?

I'm not constantly on this site updating a profile like you or others.

"

Doesn't anger me in the slightest. I'm having quite a pleasant chill day as it happens.

In fact, I'm so relaxed that I took some time to respond to someone om the forums asking for advice.

I haven't got a clue when we last updated our profile.

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Pissy?

Why does this anger you so much?

I'm not constantly on this site updating a profile like you or others.

Doesn't anger me in the slightest. I'm having quite a pleasant chill day as it happens.

In fact, I'm so relaxed that I took some time to respond to someone om the forums asking for advice.

I haven't got a clue when we last updated our profile. "

My apologies I thought I was replying to someone who sent private message.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?

Sorry wrong I said any advice or interested people.

Not interesting.

Yeah Red. He doesn't care if they're interesting. Just as long as they have no standards

It's a sex site no?"

No! It’s a swinging site. This is exactly the problem your attitude.

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"…and I’m guessing you’ve recently updated it and now it’s two words. You say in your OP on this thread, that you’d like someone interesting… do you see where I’m going with this?

Sorry wrong I said any advice or interested people.

Not interesting.

Yeah Red. He doesn't care if they're interesting. Just as long as they have no standards

It's a sex site no?

No! It’s a swinging site. This is exactly the problem your attitude. "

And what exactly is swinging?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

And what exactly is swinging?

"

It doesn't involve payment

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By *ino12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

And what exactly is swinging?

It doesn't involve payment"

And who said anything about payment.

This is getting ridiculous now.

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Looking for fun but finding this site hard to get anywhere. Any advice or interested people?"
you're bored and need an affair and you're a couple lol

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