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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But does that make a good fuck?

How would you rate yourself firstly in looks department and fuckability

Let's see who's shallow enough to give themselves a 10... because none of us are "that" perfect

I'm a solid 5 in looks and 5 again in fuckability

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I’m a 10.

The most handsome man you’ve ever put yourself through the worst 15 seconds of ‘sexual’ experience with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks 5 or 6

Sex 6 or 7, with rare glimpses of 9 & 10

I think who you're with sexually is quite often the decider

As much as you'd like them to, some people just don't bring the 9's & 10's out in you

And, for measure, there are some that would probably say the same about me

Attraction & compatibility in equal measures make for best results

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Probably a 5 - I’m not conventionally attractive both in the face and height department.

Sex wise - at my peak I was great. But I’m a bit out of practice now.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Is that the latest version is Shania Twains song?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's not shallow if you say 10. I'd rather that then forced self deprecation alluding to a modesty/desire to be complimented.

Physically? I'd say I'm a solid 6. Chubby. Cute-ish face, good bum and boobs. The sort of body you can easily grab, enjoy the feeling of my skin under your hands. Bit too much of me but working on it. My hair is a bit frizzy though.

Sex wise? If you're really into me and I'm into you? Decent 7. Fuckability is about that feedback loop of desire to some extent. In my experience when someone is into me, my fuckability rocks up to an 8. People really want to fuck me when they're interested. Easily aroused by me.

Tl;dr? Six for physically, 7 for fuckability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is thinking you’re a 10 shallow?

I don’t think I’m a 10 but I think I’m conventionally attractive. As for fuckability, I’m okay I think. I’ve never had any complaints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks about a 5

Fuckability 10+

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

5x5 for me.

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By *irtdiggerABCMan
over a year ago

torbay

Well, I've had more women stay with me for th sex, thank for my looks, so I'm going to weigh in with a 4/10 for looks, and an 8/10 for fuckability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a solid 10

Percent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a fuck what I really think about myself.....

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I say plain average so 5, nothing that would get anyone going wow but then no one going yuk so 5

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Probably a 5 with a paper bag on my head

Fuckability, a self assured 7.2

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm shallow! So a 10 !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a 6

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Its really not for me to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About a 6 "

6.5 at least,

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

What are you scaling yourself against?

Attractiveness: to some and not to others.

Sex: Depends on my mood and whom I with.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Beauty in the eye of the beholder

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

As sex is about chemistry it really depends on who I'm with. I've been a 2 but also a 9.

Looks wise I'm ok.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I prefer to get a rating from the other person. And of course give one in return

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

I'd give myself a 7, I scrub up alright

To others I may rate more or less, Hades would rate me a 10 (he'd better anyway..) If a skinny chatterbox doesn't float your boat then I'd be a generous 2

Fuckability, with plenty of sugar in me I'm an 8/9 if we're into each other. I've definitely felt like a top scoring fucker now and then

Cherry x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I’m a 10.

The most handsome man you’ve ever put yourself through the worst 15 seconds of ‘sexual’ experience with."

I'm the opposite.

What I lack in beauty I make up for in filthy sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to get a rating from the other person. And of course give one in return

I'd give you one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About a 6

6.5 at least,

Lol 6.75 maybe

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I prefer to get a rating from the other person. And of course give one in return

I'd give you one"

Ditto

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I’m a 10.

The most handsome man you’ve ever put yourself through the worst 15 seconds of ‘sexual’ experience with."

Nah, you're just a 10. Maybe a 9.5.....

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm probably a solid 5.4 looks-wise. I'd like to think I'm a better fuck though. 7. Maybe 7.5

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I prefer to get a rating from the other person. And of course give one in return

See, I reckon you're about an eight or a nine

Maybe even nine and a half in four beers' time

This song is relevant for *every* thread today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About a 6

6.5 at least,

Lol 6.75 maybe "

7 at least

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

My wrist is a solid 10

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I prefer to get a rating from the other person. And of course give one in return

See, I reckon you're about an eight or a nine

Maybe even nine and a half in four beers' time

This song is relevant for *every* thread today!

Jx"

That’s because it’s a top tune

I’d give you one… or maybe 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be up to the person on the receiving end of the sex to say what you are same with if they find you attractive or not I'm sure we are all not everyone's cup of tea either in sex or looks

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

It's so difficult to rate yourself, isn't it? If I go by all the flattery from guys trying to bed me, I'm a 7 or 8. I'd have said maybe a 5 or 6 at my best.

In bed? I'd like to think I'm interactive, passionate and considerate, so maybe 6 or 7 on a good day?

But who knows, really. The opinion that's important is the one of the person into you. And if they're into you, it's probably high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does hot, cute and handsome translate to numbers? Asking for a friend

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

I had a couple of beutiful lovers thay were rather shit in bed.

Me I'd rate myself as 6.5 in looks and 8.5 lover

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Looks, could be anywhere between a 2 and a 10 depending on my own mood or the perception of the person seeing me. Generally, I believe myself to be attractive, and perfectly okay with the fact that I'm not attractive to everyone.

Sexually, it's all about the chemistry. With my partners I'm definitely rocking a high 9 to 10 scenario. With more casual encounters, I reckon my enthusiasm and skills still put me pretty high, and generally I know before that stage if the chemistry is there and so don't actually play with anyone where I think it will fall flat. I haven't had consensual sex with someone I didn't feel that with for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fuck better than I look.

I also kiss better than I cook!

Possibly why I'm single

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I fuck better than I look.

I also kiss better than I cook!

Possibly why I'm single

You kiss like your life depends on it. Solid 10 in that department.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

When I was regularly going out I met some really stunning Trans Women and TV’s. Honestly they were glamorous, tall, slim and beautifully made up and dressed. Next to them I felt small and frumpy, so I don’t kid myself, I’m nowhere near as convincing or attractive as those girls.

They were 10’s I’m a 9.5, just need a bit more height

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How does hot, cute and handsome translate to numbers? Asking for a friend "

It's the lawn darts method of scoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fuck better than I look.

I also kiss better than I cook!

Possibly why I'm single

You kiss like your life depends on it. Solid 10 in that department.

Somethings should never be half hearted

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Would say I'm just about average or slightly better so maybe 6 in looks 5-6 in bed . Hubby better in the bedroom hard to keep up with him xx

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Would say I'm just about average or slightly better so maybe 6 in looks 5-6 in bed . Hubby better in the bedroom hard to keep up with him xx"

Nope sorry, a perfect 10 for that bum alone

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Thank you so much for complement hubby loves my bum to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I look better than I fuck.

I work really hard on things like makeup so I'd say I was a real world 8 or a fab 10 for looks but I'd suggest I'm only a 5 for bedroom skills...

... Unless you're into very visual roleplay as your kink.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Looks? 8. I'm happy with myself. I know I have a great body. I also think I have a rather plain face.

Fuckability? 7. When I'm in the mood, I reckon I'm a great shag.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Vagina dentata

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

11 for both…

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"Is that the latest version is Shania Twains song?"

I only came here for Shania jokes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"11 for both…"

Only Wonko scores 11 in both!

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"But does that make a good fuck?

How would you rate yourself firstly in looks department and fuckability

Let's see who's shallow enough to give themselves a 10... because none of us are "that" perfect

I'm a solid 5 in looks and 5 again in fuckability"
How can you rate yourself on looks to one woman i may be attractive and to another I'm not, I'm a 5 and a 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks, bang average.

Talent, middle of the road.

Oral skills, bordering on godlike

Tolerance to idiots, non existent

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

I’d put myself at below average in looks, average in “size”. Not really sure how I’d rate myself as far as skills go, but usually get a big smile afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But does that make a good fuck?

How would you rate yourself firstly in looks department and fuckability

Let's see who's shallow enough to give themselves a 10... because none of us are "that" perfect

I'm a solid 5 in looks and 5 again in fuckabilityHow can you rate yourself on looks to one woman i may be attractive and to another I'm not, I'm a 5 and a 5

Very true..not saying you should judge ones ability yourself

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Good face (most of the time), decent bod. Lacks height. Reckon it's a 7 overall. 7.5 maybe.

Good looking enough to get dates, which is lucky as the sex is average (we can't all be the 'best you've ever had', can we?). Might not win any awards, but not yet been thrown out of bed either.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Looks...8 on a good day, when I've done hair, make up and made an effort.

Fucks... Probably a 4, good kisser but not as supple as I used to be, don't want to do 537 different positions, prefer to be pleased these days rather than do the pleasing.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Looks…. I’d say 6/7. I won’t make you vomit, but you’re not gonna snap your neck with a double take at my beauty.

Fuckability. 5 for style. I’m clumsy & dorky. But I would give myself a solid 10 for enthusiasm

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

I think we are not bad for are age been told I'm a great fuck Mrs m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!

Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!

Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.

Except me…. I aim way way way too high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!

Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.

Except me…. I aim way way way too high

I count on it, it's how I pull the hot guys.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I rate myself a 10 in every department.

What shallow people rate me is out of my control.

What those who don't fancy me rate me is out of my control and they can't rate me on the fuck scale cos they don't fancy me and won't be fucking me.

What those who fancy me rate me as is out of my control and what they want to rate me on the fuck scale will be according to how 'they' like to fuck ... so that's out of my control too ..

I'm a 10.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!

Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.

Except me…. I aim way way way too high

I count on it, it's how I pull the hot guys. "

Does it work?

There’s a few absolute hotties…. Should I go for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!

Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.

Except me…. I aim way way way too high

I count on it, it's how I pull the hot guys.

Does it work?

There’s a few absolute hotties…. Should I go for it?

Shy kids don't get sweets you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that most of us are trying to get into someone's knickers or get out of them...I'm not sure compliments are to be believed.

Someone is never more complimentary than when they're trying to get you out of your knickers...apparently.

So you'd need to ask the people who have had the 'pleasure' cos I don't see what they see...solid 2

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Looks I'm average but even some of my exs have wanted to sleep with me again after breaking up so I guess I'm not bad at the sex

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West

Looks went a long time ago

Stamina faded away aswell

But all those tricks you pick up over time, they never leave you

John x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 0 for sure.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why is it shallow to have high self esteem?

I'm realistic enough to be aware that how I see myself is most definitely not how others see me. I value myself but I have not control over what anyone else thinks of how I look or for that matter how I fuck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

So basically I'm a 10.

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

Well looks wise I’m just the plain girl next door so a 5.

Fuckability, depends on who I’m with and how we click. Would like to think a 6/6.5. But with hubby a definite 10 lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"So basically I'm a 10. "

How conceited !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"So basically I'm a 10.

How conceited !

Yep!

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

Can’t rate myself and wouldn’t want to. As someone already said, if the compliments on here were to be believed, we must all be 10’s. I know I’m not a 10 or anywhere near. I look in the mirror and see many flaws, but I would rate myself as average for looks and fuckability will all depend who I’m with. If I’m into them I will definitely make more of an effort than if I’m not that bothered by them.

We all like different things so I might be a 10 to one guy and a 2 to another. I’m happy not to be everyone’s cup of tea as long as I’m someone’s lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"So basically I'm a 10.

How conceited !

Yep!

i gave myself a 10

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"So basically I'm a 10.

How conceited !

Yep!

i gave myself a 10

I'm reminded of that great philosopher Justin Bieber who advised that if I liked the way I looked that much I should go and love myself.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Some of you rate yourselves far too low.

I'm about a 3 or a 4.

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By *ilvelicker60Man
over a year ago

kettering

I’m happy with myself. Definitely not a 10 probably a 5. Others are happy with my sex but probably a 6. All of which is room for improvement.

If you’re a 10 you can only go down from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id have to say 4 and 6

Full of self confidence me

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

With three kids, someone found me attractive once. Meet me to gauge the score to you

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London

There's a bit on the back of my neck that's a 10. The rest of me brings it down. But I'm OK with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unrateable but not had any complaints or anyone recoil in horror yet so I can't be that bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!

Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.

Except me…. I aim way way way too high

I always "aim" high

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

I’m gonna say

Looks = -1 (look at my pics)

Fuck-ability = 1 (as not had sex since 2011)

Or please rate me as I hate what I see in the mirror

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why is it shallow to have high self esteem?

This

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!

Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.

I count on that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of those threads where you hope your lovers don't rate you (or then again, maybe you hope they do).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is one of those threads where you hope your lovers don't rate you (or then again, maybe you hope they do)."

No it's a bit of fun...."why so serious"

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Probably a 5 for looks. Too fat but tall helps a lot.

For sex I hope I’m higher, although as others have said it’s really how others rate me. I’m sure there have been a few 3s but with the ones who matter it’s been much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of those threads where you hope your lovers don't rate you (or then again, maybe you hope they do).

No it's a bit of fun...."why so serious""

I have never been called serious. Other terms such as sarcastic, ironic, idiot, burke, chatty, shallow...but never serious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is one of those threads where you hope your lovers don't rate you (or then again, maybe you hope they do).

No it's a bit of fun...."why so serious"

I have never been called serious. Other terms such as sarcastic, ironic, idiot, burke, chatty, shallow...but never serious.

Never watch The Dark Knight either

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Looks department- I’d say I was a solid 8 till last year, now I’d say a 6

Fuckability is my strength… a good, good 8.5/9

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

I'm about average in looks but being tall appears to counteract that a little.

My personality makes up for my visual deficiency somewhat.

My self proclaimed sexual ability then makes up for some of my lack of personality.

I'd say I probably average about 7/10 across all areas.

Apart from that I'm fucking awesome.. or is that awesome fucking.. I can't remember.

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