FabSwingers.com forum: Show me the sex!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we all know that most couples love seeing their partner get down and dirty with someone else.

But how do you feel about potential meets doing it?

Say there's someone you talk to, it's got a little x-rated, you plan on meeting. Then they message saying "hey, I met xxx the other day, she/he/they have a video of us on their profile if you wanna see?" - just to clarify the video is public with both consenting to anyone seeing it.

Would you look?

Would it turn you on?

Or would it be an instant hell no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd look.

Purely for research purposes

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’d look but I’m a shameless perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look: Yes

Turn me on: Hell yeah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd look.

Purely for research purposes

But would it turn you on?

Even a tad?

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d look but I’m a shameless perve

That's the best kind of perv.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look: Yes

Turn me on: Hell yeah! "

With you on both counts.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes, I would totally look. It may or may not be exciting, but it would certainly be informative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we all know that most couples love seeing their partner get down and dirty with someone else.

But how do you feel about potential meets doing it?

Would you look?

Would it turn you on?

Or would it be an instant hell no.

I wouldn't be able to resist looking and I suspect it would turn me on, depending on what was on it - if they're bareback in it then my meet with them won't be happening, for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no issue with people I'm talking to sleeping with other people - isn't that the whole point? Why would anyone have any reason to feel anything other than positivity about it?

I'm less keen on it all being shared on here, but the act itself, I actively encourage people I'm talking to when they mention it. It happened last weekend in fact, but happily it wasn't plastered all over Fab because it was nothing to do with Fab.

I find the notion that every sexual interaction we have, has to be somehow documented on here, to be a very odd concept.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I’d give it no more thought than a paper bag blowing in the wind.

I’m all about shared experiences and whatever my ‘friends’ get up to outside of that is theirs.

For the record… nobody records us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather find out for myself, like a little bit of mystery, all in the discovery for me personally ally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d look because I’m too nosey not to but then I’d probably get the ick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd look.

Purely for research purposes

But would it turn you on?

Even a tad?"

More than a tad but we do this because as a couple we enjoy seeing each other in action. I'm on the fence how I'd feel as a singleton if someone said go look at a video of me shagging someone else. Personally I think I'd prefer to know them sexually first before seeing them sexing.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It wouldn't turn me on if I hadn't met them, unless I had that sort of dynamic with both of them/was interested in them both. I'd probably watch it out of curiosity.

It would turn me off in some cases that I'm not going to get into.

I'm not a swinger. There's a part of me that's like fuck yeah, you get that cock/cunt. It's hot when people are genuinely into others, you can feel that chemistry almost sizzling on the screen.

Generally I wouldn't think hell no.

I toy with the idea of making videos of me with others public but a part of me doesn't want to put others off - whether that's through viewing me or me being with others.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

No problem here , I’d love to see it

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I'd look.

Purely for research purposes

But would it turn you on?

Even a tad?"

No. I'm only interested in how my meeting would go, otherwise, you'd be measuring performance against another. It pays not to criticise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really interested in seeing (or reading) what (potential) meets get up to with others

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Not really interested in seeing (or reading) what (potential) meets get up to with others"

Same with cringeworthy veris that go into explicit detail

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d sigh that heavy sigh and acknowledge that sinking feeling I’d have gotten.

Then I’d feel the drying up of my vaginal fluids and watch with sadness as my fanny spluttered out the words “not today m’lady” as it dawns on said fanny that the potential disco stick of joy has been dancing and spreading joy elsewhere. Which obviously said fanny knew, deep down, but when you say it out loud it becomes real. And a bit of a turn off.

Sad times.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't think I'd look.

There might be something that would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not really interested in seeing (or reading) what (potential) meets get up to with others

Same with cringeworthy veris that go into explicit detail

Personally I don't like veris either, and yeah I couldn't careless what they do elsewhere.

But seeing a guy I fancy having sex is just hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. They wouldn't be meeting me anyway

Their not desperate enough if they are getting meets with others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think I'd look.

There might be something that would put me off. "

Better to know before you get nekked with them!

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If I was totally horny for them, I'd be tempted to watch.

I have in the past directed people to profiles of those we've met who had videos of it up. They're all in friends only last time I checked, before anyone gets nosey

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’d look but I’m a shameless perve

That's the best kind of perv."

You inspired me to post a new video, for shameless perving purposes.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd think they were a bit of a clown for thinking I'd find it impressive

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes we would look, it's totally fine, can't see any problems with it. It's only like watching porn where you get to have sex with the stars.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd look for compatibility, I've seen some that totally put me off who we were chatting to and some that made me more comfortable.

Can't say I've been turned on by them though, generally pics/videos do little for me.

Mrs

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nah. If I want to meet someone I want to make our own experience rather than see someone else's.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Realistically I would probably end up looking out of morbid curiosity but it would likely put me off.

I'd end up down the comparison rabbit hole or just get the ick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! But only because it does nothing for me.

Pxx

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"So we all know that most couples love seeing their partner get down and dirty with someone else.

But how do you feel about potential meets doing it?

Would you look?

Would it turn you on?

Or would it be an instant hell no.

This is a swinging site so I have no issue with people to whom I’m talking meeting others. But I don’t want to hear the intimate details, never mind watch the graphic show on fuckavision.

That is probably rooted in my own insecurities about me not measuring up.

By all means meet and fuck who you want but that’s a memory for you, not me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So we all know that most couples love seeing their partner get down and dirty with someone else.

But how do you feel about potential meets doing it?

Would you look?

Would it turn you on?

Or would it be an instant hell no.

This is a swinging site so I have no issue with people to whom I’m talking meeting others. But I don’t want to hear the intimate details, never mind watch the graphic show on fuckavision.

That is probably rooted in my own insecurities about me not measuring up.

By all means meet and fuck who you want but that’s a memory for you, not me."

Fuckavision, you should trademark this.

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