FabSwingers.com forum: Mind blown

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yesterday I met my ex for coffee and after a few difficult topics of conversation he told me when we met I was too passionate probably because I'd never been treated properly in relationship. I didn't know if I should be insulted or flattered. I ended up insulted.

My mind was blown.

What things have people said or done that have blown your mind recently?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

If you don't have passion you have no creative imagination.

No passion no spirit.

No passion no lust for live.

I don't mean to offend but, are you sure he isn't a sociopath.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you don't have passion you have no creative imagination.

No passion no spirit.

No passion no lust for live.

I don't mean to offend but, are you sure he isn't a sociopath.

I agree . I am passionate. I'm a hopeless romantic too and I love that about me so I won't ever be changing.

Not offended. You could be right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there is absolutely nothing wrong in being passionate. It fires the soul to make life worth living!

Think you ex is just trying to knock your confidence, don't let him. Chin up...

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"If you don't have passion you have no creative imagination.

No passion no spirit.

No passion no lust for live.

I don't mean to offend but, are you sure he isn't a sociopath.

I agree . I am passionate. I'm a hopeless romantic too and I love that about me so I won't ever be changing.

Not offended. You could be right!"
And no other eprson has the right to expect you to change, once they do, it stops becoming about enjoying each other to becoming about possession. If you can't Embrace, accept and love oneself, how you you do these with another.

A very attractive quality and you are fantastic who you are.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It blows my mind that someone would meet their ex for coffee and post mortem their relationship

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By *ommyTighMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Wow - he moaned about you being too passionate, you’re well out of that one. What person ever moans about their partner being too passionate!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow - he moaned about you being too passionate, you’re well out of that one. What person ever moans about their partner being too passionate!!!"

…. Or to open and honest??

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"It blows my mind that someone would meet their ex for coffee and post mortem their relationship "
It blows my mind that someone would assume the context of why two people would meet based on a part of a conversation they were not part of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It blows my mind that someone would meet their ex for coffee and post mortem their relationship "

To be fair I wonder that too.

Thanks for answering the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It blows my mind that someone would meet their ex for coffee and post mortem their relationship "

It can be a positive learning experience, depending on your perspective of course

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sounds to me like he has certain ideas about how women should behave e.g. what he is calling passionate , i've taken to mean you are sexual or sexually forward. He's also put that down to 'being treated badly in relationships' and not just viewed you as a sexual being.

Maybe you were too strong for him.

What has someone said to me that has blown my mind lately ....... uhmmmmm

I'll have to come back to you on that one cos no one has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind is pretty unblowable. (It's a word....)

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

You shouldn't let anyone tell you your "too" anything sounds like he's reflecting some deep issues about himself onto you. Don't let him dull your shine. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he's created an excuse to make himself feel better!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've seen too much and experienced too much over the years to be genuinely surprised by any word or deed.

I was probably a child the last time anything blew my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to be blown.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Sounds like it was wise for him to be your ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those ex's always leave you with those nuggets.

Basically putting it in you that they couldn't handle you

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Too passionate? As in, too intense?

Or too passionate in an erotically charged dialled up to 11 kind of way?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You can never be too passionate. But you can have incompatible levels of passion.

He’s an ex for a reason.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Sounds like a gas lighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can never be too passionate. But you can have incompatible levels of passion.

He’s an ex for a reason. "

Exactly. Too passionate *for him*. Not too passionate! There’s an important distinction there.

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Sounds like he was too insecure to handle your passion.

Keep on being your wonderful passionate self x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

The guy is obviously published.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Surprised you didn't blow a fuse!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Yesterday I met my ex for coffee and after a few difficult topics of conversation he told me when we met I was too passionate probably because I'd never been treated properly in relationship. I didn't know if I should be insulted or flattered. I ended up insulted.

My mind was blown.

What things have people said or done that have blown your mind recently?

I wonder if that means he felt your passion wasn’t properly controlled in previous relationships. Maybe your passion intimated him because he’s the man and should lead on that in a relationship. I hope not, but that’s what the phrasing makes me think. Abhorrent views, if so. There are still far too many people (men, if I’m being honest with my viewpoint) in the world who think they should control relationships.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"If you don't have passion you have no creative imagination.

No passion no spirit.

No passion no lust for live.

I don't mean to offend but, are you sure he isn't a sociopath.

I agree . I am passionate. I'm a hopeless romantic too and I love that about me so I won't ever be changing.

Not offended. You could be right!"

dont be offended. you have a quality others hide away.

keep it, its you.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

He very obviously just wasn't enough for you.

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By *lattyukbiMan
over a year ago

Rugby

My mind was blown.

What things have people said or done that have blown your mind recently?

I hooked up with a lady from fab once and we had an amazing afternoon of fun, she was an amazing squirter and pretty much every soft furnishing in the place needed to be cleaned.

I produce a fair amount of precum… nothing unusual in that…

Yet after departing she messaged to say we wouldn’t meet again as she didn’t like how wet my cock got…

Mind blown…!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that puts you down is projecting their own insecurities on to you. Is usually emotionally unavailable and immature and knows it. But would be unlikely to admit it let alone address it and will most likely destroy you first in order to keep weaknesses hidden and keep up their false persona.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I dont really get why you would want to put petrol on the embers

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Too passionate. What does that even mean? Difficult to comment without knowing exactly in what context he meant it.

The Matrix being nearly 25 years ago has blown my mind.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Very little blows my mind anymore. People have said and done (or not done) lots recently but it doesn't blow my mind as I'm used to it, I choose to walk away and not engage in their behaviour.

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