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By *acDreamy OP   Man
over a year ago

Wirral

If you have had a tough day, how do you reset? How do you wash away the badness?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out somewhere.

Shower and a cry.

Wine and comfort food.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'll send you a boobie hug, MacD...

And I tend to let it fester for too long, have a bath and a big walk, by which time I'm exhausted and go to sleep.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

In my line of work I encounter death more than most. In order for me to reset, I have a cry and then soak in a got bubble bath with a glass of wine while listening to relaxing music.

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By *acDreamy OP   Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Boobie hugs and wine have it so far!

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By *acDreamy OP   Man
over a year ago

Wirral


"In my line of work I encounter death more than most. In order for me to reset, I have a cry and then soak in a got bubble bath with a glass of wine while listening to relaxing music."

A lot of resilience and coping is just assumed in some roles. It must be tough.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm going to eat a lot of chocolate.

A hug would sort me out, but I'm on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have had a tough day, how do you reset? How do you wash away the badness? "

A drop of brandy and a few episodes of trailer park boys does the trick.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Hey Mac, hope you're okay.

So, I do a number of things. Watching/listening to something cathartic really helps. A hot shower and early night in freshly washed bedding. And cuddles from the fiancé, talking to loved ones, platonic and otherwise. Not about my day. About daftness, things that take my mind off it.

Brooklyn Nine-Nine really helps lift the mood as well. Or Peep Show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I watch something familiar that I know I will enjoy - a sitcom, or some daft sci-fi/horror. Hugs if they are available. Maybe a Deliveroo and, most importantly, lots if chocolate and cake.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I tend to take 5 in a quite space, maybe have a cry, and then curl up on the sofa with my dog, comfort food with cuppa or gin!

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By *929Man
over a year ago

northumberland

High fat salted meats, crisps and gym

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

evening walk with the dog then chill out with a few or more cold san miguels,,

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By *urious is the VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

https://www.sja.org.uk/courses/workplace-resilience-and-wellbeing/

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I think my version of a tough day and yours are probably somewhat different, C. I honestly don't know how I'd cope with the sorts of things you might have to. I usually have a good rant to a willing listener and then just veg out. Sometimes I'll go to the gym or for a push.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll send you a boobie hug, MacD...

And I tend to let it fester for too long, have a bath and a big walk, by which time I'm exhausted and go to sleep."

Ooh, can I have a boobie hug too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a run or gym. Hot shower, PJ'S Netflix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you’re okay OP!

If I’ve had a tough day I prefer not to talk to anyone and take some time to just be alone. I’ll go for a shower and jump into bed to watch some tv or if it’s been particularly tough I’ll probably be exhausted so I’ll just go to bed.

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By *acDreamy OP   Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Thanks everyone for your kind thoughts. I think there are common themes emerging of distraction, alcohol, loved ones and some sort of cathartic cleansing!

I hope you are all doing well too.

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