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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

The post has nothing to do with the title. But that's click bait for you!

I don't like overwhelming positivity, especially when it's forced positivity for the sake of it. Bring on the balance.

So enlighten us with something that has made you happy recently, and something that has upset or pissed you off.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Seeing some of my favourite people this week, and looking forward to a weekend away is making me happy.

The constant pressure from this cost of living crisis is making me sad.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My dog's happy dance when he thought he'd tricked me into second breakfast, when I just wanted to make him happy made me smile.

The screaming for third breakfast pissed me off though.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Spending time with someone I care for deeply has made me happy

Pissed off that my train was delayed today and now can’t pick my son up from school

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The post has nothing to do with the title. But that's click bait for you!

I don't like overwhelming positivity, especially when it's forced positivity for the sake of it. Bring on the balance.

So enlighten us with something that has made you happy recently, and something that has upset or pissed you off. "

We're off to see John Wick 4 this afternoon so looking forward to that.

As for the other?

Yet more evidence of dubious attitudes and notions about male identity on the forums.....again.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

What's making me happy? The thing happening outside our front door. A very kind and lovely man is building a ramp at our front door

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"What's making me happy? The thing happening outside our front door. A very kind and lovely man is building a ramp at our front door

Now you need to balance it out!

What's pissed you off lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a great date last night

I was pissed off with the inferior pizza I bought on my way home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy about some great plans I have to look forward to.

I'm pissed off because it's my late shift at work tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few things are making me happy..

Someone most definitely put a smile back on my face and it's still there.

People are lovely at my new job and I'm already seeing the things I can do to make a difference.

My dog . She's just the best ,despite the fact she's now also a worry!

The sun has come out and the rain has stopped.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"A few things are making me happy..

Someone most definitely put a smile back on my face and it's still there.

People are lovely at my new job and I'm already seeing the things I can do to make a difference.

My dog . She's just the best ,despite the fact she's now also a worry!

The sun has come out and the rain has stopped.

Now balance it out with what has you pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being woken up this morning to a massive cuddle from my daughter

The woman in Asda who was stood in front of the mince just staring at it for the longest time and when I said “sorry could I just quickly grab something” she was like “yeah sure” and just continued to stand there, so I had to squeeze between her to get to it

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm happy because my husband rang me to sing(very badly) a rubbish song to me through the phone and it made laugh

I'm pissed off because as said above the cost of living crisis is making things difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few things are making me happy..

Someone most definitely put a smile back on my face and it's still there.

People are lovely at my new job and I'm already seeing the things I can do to make a difference.

My dog . She's just the best ,despite the fact she's now also a worry!

The sun has come out and the rain has stopped.

Now balance it out with what has you pissed off. "

The way someone else is trying to make me feel bad about my choices and I'm frustrated that they are managing it!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

yes life is all about the ups and downs, that's for sure

bad news, my aunts mother passed and I couldn't go to the funeral... she was 98 bless her

good news, it's looking like things are picking up here for us.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"What's making me happy? The thing happening outside our front door. A very kind and lovely man is building a ramp at our front door

Now you need to balance it out!

What's pissed you off lately. "

Errrrrrr not being able to get in through the front door?!

Actually, students trying to tell me to accept their lateness because they live "far away". No you don't, pal. I live a damned sight further away and make it in! Get up earlier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy thing:

Discovering a packet of homemade brownies in my rucksack, smuggled in there by one of my garden volunteers.

Not so happy thing:

After being referred to a local MH charity by my care coordinator, realising I can't access the activities because I can't afford the fuel to get to them. That sucked.

Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always on hand to destroy that positivity.

I've been awake since 2:30am so I'm a little short tempered.

Where do you want me?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"The post has nothing to do with the title. But that's click bait for you!

I don't like overwhelming positivity, especially when it's forced positivity for the sake of it. Bring on the balance.

So enlighten us with something that has made you happy recently, and something that has upset or pissed you off. "
I like to come onto threads that target women only so am pleasantly surprised

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"The post has nothing to do with the title. But that's click bait for you!

I don't like overwhelming positivity, especially when it's forced positivity for the sake of it. Bring on the balance.

So enlighten us with something that has made you happy recently, and something that has upset or pissed you off. I like to come onto threads that target women only so am pleasantly surprised

I actually didn't even think of that... It's not aimed at women. I just wanted a title I know is definite click bait and would do an initial trigger.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"The post has nothing to do with the title. But that's click bait for you!

I don't like overwhelming positivity, especially when it's forced positivity for the sake of it. Bring on the balance.

So enlighten us with something that has made you happy recently, and something that has upset or pissed you off. I like to come onto threads that target women only so am pleasantly surprised

I actually didn't even think of that... It's not aimed at women. I just wanted a title I know is definite click bait and would do an initial trigger. "
You'd be surprised at how many do

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

On Sunday I reconnected with an old flame which was really nice. Had a good walk and a catch up. We’re meeting up again this weekend, so that’s made me happy.

Except I may not be able to go because I have a cold and clearly that means I’m almost brown bread.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I finished work today until 17th, so I'm happy

But I can smell my 4 year old didn't wipe his bum properly again, so will have to clean him up

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

What made me happy... We've fed 75 people today, that wouldn't of eaten otherwise.

What made me sad... I dropped my phone and smashed the screen.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"The post has nothing to do with the title. But that's click bait for you!

I don't like overwhelming positivity, especially when it's forced positivity for the sake of it. Bring on the balance.

So enlighten us with something that has made you happy recently, and something that has upset or pissed you off. I like to come onto threads that target women only so am pleasantly surprised

I actually didn't even think of that... It's not aimed at women. I just wanted a title I know is definite click bait and would do an initial trigger. You'd be surprised at how many do

Oh I've noticed, I think most people notice.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"I finished work today until 17th, so I'm happy

But I can smell my 4 year old didn't wipe his bum properly again, so will have to clean him up

Its okay, we are all friends here. It was Mr really wasn't it, don't go blaming the child!

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Always on hand to destroy that positivity.

I've been awake since 2:30am so I'm a little short tempered.

Where do you want me?

Knew I could rely on you!

But nothing positive at all? Not even a tiny little bit?

Did you make somebody cry at least, which in turn made you happy? I can work with that.

You can then return to the negativity realm.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I finished work today until 17th, so I'm happy

But I can smell my 4 year old didn't wipe his bum properly again, so will have to clean him up

Its okay, we are all friends here. It was Mr really wasn't it, don't go blaming the child! "

If it was the husband then I apologise to the West Midlands, as he's still at work. People must fear a gas attack if I can smell it from here !

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

My big project at work was a hit and went really well

I'm off for two weeks after tomorrow and I'm coming down with a cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the start of the week, I was told my work is ‘excellent’ during my appraisal, and that my boss couldn’t think of anything I needed to improve on. He’s a perfectionist, so that was music to my ears, I felt sure he’d have a list.

Yesterday another, senior, colleague, (who has a small number of hardworking wallies like me who he belittles and gaslights) finally made me lose my cool. Not my finest moment. So all that forum shite aimed at me last night was the least of my worries, frankly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t get on the wrong tube, train, Street etc today.

And I didn’t have a panic attack.

Positive steps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women at work make me happy.

The guys at work piss me off.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I really like the idea of this thread - found a tab open with it so clearly I intended to reply but didn't get around to it.

So, let's see. Happy? I'm going to be attending my first certain style of club night. It might be a tad sad but I'm already thinking about what to wear, where to stay. Actually, that's fine because it's next month. :D

Sad? The realisation I'm not particularly great to spend time with. I think I'd been a tad deluded and thought I was better company than I am.

But - silver lining. I'm stepping up gym going, eating a lot less and better, working on me and a lot less delusional.

So, nice happy/sad/happy sandwich there.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

My friend getting married

Work restructure depressing the office atmosphere and making everyone nervous about their job toles changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad? The realisation I'm not particularly great to spend time with. I think I'd been a tad deluded and thought I was better company than I am. "

I met Meli recently (platonically) and this was not my experience of what her company is like. She's intelligent, a good conversationalist and fun to hang out with, and you should hang out with her if you have the opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy - I was able to help a friend with a project the other night. It didn't take much but I enjoyed using skills I don't get to use much to spot what the issue was and how to fix it and being able to help her.

Sad - honestly, I'm a little sad in general at the moment. Had covid a few weeks ago and although I'm clear maybe having to plunge back into isolation got me down more than I expected. I need to get myself out to seeing people again to help get over the blues I think.

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