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FLR - female led relationship

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Hey all, May be a little too kinky for here but wondered if anyone is in a FLR or of any ladies that desire / are looking for this?

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Loads of cuckold relationships on here that fall into this catergory.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I would, with the right person.

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Lived FLR for years,miss it very much.

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"I would, with the right person."

Wish I was closer to at least ask you out for a drink xx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Yes I am in a blissful Female Led Relationship and love it........

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I’ve been in a few FLR’s and I feel happiest and most content with that dynamic. I don’t really look for a relationship that isn’t female led now.

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"I’ve been in a few FLR’s and I feel happiest and most content with that dynamic. I don’t really look for a relationship that isn’t female led now. "

May I ask where you met or found these ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it be too kinky for here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This seems like hard work.

Out

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high" "

There's honestly nothing less appealing to me than a yes man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they do all the work? In

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high" "

You must live in an alternate universe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had that in the past, problem was i ended up being too demanding for him, it would have to be with someone happy to give full control to me including finance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"

You must live in an alternate universe. "

Not at all...we all know women get there own way eventually....but only women will deny it and say it's mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do and it's fucking wonderful. I have tried D/s with a man and was OK but having a Domme sub dynamic is much better for me. I generally prefer play with women anyway in friendships or casual scenarios but there is something quite magical about a Mistress. I suspect it may be the person that makes it particularly wonderful

Gush gush gush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high" "

Never ever has this happened to me I'm definitely not kidding myself

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I had that in the past, problem was i ended up being too demanding for him, it would have to be with someone happy to give full control to me including finance. "

Exactly this, it's very time consuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"

Never ever has this happened to me I'm definitely not kidding myself"

But you must be because a man told you you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"

Never ever has this happened to me I'm definitely not kidding myself

But you must be because a man told you you are "

Ah yes I must remember to get a male to teach me how to SQUIRT too

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"

You must live in an alternate universe.

Not at all...we all know women get there own way eventually....but only women will deny it and say it's mutual"

I’m sure this happens sometimes for a while but I promise you (can I do mansplaining to another man?) that it doesn’t happen all the time. Thinking it does is really not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"

Never ever has this happened to me I'm definitely not kidding myself

But you must be because a man told you you are

Ah yes I must remember to get a male to teach me how to SQUIRT too "

Yes, and if you’re really good he’ll tell you the best position in which to achieve a vaginal orgasm. Isn’t that exciting!

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

My own personal experience of a FLR was at the beginning quite stressful and hard work, however as the dynamic grew ,we both assumed our positions in time.

I was at the time running my own company and by no means a doormat to the outside world I was in charge,but within our FLR She was,I can only hope one day to experience this type of loving relationship once more.

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"Why would it be too kinky for here?"

Just don’t tend to get anything too off the wall on here x

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high" "

Hmmm not sure that’s entirely true but know what you mean

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s definitely something that happens OP on here and elsewhere. Wouldn’t say it’s too kinky at all and I’m sure you can find others into the same dynamic. It’s not for me though

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"My own personal experience of a FLR was at the beginning quite stressful and hard work, however as the dynamic grew ,we both assumed our positions in time.

I was at the time running my own company and by no means a doormat to the outside world I was in charge,but within our FLR She was,I can only hope one day to experience this type of loving relationship once more. "

Good to hear that it worked once upon a time

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"It’s definitely something that happens OP on here and elsewhere. Wouldn’t say it’s too kinky at all and I’m sure you can find others into the same dynamic. It’s not for me though "

Well I hope I at least find others into similar areas, would kind of like to chat with them and see how it works in real life, I’d love to find someone to try it with but that I feel is just a matter of keep on saying it and eventually I may find someone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s definitely something that happens OP on here and elsewhere. Wouldn’t say it’s too kinky at all and I’m sure you can find others into the same dynamic. It’s not for me though

Well I hope I at least find others into similar areas, would kind of like to chat with them and see how it works in real life, I’d love to find someone to try it with but that I feel is just a matter of keep on saying it and eventually I may find someone x"

Have you tried a local munch

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"It’s definitely something that happens OP on here and elsewhere. Wouldn’t say it’s too kinky at all and I’m sure you can find others into the same dynamic. It’s not for me though

Well I hope I at least find others into similar areas, would kind of like to chat with them and see how it works in real life, I’d love to find someone to try it with but that I feel is just a matter of keep on saying it and eventually I may find someone x

Have you tried a local munch "

I need to, however I do worry that I’m already tarnished as a single male before attending these type of events. It just adds to the usual apprehension of attending something like that. X

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

-Not sure why it would be too kinky for here (or more than anything male-led for sure). Ticking S&M might help you (ie to go with spanking and role play, Fab is maybe a couple of boxes short on kinky stuff). You could also consider changing your title to just 'sub' for this, as being Vers or Switch can put some people off it they want total obedience or domination.

--pt

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"-Not sure why it would be too kinky for here (or more than anything male-led for sure). Ticking S&M might help you (ie to go with spanking and role play, Fab is maybe a couple of boxes short on kinky stuff). You could also consider changing your title to just 'sub' for this, as being Vers or Switch can put some people off it they want total obedience or domination.

--pt"

Good points, thank you for the advice

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"-Not sure why it would be too kinky for here (or more than anything male-led for sure). Ticking S&M might help you (ie to go with spanking and role play, Fab is maybe a couple of boxes short on kinky stuff). You could also consider changing your title to just 'sub' for this, as being Vers or Switch can put some people off it they want total obedience or domination.

--pt

Good points, thank you for the advice "

There are definitely a lot of people into this sort of thing but as with everything its trying to navigate to find a dynamic for you. I would recommend munches as mentioned above or even your local club might offer kink nights too which are always good to learn a lot from

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Clubs are worth considering, esp you have the personality that doesn't clash (or doesn't mind) some very dominant people in even a social setting. I found the one I partly joined a real turn-off myself, despite knowing someone there already.

But club goers in general are just a fraction of a percent of the whole market so to speak (even the more 'normal' Fab meets when compared to typical Fab people). Best is to always keeping Searching and be prepared to keep reaching out.

Everything is out there somewhere. pt

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

FLR - Under the thumb??

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"FLR - Under the thumb?? "

It’s a relationship and kink dynamic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FLR - Under the thumb?? "

I was under the impression this was just a relationship? Hey, who knew every day's a school day

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