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"I've been told this in messages in the past and most recently today by someone I know away from the site. What does that actually mean? Do people really still have such a negative opinion about people on here? Personally, I was a bit offended by the comments , I think he likely meant well but it's still really irked me. Is that why so many of us end up thinking that we are good enough for fun but not for more? Are we seen as someone less dateable because of our time here? I know I need to woman up but now I'm dwelling on the words. What are your thoughts? " sex in the form its displayed on here is still seen as tarty by some so hence his or hers comment | |||
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"“Aren’t swingers just people who couldn’t get a shag in real life. …” “Bunch of weirdos…” ^ Just 2 recent quotes I remember when talking about swinging outside of fab. So when people say, you’re too good for here….I’m not sure what they are saying. " They're basically saying "you must have some issue that makes you sexually undesirable in real life, such that you'd rather seek hookups and sex with strangers online as opposed to pulling someone in real life." More often than not it comes from a state of envy/jealousy, that they genuinely feel whoever they're directing these comments to are physically attractive, but they have to dose themselves with copium by saying stuff to make the point about looks not being everything in one's attractive powers. | |||
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"I've been told this in messages in the past and most recently today by someone I know away from the site. What does that actually mean? Do people really still have such a negative opinion about people on here? Personally, I was a bit offended by the comments , I think he likely meant well but it's still really irked me. Is that why so many of us end up thinking that we are good enough for fun but not for more? Are we seen as someone less dateable because of our time here? I know I need to woman up but now I'm dwelling on the words. What are your thoughts? " I too think that I understand your thought process, but may I ask if maybe you are taking what may have well been well intentioned as a complement out of context? It is so easy to misunderstand, or see a hidden unintended meaning, in the featureless and faceless written word as opposed to face to face where humour, irony, sincerity, or it's lack, are more easy to read into the face of the speaker? I have met some wonderful people on here whose only 'crime' is their openly honest liking of lots of sex and for that I admire them all. Please don't take it seriously just get on and enjoy those who appreciate you. Good luck. | |||
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"By all accounts, from what I have been told,,,,,,,,,,,,, I am not good enough to be here!" With you there brother | |||
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"I've been told this in messages in the past and most recently today by someone I know away from the site. What does that actually mean? Do people really still have such a negative opinion about people on here? Personally, I was a bit offended by the comments , I think he likely meant well but it's still really irked me. Is that why so many of us end up thinking that we are good enough for fun but not for more? Are we seen as someone less dateable because of our time here? I know I need to woman up but now I'm dwelling on the words. What are your thoughts? " 1 of the reasons why there isn't many single women on here | |||
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"I think its a way to dress up the fact some men are intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants (and isn't afraid to have it )sexually . Curious though, do women think this about men too?" I'm sure it's rarer, but yes, I've had versions of it. The 'surprised to find someone like you here' CAN be amazing if it's said by someone you know well and care about. But said by a stranger it does feel weird. I mean...what does that say about them, if they essentially see the place we 'meet' as a dump full of the worst people? | |||
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"I've been told this in messages in the past and most recently today by someone I know away from the site. What does that actually mean? Do people really still have such a negative opinion about people on here? Personally, I was a bit offended by the comments , I think he likely meant well but it's still really irked me. Is that why so many of us end up thinking that we are good enough for fun but not for more? Are we seen as someone less dateable because of our time here? I know I need to woman up but now I'm dwelling on the words. What are your thoughts? 1 of the reasons why there isn't many single women on here" Lucky me then. Less competition | |||
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"I think its a way to dress up the fact some men are intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants (and isn't afraid to have it )sexually . Curious though, do women think this about men too?" No, they don't think that or are intimidated. They just think you are low value if you're on here. I've tried introducing vanilla women, who are even bisexual as it says on their profile and I have judged terribly as a single guy for doing this. | |||
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"I've been told this in messages in the past and most recently today by someone I know away from the site. What does that actually mean? Do people really still have such a negative opinion about people on here? Personally, I was a bit offended by the comments , I think he likely meant well but it's still really irked me. Is that why so many of us end up thinking that we are good enough for fun but not for more? Are we seen as someone less dateable because of our time here? I know I need to woman up but now I'm dwelling on the words. What are your thoughts? 1 of the reasons why there isn't many single women on here Lucky me then. Less competition " Women can be the worst for slut shaming etc though aswell. How many single women on here tell their female vanilla friends? | |||
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"Anyone who tries to compliment by tearing other people down is an asshole " Absolutely this. Lesson for life, not just Fab. | |||
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"It's that bullshit that men think we actually don't want to be on here. We are just pretending to be swingers we actually want to be rescued by a man, delete our account and marry them. " Some women on here would love that, just saying. | |||
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"It's that bullshit that men think we actually don't want to be on here. We are just pretending to be swingers we actually want to be rescued by a man, delete our account and marry them. Some women on here would love that, just saying. " Yes it was your bullshit I was citing well recognised | |||
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"It's that bullshit that men think we actually don't want to be on here. We are just pretending to be swingers we actually want to be rescued by a man, delete our account and marry them. Some women on here would love that, just saying. Yes it was your bullshit I was citing well recognised " You are a swinger though. What else are the non swinger women on here for then? | |||
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"My thoughts are this ..... What do you think ? When you KNOW what you think , that's what you live by. Why be offended unless his words aligned with your reality ? What do you really think about you being on here ?" I've been on and off here so long I'm perfectly comfortable with who I am and the choices I make . It's taken a long time for that to be the case and of course we all have the occasional wobbles. I just think it sad these kind of attitudes still exist. | |||
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" You are a swinger though. What else are the non swinger women on here for then? " Sex. Casual relationships. To see what's on at the clubs. To get some exhibitionism out. To see what it's all about. There's many reasons people can be on here. No need to keep a narrow view when it's a broad spectrum. | |||
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"It's that bullshit that men think we actually don't want to be on here. We are just pretending to be swingers we actually want to be rescued by a man, delete our account and marry them. Some women on here would love that, just saying. Yes it was your bullshit I was citing well recognised You are a swinger though. What else are the non swinger women on here for then? " I'm not a swinger. Nor am I looking for happy ever after. That's the beauty of this site,you can use it for whatever you wish | |||
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"I get this one "how are you still single? " Erm by choice " How are you not in my bed! Please don’t answer that! | |||
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" You are a swinger though. What else are the non swinger women on here for then? Sex. Casual relationships. To see what's on at the clubs. To get some exhibitionism out. To see what it's all about. There's many reasons people can be on here. No need to keep a narrow view when it's a broad spectrum." You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. | |||
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"It's that bullshit that men think we actually don't want to be on here. We are just pretending to be swingers we actually want to be rescued by a man, delete our account and marry them. Some women on here would love that, just saying. Yes it was your bullshit I was citing well recognised You are a swinger though. What else are the non swinger women on here for then? I'm not a swinger. Nor am I looking for happy ever after. That's the beauty of this site,you can use it for whatever you wish" What is your end goal then? | |||
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"It's that bullshit that men think we actually don't want to be on here. We are just pretending to be swingers we actually want to be rescued by a man, delete our account and marry them. Some women on here would love that, just saying. Yes it was your bullshit I was citing well recognised You are a swinger though. What else are the non swinger women on here for then? " Whatever the fuck they want everyone has the right to be here , it would be a nicer space if the bullshit wasn't. Each to their own | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. " I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. | |||
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"My thoughts are this ..... What do you think ? When you KNOW what you think , that's what you live by. Why be offended unless his words aligned with your reality ? What do you really think about you being on here ? I've been on and off here so long I'm perfectly comfortable with who I am and the choices I make . It's taken a long time for that to be the case and of course we all have the occasional wobbles. I just think it sad these kind of attitudes still exist. " Me too. Almost as if women should only have sex within a permanent relationship. A woman's gotta do what a woman's gotta do and I am not marrying into servitude to get it. | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming." You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. " When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. " I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk " I would rather be celibate. | |||
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"You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. " If you define it entirely by occasionally participating in group sex then sure. Though that leaves me wondering if the cuckholds and cuckqueens should be here if they only sleep with their partner and watch them with others. Or the people that only do separate room swapping with other couples. Assuming nothing. I have an asexual friend who sometimes comes to the clubs with me because she likes to watch and enjoy the energy, but has no interest in having sex with anything. Another friend just likes to show off his (absurdly attractive) wife and fuck on stage but doesn't want anyone else to be involved physically. I wouldn't worry, I doubt you're too too overrun with offers from those pesky non swingers. Or swingers. | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief " I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk " When you've had a personality change you might do better | |||
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"Am I s non swinger during the time I’m not having sex? Im confused now. " There, there Woody, come and have a booby hug | |||
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"I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them " Wait. I stand by all of those statements. I thought you said I was a swinger | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk When you've had a personality change you might do better " You didn't answer my question, You're obviously open to Mr right popping in your messages and being swept off your feet like it was mentioned. Obviously a gambling woman. | |||
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"I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them Wait. I stand by all of those statements. I thought you said I was a swinger " You are the anomaly %1 then that's all | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them " Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? | |||
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"Am I s non swinger during the time I’m not having sex? Im confused now. There, there Woody, come and have a booby hug " I’ve forgot what I even asked now | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them " So you think all female swingers aren't looking for a connection...I call bullshit on that one. | |||
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" Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? " To the terrible truth. Are you ready? Sitting down? I fear you and the BULLS may not HIT it off. No patter of little Minotaur hooves will be heard in the Fabyrinth. | |||
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" Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? To the terrible truth. Are you ready? Sitting down? I fear you and the BULLS may not HIT it off. No patter of little Minotaur hooves will be heard in the Fabyrinth. " Have to say ….. gutted | |||
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"Yes I am No one gets me or appreciates me I might as well go eat worms. Bite off their heads, suck out the juice then throw their skins away" Like urban frubing but considerably less vile? | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? " That's a Bingo, Non swinger like you admit | |||
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"Yes I am No one gets me or appreciates me I might as well go eat worms. Bite off their heads, suck out the juice then throw their skins away Like urban frubing but considerably less vile?" No idea what that is so can't comment And I'm not googling | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? That's a Bingo, Non swinger like you admit" Yay. Do I get to choose a prize? | |||
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"Yes I am No one gets me or appreciates me I might as well go eat worms. Bite off their heads, suck out the juice then throw their skins away Like urban frubing but considerably less vile? No idea what that is so can't comment And I'm not googling" Don't...it really is vile | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? That's a Bingo, Non swinger like you admit Yay. Do I get to choose a prize? " The prize is you just proved me right. That is a great prize. An honour to bestow. | |||
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"It's that bullshit that men think we actually don't want to be on here. We are just pretending to be swingers we actually want to be rescued by a man, delete our account and marry them. Some women on here would love that, just saying. Yes it was your bullshit I was citing well recognised You are a swinger though. What else are the non swinger women on here for then? I'm not a swinger. Nor am I looking for happy ever after. That's the beauty of this site,you can use it for whatever you wish" I'm glad you're all here. Saves me talking to myself | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? That's a Bingo, Non swinger like you admit Yay. Do I get to choose a prize? The prize is you just proved me right. That is a great prize. An honour to bestow." But it just confirms earlier points...not every woman ...in fact probably most on here don't consider themselves swingers. | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? That's a Bingo, Non swinger like you admit Yay. Do I get to choose a prize? The prize is you just proved me right. That is a great prize. An honour to bestow." I don’t get the point though. Do you mean non swingers are saying they are swingers but those things are a dead giveaway that you think they’re not? | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? That's a Bingo, Non swinger like you admit Yay. Do I get to choose a prize? The prize is you just proved me right. That is a great prize. An honour to bestow. I don’t get the point though. Do you mean non swingers are saying they are swingers but those things are a dead giveaway that you think they’re not? " Keep up Nora. I was saying those are what non swinger profiles usually have on them. And I can spot them by seeing information like that. So I avoid them. You just cemented my point beautifully by accident though I think, but I will take it. | |||
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"I've been told this in messages in the past and most recently today by someone I know away from the site. What does that actually mean? Do people really still have such a negative opinion about people on here? Personally, I was a bit offended by the comments , I think he likely meant well but it's still really irked me. Is that why so many of us end up thinking that we are good enough for fun but not for more? Are we seen as someone less dateable because of our time here? I know I need to woman up but now I'm dwelling on the words. What are your thoughts? " Personally l don't give a fuck what other people think,a lot of the time they can be scared of a person knowing what they want ,would you rather be with someone that controls or domineers you or would you rather be free ? Obviously this person knows your here as he said you were too good for it ?? Some people think those here can't get laid in the real world but what he doesn't seem to understand that people are here because of people in the real world ..as you say are people are good enough have fun but nothing else ?? .. I know loads of women that guys will fuck but the guys won't be seen out with them, they'll fuck them ok but then... nothing..to me , unless the woman wants that , that scenario isn't the thing ..is it ? If a woman is good enough to fuck then a guy shouldn't be put out if he's seen out with her. | |||
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"You participate in group sex, you are a swinger. Non swinger women are not likely going to clubs. Be some good Disney film that meeting Prince Charming off here. I'd watch that shit. I still don't consider myself a swinger, just happily non monogamous. I know people who go to clubs just for the voyeur or exhibitionist side of things, they don't have to be swingers to be welcome and a part of things. Anyone looking for their Prince Charming anywhere is going to have a hard time of it. But it's ridiculous to assume that just because someone doesn't want to fuck you that they're looking for Prince Charming. You are a swinger end of. I highly doubt it. You are assuming that. I have no intention of meeting non swingers on here. Headache that would be. I think you'll find a hell of a lot of women on this site that don't consider themselves swingers... And well...I think I can hear the sighs of relief I can spot them a mile off though. Things like *Looking for a connection *Social is a must *I like to get to know you first before we meet *If you have too many Veris you're not for me *If you have pics of you hanging out the back of someone you're not for me Etc etc. These are all dead giveaways 99% of the time. Onto them Yep all those are totally me. Dead giveaway to what? That's a Bingo, Non swinger like you admit Yay. Do I get to choose a prize? The prize is you just proved me right. That is a great prize. An honour to bestow. I don’t get the point though. Do you mean non swingers are saying they are swingers but those things are a dead giveaway that you think they’re not? Keep up Nora. I was saying those are what non swinger profiles usually have on them. And I can spot them by seeing information like that. So I avoid them. You just cemented my point beautifully by accident though I think, but I will take it. " Ah ok. You’re welcome | |||
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"I've been told this in messages in the past and most recently today by someone I know away from the site. What does that actually mean? Do people really still have such a negative opinion about people on here? Personally, I was a bit offended by the comments , I think he likely meant well but it's still really irked me. Is that why so many of us end up thinking that we are good enough for fun but not for more? Are we seen as someone less dateable because of our time here? I know I need to woman up but now I'm dwelling on the words. What are your thoughts? " For what it's worth I see that you're a thoughtful woman, a good contributor and you should carry on as you are | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk What the actual f.(avoiding ban) is wrong with you?" It was some dark humour, I like Frankie Boyle and Jimmy Carr that kind of explains it. | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk What the actual f.(avoiding ban) is wrong with you? It was some dark humour, I like Frankie Boyle and Jimmy Carr that kind of explains it. " Yes. But they have charisma. | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk What the actual f.(avoiding ban) is wrong with you? It was some dark humour, I like Frankie Boyle and Jimmy Carr that kind of explains it. " Except for the small point, that they are both intelligent and funny… But yeah. Whatever hun. You do you. (Which I imagine you will be doing more and more of) | |||
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"I've been told this in messages in the past and most recently today by someone I know away from the site. What does that actually mean? Do people really still have such a negative opinion about people on here? Personally, I was a bit offended by the comments , I think he likely meant well but it's still really irked me. Is that why so many of us end up thinking that we are good enough for fun but not for more? Are we seen as someone less dateable because of our time here? I know I need to woman up but now I'm dwelling on the words. What are your thoughts? " I have had this said in the past OP. And other ridiculous statements from idiots whom I choose to ignore. I’m here because I want to be, as with anyone else on here. How they want to use this site is up to them as long as they understand that if they want to judge anyone else I hope they’ve got the “God” badge already. If not. They can go fuck themselves | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk What the actual f.(avoiding ban) is wrong with you? It was some dark humour, I like Frankie Boyle and Jimmy Carr that kind of explains it. Except for the small point, that they are both intelligent and funny… But yeah. Whatever hun. You do you. (Which I imagine you will be doing more and more of)" Only Nora made a mistake of calling me dumb. Several people have om to say they like my forum posts. Believe it not | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk What the actual f.(avoiding ban) is wrong with you? It was some dark humour, I like Frankie Boyle and Jimmy Carr that kind of explains it. Except for the small point, that they are both intelligent and funny… But yeah. Whatever hun. You do you. (Which I imagine you will be doing more and more of) Only Nora made a mistake of calling me dumb. Several people have om to say they like my forum posts. Believe it not " I did. But I don’t like personal insults and it’s not like me so I apologised. I don’t like you though. | |||
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" Only Nora made a mistake of calling me dumb. " Yes, silly Nora. Being dumb would mean you stopped talking. | |||
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"It means they're trying to get in your knickers by playing the "nice" guy. " My words exactly | |||
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"It like the you're hot for a fat lass 'compliment'. They think they're being nice and complimentary but it sounds awful. When you've had your gastric band fitted then we'll talk What the actual f.(avoiding ban) is wrong with you? It was some dark humour, I like Frankie Boyle and Jimmy Carr that kind of explains it. Except for the small point, that they are both intelligent and funny… But yeah. Whatever hun. You do you. (Which I imagine you will be doing more and more of) Only Nora made a mistake of calling me dumb. Several people have om to say they like my forum posts. Believe it not " If they did...wonder why they don't openly post this | |||
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"I tell myself this everyday. None of you deserve me." Actually in your case Brucey. That’s very true | |||
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