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Has anybody unwittingly revealed their identity?

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by

Has anyone inadvertantly revealed their identity on Fab?

Whether it be via exchanging pictures or someone looking over your shoulder?

If so, how did it feel and play out for you?

My wife and I were in a hotel foyer on fab once only to receive a message describing us!

(Fortunately he was a gent if you're reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I know off. I've been scrolling on the bus before though before I've realised where I am.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I was sending emails to someone via my Fab account and he accidentally sent me an email from his business address, immediately telling me more than I needed to know.

(I responded by telling him the same details about me - like, your information is safe with me, and to prove it here's mine)

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by

It becomes second nature doesn't it !!

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by

It's a good job you were reassuring. I can imagine that induced some panic!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's a good job you were reassuring. I can imagine that induced some panic!"

I don't email people unless I trust them quite a bit. And yes, he was not best pleased he'd done that!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I don't think so, buy I have messaged on the train before without thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I've had guys tell me everything.

Name, where they work, where their wives work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

No, but someone revealed themselves to me as one of my ex-neighbours. It was quite a shock when she posted face pics and I recognised her.

We always had a frisson of sexual tension so I contacted her and it transpired she hadn’t meant to put the face pics up!

I let her control the situation and she was happy to stay in touch. We met and it was lots of fun!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here "

Persephone Millicent Chicken, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am... the Scarlet Pimpernel!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here "

I give my real name, but I was one of... I think eight in my graduating class of 150?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here

Persephone Millicent Chicken, right?"

Felix! You promised!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've found people on other social media when they've shared photos with personal information like their work uniform or a photo from FB. Told someone the other day to be careful, could see all his family and past relationships! Could cause all sorts of issues if someone chose to expose him.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"No, but someone revealed themselves to me as one of my ex-neighbours. It was quite a shock when she posted face pics and I recognised her.

We always had a frisson of sexual tension so I contacted her and it transpired she hadn’t meant to put the face pics up!

I let her control the situation and she was happy to stay in touch. We met and it was lots of fun!"

Everybody needs good neighbours…

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by

I've tried to hide my screen many times which has only served to highlight how sneaky I'm being!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here

I give my real name, but I was one of... I think eight in my graduating class of 150? "

Yeah I’m thinking I may change my name to smith or something

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here

Persephone Millicent Chicken, right?

Felix! You promised! "

Sorry darling!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by

Madness. Some things are just not necessary.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here

I give my real name, but I was one of... I think eight in my graduating class of 150?

Yeah I’m thinking I may change my name to smith or something "

That's exactly why I do give my first name. It's not like it's Florence Wilhelmina or something

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I accidentally revealed ‘I was Batman’ to my last meet oops !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I'm always very careful about what information I divulge. You can't trust anyone 100%.

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by

It sounds like you handled that well

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"No, but someone revealed themselves to me as one of my ex-neighbours. It was quite a shock when she posted face pics and I recognised her.

We always had a frisson of sexual tension so I contacted her and it transpired she hadn’t meant to put the face pics up!

I let her control the situation and she was happy to stay in touch. We met and it was lots of fun!

Everybody needs good neighbours…"

That’s when good neeeiiiighbours cum on good friends

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By *migger123Man
over a year ago

f


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here "

What nobody uses there real names on here?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"It sounds like you handled that well "

OP if you hit reply + quote we’ll know to whom you are replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I accidentally revealed ‘I was Batman’ to my last meet oops !"

You're Bruce Wayne too! That's why I never saw you in the room with Batman before!!!

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here "

That's a put off for us

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by


"It sounds like you handled that well

OP if you hit reply + quote we’ll know to whom you are replying "

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by


"I accidentally revealed ‘I was Batman’ to my last meet oops !"

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by


"Never. I'm always very careful about what information I divulge. You can't trust anyone 100%."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’d be surprised how many men push to get your real name on here

What nobody uses there real names on here? "

I have 3 names I use.

I forget what my real name is sometimes.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"I accidentally revealed ‘I was Batman’ to my last meet oops !

You're Bruce Wayne too! That's why I never saw you in the room with Batman before!!!"

I’ve already said too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I accidentally revealed ‘I was Batman’ to my last meet oops !

You're Bruce Wayne too! That's why I never saw you in the room with Batman before!!!

I’ve already said too much "

Riddle me this, who might I be? Your guess best not miss.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I havent done anything like that but I have posted a pic of my face in the public section by mistake. Did wonder why it received more fabs than it would normally received until I realised the blunder I've done. I know some people may not see that as a big issue but can't be too careful these days really

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Has anyone inadvertantly revealed their identity on Fab?

Whether it be via exchanging pictures or someone looking over your shoulder?

If so, how did it feel and play out for you?

My wife and I were in a hotel foyer on fab once only to receive a message describing us!

(Fortunately he was a gent if you're reading

"

Yeah.

I left some business cards in the dash of my car, picked up my meet for the evening and stopped to get a Costa shortly after on the way to the hotel.

So she knew my full name, non Fab mobile number and who I worked for.

How did it work out?

Well. I had to marry her obviously.

A

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by


"Has anyone inadvertantly revealed their identity on Fab?

Whether it be via exchanging pictures or someone looking over your shoulder?

If so, how did it feel and play out for you?

My wife and I were in a hotel foyer on fab once only to receive a message describing us!

(Fortunately he was a gent if you're reading

Yeah.

I left some business cards in the dash of my car, picked up my meet for the evening and stopped to get a Costa shortly after on the way to the hotel.

So she knew my full name, non Fab mobile number and who I worked for.

How did it work out?

Well. I had to marry her obviously.

A"

Haha, that made me laugh.

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe without intending to, with our profile?!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Has anyone inadvertantly revealed their identity on Fab?

Whether it be via exchanging pictures or someone looking over your shoulder?

If so, how did it feel and play out for you?

My wife and I were in a hotel foyer on fab once only to receive a message describing us!

(Fortunately he was a gent if you're reading

Yeah.

I left some business cards in the dash of my car, picked up my meet for the evening and stopped to get a Costa shortly after on the way to the hotel.

So she knew my full name, non Fab mobile number and who I worked for.

How did it work out?

Well. I had to marry her obviously.

A

Haha, that made me laugh. "

True story.

Obviously didn't marry her straight away.

I had to meet the parents first.

A

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

No but I have two situations of recognising or being recognised.

A) I was at a social on Friday when one of the bar staff recognised me from some talk style YouTube stuff that I occasionally do. He didn’t know who I was with so it could have been worse.

B) My mates ex is a quite distinctive and has a profile on here. We were chatting in the pub one evening and I made a comment about her being harmless and innocent. She let me know that she was harmless, but certainly not innocent. At which point i made a ‘fab’ joke/pun we both laughed m and told her I’d message her when I got home to keep things fair. So now she knows and we speak on here occasionally and in the pub when we see each other

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by


"Maybe without intending to, with our profile?! "

I'm sure they'd make contact

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By *hyone23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near by


"No but I have two situations of recognising or being recognised.

A) I was at a social on Friday when one of the bar staff recognised me from some talk style YouTube stuff that I occasionally do. He didn’t know who I was with so it could have been worse.

B) My mates ex is a quite distinctive and has a profile on here. We were chatting in the pub one evening and I made a comment about her being harmless and innocent. She let me know that she was harmless, but certainly not innocent. At which point i made a ‘fab’ joke/pun we both laughed m and told her I’d message her when I got home to keep things fair. So now she knows and we speak on here occasionally and in the pub when we see each other "

I recognise someone from my local village. Obviously, I'd never approach unless we had some prior contact.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No but constantly get recognized at work and out and about! Doesn't faze me happens so often even when I was on holiday down in Cornwall last year x

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"No but I have two situations of recognising or being recognised.

A) I was at a social on Friday when one of the bar staff recognised me from some talk style YouTube stuff that I occasionally do. He didn’t know who I was with so it could have been worse.

B) My mates ex is a quite distinctive and has a profile on here. We were chatting in the pub one evening and I made a comment about her being harmless and innocent. She let me know that she was harmless, but certainly not innocent. At which point i made a ‘fab’ joke/pun we both laughed m and told her I’d message her when I got home to keep things fair. So now she knows and we speak on here occasionally and in the pub when we see each other

I recognise someone from my local village. Obviously, I'd never approach unless we had some prior contact. "

We knew of each other, and have many mutuals, which is how we ended up talking that evening.

I’ve had to save her a few times on nights out from weirdos who recognise her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is I, L'eclerc

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Plenty who are happy to reveal other peoples identities if you don't feel like doing it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is I, L'eclerc "

Ooh la la! That disguise was so good!

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By *omeday1955Couple
over a year ago

taunton

Yeah I’m thinking I may change my name to smith or Something ......

Stick to Smith...Something us way to weird for a surname

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