FabSwingers.com forum: Post-coital cuddles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Evening folks!

Interested to know what do you think of cuddles with casual hook ups after sex. Do you find them off putting or do you welcome them?

More inclined to understand men's perspective on the subject. Men- why do you cuddle, spoon or hold us tightly after sex if you don't know us well?

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Do we?

I know I dont. Ive no interest in a cuddling someone whos just a hook up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple for me, if I've just had my penis in you, why can I not hold you to. I'm a sensual tactile man, who likes intimacy, which I doesn't scare me or feel the need to run away from

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m probably not fucking you unless I like you, holding reinforces that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not male. Fairly sure on this.

But cuddling after casual sex?

Hell.

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post-coital cuddles are an essential part of aftercare in sex. I like doing that with whoever I've just fucked (doesn't matter if they're a hookup or something more) so we can just chill and talk about how the sex was. I value feedback and I like to show that I don't just treat whoever I've fucked as just a human sex doll.

Although there's definitely going to be a need for both of us to clean up afterwards too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not male. Fairly sure on this.

But cuddling after casual sex?

Hell.

No.

Yeah I’m with you on this one. I’m not really fussy on cuddling after sex with anyone.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

You can't not know someone incredibly well if the sex is remotely decent. It's an intense, powerful, intimate conversation in body language. And as I hug even those I barely know, I'd definitely hug someone I've got naked with.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Not really the cuddling type with anyone even long term I’m happy to lie on my back and be lied on if lass desires but that’s about it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I like people I'm fucking.

I hug people I like.

Post coital cuddles are part of the entire tactile experience for me.

(Yes I know I'm not a man)

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

It's just a nice, pleasant thing to do..simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit cold to just jump up the minute you're finished and shudder at the thought of touching them again

I like a cursory cuddle and a nipple tweak at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want all the cuddles ,kisses, pillow talk and round 2,3,4 and 5.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"But cuddling after casual sex?

Hell.

No."

I think that’s the thing. It depends how casual the sex is.

I’m not going to cuddle a random someone after a blow job in a swingers club.

But the sex is rarely that casual for me. I’m an affectionate guy. I’m as excited about the first kiss as I am about the fucking that eventually follows. And yeah, there’s likely to just as much stroking and holding and kissing afterwards as there was before it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do hook ups, there is an established connection with the people I have sex with so yes cuddles are necessary

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

There is no way I'd cuddle up with someone I'd just had sex with.... I'd find that weird.... it's probably why I refuse to do 121

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I want all the cuddles ,kisses, pillow talk and round 2,3,4 and 5.

I *swear* I am not following you around the forums. I was already writing that post!

But you’re the perfect example. I couldn’t call what we’re doing casual.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Definitely that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles. Yes definatly. Its all part of the intamacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But cuddling after casual sex?

Hell.

No.

I think that’s the thing. It depends how casual the sex is.

I’m not going to cuddle a random someone after a blow job in a swingers club.

Unless I'm in a relationship with the guy, it's casual sex.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

In the name of science.

The next man I fuck - I will cuddle before and after.

Just for science

Just need a test subject…

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

I like the cuddles after...

If I like you enough to fuck you then unless specifically told otherwise. I would expect cuddles after ...and between rounds.

And depending on the type of play...I see it as part of aftercare and as pretty much essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the cuddles after...

If I like you enough to fuck you then unless specifically told otherwise. I would expect cuddles after ...and between rounds.

And depending on the type of play...I see it as part of aftercare and as pretty much essential

What's with all the "aftercare".

It's sex guys not an operation!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Also this. What am I meant to do whilst waiting for her to be able to sprak and walk again? The hoovering?

Oh shit. It IS the hoovering, isn't it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Also this. What am I meant to do whilst waiting for her to be able to sprak and walk again? The hoovering?

Oh shit. It IS the hoovering, isn't it?"

I'd be impressed but slightly baffled by this

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"In the name of science.

The next man I fuck - I will cuddle before and after.

Just for science

Just need a test subject…"

You also need a control, and someone you cuddle before but NOT after, and someone vice versa.

Need any help setting up the experiment?

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

Lads, as you can see from the comments, lot of women have no interest in cuddling. Its ok for you to say it too

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Also this. What am I meant to do whilst waiting for her to be able to sprak and walk again? The hoovering?

Oh shit. It IS the hoovering, isn't it?

I'd be impressed but slightly baffled by this

For you, I'd even give the walls a second coat.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Also this. What am I meant to do whilst waiting for her to be able to sprak and walk again? The hoovering?

Oh shit. It IS the hoovering, isn't it?

I'd be impressed but slightly baffled by this

For you, I'd even give the walls a second coat.

With what

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear."

That’s quite an assumption you’re making there. Isn’t it more likely there are just some guys who feel differently to you?

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

That’s quite an assumption you’re making there. Isn’t it more likely there are just some guys who feel differently to you?"

Lets just say im dubious of that

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

Lads, as you can see from the comments, lot of women have no interest in cuddling. Its ok for you to say it too "
I've found more men want to than don't x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

Lads, as you can see from the comments, lot of women have no interest in cuddling. Its ok for you to say it too "

Why do you think men here are lying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not the most tactile person anyway so the idea of laying in bed cuddling someone when we don’t know each other very well makes me uncomfortable. I’ll happily lay in bed and talk for hours but just as long as you’re at the other end

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Bit of a roll over and go to sleep man here

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

"I like the cuddles after...

If I like you enough to fuck you then unless specifically told otherwise. I would expect cuddles after ...and between rounds.

And depending on the type of play...I see it as part of aftercare and as pretty much essential

What's with all the "aftercare".

It's sex guys not an operation!

Well if it's play that involves heavy impact play etc then ... I've seen sub drop and aftercare is needed...and I'd argue pretty much expected

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

Lads, as you can see from the comments, lot of women have no interest in cuddling. Its ok for you to say it too

Why do you think men here are lying?"

The answer to that is in the first line of my comment youve responded to

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Also this. What am I meant to do whilst waiting for her to be able to sprak and walk again? The hoovering?

Oh shit. It IS the hoovering, isn't it?

I'd be impressed but slightly baffled by this

For you, I'd even give the walls a second coat.

With what

Got any peeling wallpaper that needs pasting??

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

Lads, as you can see from the comments, lot of women have no interest in cuddling. Its ok for you to say it too "

Your logic doesn't make sense. As you point out, if we were trying to say 'the right thing', we'd say we didn't want cuddles. If anything, since your preference matches that of many women here, we could say that you are the one 'white-knighting'.

Or, just possibly, it's an interesting discussion, everyone has different opinions, and everyone is being sincere.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It purely depends on the available time we have together, sometimes cuddles can't be had, so we kiss goodbye and the moment is over after sex

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"In the name of science.

The next man I fuck - I will cuddle before and after.

Just for science

Just need a test subject…

You also need a control, and someone you cuddle before but NOT after, and someone vice versa.

Need any help setting up the experiment?

Yes please. Do you need a lab coat?

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

If it's casual, I don't really cuddle all that much. I make conversation and we have nice chats and have a joke with each other but I'd feel uncomfortable going for the cuddles after if they don't feel the same way, it's just a bit awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the cuddles after...

If I like you enough to fuck you then unless specifically told otherwise. I would expect cuddles after ...and between rounds.

And depending on the type of play...I see it as part of aftercare and as pretty much essential

What's with all the "aftercare".

It's sex guys not an operation!

Well if it's play that involves heavy impact play etc then ... I've seen sub drop and aftercare is needed...and I'd argue pretty much expected

I just want sleep after.

Alone!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

That’s quite an assumption you’re making there. Isn’t it more likely there are just some guys who feel differently to you?"

Men? Individuals?

Pfft. Next you'll tell me they have feelings. Mamby pamby bullshit

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Also this. What am I meant to do whilst waiting for her to be able to sprak and walk again? The hoovering?

Oh shit. It IS the hoovering, isn't it?

I'd be impressed but slightly baffled by this

For you, I'd even give the walls a second coat.

With what

I sort of don't want to say 'green'.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Also this. What am I meant to do whilst waiting for her to be able to sprak and walk again? The hoovering?

Oh shit. It IS the hoovering, isn't it?

I'd be impressed but slightly baffled by this

For you, I'd even give the walls a second coat.

With what

Got any peeling wallpaper that needs pasting??

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"In the name of science.

The next man I fuck - I will cuddle before and after.

Just for science

Just need a test subject…

You also need a control, and someone you cuddle before but NOT after, and someone vice versa.

Need any help setting up the experiment?

Yes please. Do you need a lab coat?"

It would only get wet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm a cuddle type of person with people I like anyway and I'm not fucking someone I don't like!

On another note, sometimes cuddles etc are needed for proper aftercare from impact play, it's important for me to come back down to earth softly

I sometimes need to come down to earth softly just from orgasms

Also this. What am I meant to do whilst waiting for her to be able to sprak and walk again? The hoovering?

Oh shit. It IS the hoovering, isn't it?

I'd be impressed but slightly baffled by this

For you, I'd even give the walls a second coat.

With what

I sort of don't want to say 'green'.

If symptoms persist see your doctor

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I'm very tactile soppy sod so if the person wanted cuddles afterwards absolutely, I think cuddles is amazing sometimes you don't need to speak a cuddle says it all

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

"I like the cuddles after...

If I like you enough to fuck you then unless specifically told otherwise. I would expect cuddles after ...and between rounds.

And depending on the type of play...I see it as part of aftercare and as pretty much essential

What's with all the "aftercare".

It's sex guys not an operation!

Well if it's play that involves heavy impact play etc then ... I've seen sub drop and aftercare is needed...and I'd argue pretty much expected

I just want sleep after.

Alone!!

Haha... whatever works for you

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

Lads, as you can see from the comments, lot of women have no interest in cuddling. Its ok for you to say it too "

Quite a leap, my truth is my truth, no need to chat shit just cuz it may be what I think a women wants to hear, I stopped doing others thinking for them along time ago.

We're all different, as a man my truth is yeah I like a cuddle, a hug, no shame in that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never used to cuddle after se I was a bit of a cold fish. Then someone taught me it was OK and I enjoyed it after that

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I love a cuddle. A chat. A laugh. Sometimes even an airplane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening folks!

Interested to know what do you think of cuddles with casual hook ups after sex. Do you find them off putting or do you welcome them?

More inclined to understand men's perspective on the subject. Men- why do you cuddle, spoon or hold us tightly after sex if you don't know us well? "

Personally, if I've just had a hook-up kind of meet with someone I'm not interested in that kind of intimacy. That's something I will save for Mr when we reconnect after

Mrs

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Only the damp patch getting cold, puts a stop to the cuddles.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"I love a cuddle. A chat. A laugh. Sometimes even an airplane

Nothing hotter than a little Mile High Club re-enactment.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

There's a fine line. I have vto say that every single guy we've ever met has avoided anything that might be considered romantic. Especially after sex, they actively avoid cuddles and at the end of the evening when I go to embrace them and kiss them on the cheek their body language tells me they're uncomfortable.

For this and other reasons I'm now extremely choosy about who we meet.

I don't want love, romance or a relationship but I do want to feel that I'm more than a casual fuck.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I like cuddles before, during and after sex. But it's never really that casual if I'm having sex with someone.

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

Lads, as you can see from the comments, lot of women have no interest in cuddling. Its ok for you to say it too "
I don't say anything I don't mean and certainly don't follow the crowd of yes miss certainly miss how high miss, I've not read every comment as switching from room to room but what I read seems to be 50/50 on cuddles.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I love a cuddle. A chat. A laugh. Sometimes even an airplane

Nothing hotter than a little Mile High Club re-enactment.

There really isn’t

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I am a hugger in general anyway and it would feel a tad cold for me if we didn't, but each to their own I guess

Oh and do Snugglefucks count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening folks!

Interested to know what do you think of cuddles with casual hook ups after sex. Do you find them off putting or do you welcome them?

More inclined to understand men's perspective on the subject. Men- why do you cuddle, spoon or hold us tightly after sex if you don't know us well? "

I might do it at the time because it feels good.

I might shower with a lady in a club after we have played and rub her down.

It does not make more attached though.

Mindset doesn't change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do casual...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening folks!

Interested to know what do you think of cuddles with casual hook ups after sex. Do you find them off putting or do you welcome them?

More inclined to understand men's perspective on the subject. Men- why do you cuddle, spoon or hold us tightly after sex if you don't know us well?

I might do it at the time because it feels good.

I might shower with a lady in a club after we have played and rub her down.

It does not make more attached though.

Mindset doesn't change.

Carefull there two bulls your showing a soft side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many men in here saying what they think women want to hear.

Lads, as you can see from the comments, lot of women have no interest in cuddling. Its ok for you to say it too "

They use the forum to try pick the women up.

They don't want to be treading on eggshells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only the damp patch getting cold, puts a stop to the cuddles."

If you lie in it long enough it warms back up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a fine line. I have vto say that every single guy we've ever met has avoided anything that might be considered romantic. Especially after sex, they actively avoid cuddles and at the end of the evening when I go to embrace them and kiss them on the cheek their body language tells me they're uncomfortable.

For this and other reasons I'm now extremely choosy about who we meet.

I don't want love, romance or a relationship but I do want to feel that I'm more than a casual fuck. "

When I was a single guy on here, I used to find a couple/female like yourselves a rarity. Very often, was made to feel uncomfortable by the lady's other half. Nothing threatening or the such like. Just change of mood, and body language. Oddly though, it made me feel used and unloved. Not that I'm saying I wanted the lady of the couple to love me, but us guys need tender touches sometimes.

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Evening folks!

Interested to know what do you think of cuddles with casual hook ups after sex. Do you find them off putting or do you welcome them?

More inclined to understand men's perspective on the subject. Men- why do you cuddle, spoon or hold us tightly after sex if you don't know us well? "

I like to cuddle afterwards because I feel it's a different kind intimacy, but also for reassurance and respect. If I've had sex with someone, I like them to know it means something to me, more than just physical stimulation, but mental stimulation too.

For me, cuddles are a sign of my gratitude for allowing me to share an intimate occasion with them.

However, if a lady isn't into cuddles, that's fine too, and I'll respect their preference.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

For this and other reasons I'm now extremely choosy about who we meet.

I don't want love, romance or a relationship but I do want to feel that I'm more than a casual fuck.

Yep it's a bit of a balancing act really.

I do think that the guys felt constrained by the presence of my partner. He would often leave us alone for a bit to get over that and maybe reassure them that he felt ok with it all but I get it, you're with another man's wife, in any other situation you'd get your lights punched out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it's a bit of a balancing act really.

Yes. We know that feeling as a couple too. We have a good friends couple, where we all enjoy the cuddling after glow with opposite partners. But find it easier to discuss, and balance it right , with another couple

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I like it.

I’ve even got a female friend, (who has never been more than that) I spoon with now and again. Odd I know, but it’s think the warmth from another person is a lovely feeling.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Can be anything from quick cwtch, little kiss goodbye, to laying in each others arms all night, chatting, sleeping and fucking.

Depends on the person and the mood.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

I think from the whole scenario that you can feel who is going to accept a cuddle afterwards.

If you've got good chemistry then it can feel very natural.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a no from me.

If I know a guy pretty well then I might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the cuddles please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its just a hook up, no kissing or cuddling.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

If there no cuddles, there's no sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m big on affection and body to body contact turns me on!!

I’m not one for the whole fuck and go with no kissing…..I need affection to feel appreciated haha!!

Cwtches and snuggles are a given and if the visitor isn’t into it then I don’t want it!!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't do hook ups or casual sex, nor do I aspire for anything that resembles a coital transaction.

So cuddles, pillow talk or after care is very important to me, and intrinsically linked to the sex, otherwise the experience for me is hollow and without substance.

It's also totally fine for those who aren't tactile and don't strive for cuddles for whatever reason. We all have our preferences and we all follow our sexual blueprints.

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