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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you could travel back and give your younger you some advice, what would it be?

And no ‘tell them the lottery numbers’ or ‘the name of national winner’ type answers…

Go for it…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy property

Leave the country

Not necessarily in that order

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Hang in there, it gets better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Life is what you make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away from 90% of men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let these people bully you. Don't accept you can't do better and don't listen when he says noone else is going to want you. Don't lose your voice. Don't lose your independence.

Don't eat that McDonald's

Don't eat that McDonald's!!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Invest in apple.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Don't grow your hair long... It wont look good and you'll get picked on.

Stop masturbating everyday.

Stop smoking so much fucking Weed.

I know it's scary but please go and talk to some girls.

There's this girl you'll meet, either ask her out or forget about her, don't waste your time crushing on her from afar... You'll just be miserable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get into a serious relationship at 16 years old, stay young free and single until you're 30. Don't go into full time work at 16 years old, stay on at school then go to uni and party hard.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Don’t go out with people at work (especially her), buy your grandma’s house, do what makes you happy as often as possible, explore that autism diagnosis, join fab when you’re young and fit! You know, particularly because it’s sooooo much worse now than the good old days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away from that guy.

And that one.

Oh and definitely him.

FFS woman what are you doing!!!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Embrace your sexuality.

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

Hit the gym more

Exercise more

Save more

Explore more

Don't get married

Fuck more

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Nothing. The fun has been in the journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck off you’re really annoying.

Nice heels though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Buy property

Leave the country

Not necessarily in that order

Where would you tell them to go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hang in there, it gets better."

Positivity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't get married.

Strong advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not marry him. Run. Run far and don’t look back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Life is what you make it

You truly believe ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stay away from 90% of men

That’s a large number

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't let these people bully you. Don't accept you can't do better and don't listen when he says noone else is going to want you. Don't lose your voice. Don't lose your independence.

Don't eat that McDonald's

Don't eat that McDonald's!! "

What’s wrong with McDonald’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buy property

Leave the country

Not necessarily in that order

Where would you tell them to go? "

Anywhere. Just travel and keep going. You,ll know when to stop

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Life is what you make it

You truly believe ? "

If I don't try and believe then I would be a very unhappy person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't grow your hair long... It wont look good and you'll get picked on.

Stop masturbating everyday.

Stop smoking so much fucking Weed.

I know it's scary but please go and talk to some girls.

There's this girl you'll meet, either ask her out or forget about her, don't waste your time crushing on her from afar... You'll just be miserable.

Did you ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't get into a serious relationship at 16 years old, stay young free and single until you're 30. Don't go into full time work at 16 years old, stay on at school then go to uni and party hard."

Would partying hard have made the difference?

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Eat less, shag more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stay away from that guy.

And that one.

Oh and definitely him.

FFS woman what are you doing!!!"

You can’t want to have stayed away from them all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 'it's all downhill man, but there's allot of fun stuff on the way which are definitely worth hanging around for'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing. The fun has been in the journey

Bold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay away from 90% of men

That’s a large number

I stand by it

(90% of the men I went near, not of all the men everywhere)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fuck off you’re really annoying.

Nice heels though. "

It was only a question jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go to Uni. Waste of time and money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck off you’re really annoying.

Nice heels though.

It was only a question jeez

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do not marry him. Run. Run far and don’t look back."

Big statement

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Nothing. The fun has been in the journey

Bold

I’m always bold

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Life is what you make it

You truly believe ?

If I don't try and believe then I would be a very unhappy person

Solid thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Buy property

Leave the country

Not necessarily in that order

Where would you tell them to go?

Anywhere. Just travel and keep going. You,ll know when to stop"

The sign will come …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get into a serious relationship at 16 years old, stay young free and single until you're 30. Don't go into full time work at 16 years old, stay on at school then go to uni and party hard.

Would partying hard have made the difference?

Hell yes!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Eat less, shag more.

Haha

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Leave home sooner

Get married later

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stay away from 90% of men

That’s a large number

I stand by it

(90% of the men I went near, not of all the men everywhere)

Haha well now that you said the bit about the ones you went near…that’s better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't get into a serious relationship at 16 years old, stay young free and single until you're 30. Don't go into full time work at 16 years old, stay on at school then go to uni and party hard.

Would partying hard have made the difference?

Hell yes!!

Let’s go with that then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Leave home sooner

Get married later"

Why later ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t listen to anyone

Live

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t listen to anyone

Live

Listen to nobody? Surely someone has said some wise words along the way…

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Leave home sooner

Get married later

Why later ? "

I got married too young.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Don’t listen to anyone

Live

Listen to nobody? Surely someone has said some wise words along the way…"

Don't waste your time. He's not gonna listen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it all anyway, it'll turn out just fine,have fun on fab

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By *addyAWoman
over a year ago

Beside the Seaside

You’ll only regret the things you don’t do: everything else is a lesson.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Have more children

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"If you could travel back and give your younger you some advice, what would it be?

And no ‘tell them the lottery numbers’ or ‘the name of national winner’ type answers…

Go for it….."

This is probably a bit deep, but I'd tell my younger self to put themself first for a change, rather than sacrifice their own desires, experiences, excitement and enjoyment for the sake of other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ll only regret the things you don’t do: everything else is a lesson."

And my best lesson is my last mistake, the only mistake I need to worry about is the one I don't learn from

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's ok to say no

Walk away

Tell them how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a bit more confidence in yourself. People actually like the real you so don't be so guarded and you can make some really good friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe in what you are good at. Don't let others opinions put you off. Do you.

LadyO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet him sooner to love him longer.

Care less what people think.

Don’t sweat the small stuff.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Might be safer not to ever get pregnant

Your mother IS insane, step away!

Do a PhD

Definitely get in to bed with HIM

Probably more things

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Don't grow your hair long... It wont look good and you'll get picked on.

Stop masturbating everyday.

Stop smoking so much fucking Weed.

I know it's scary but please go and talk to some girls.

There's this girl you'll meet, either ask her out or forget about her, don't waste your time crushing on her from afar... You'll just be miserable.

Did you ask her?"

No I wasted my time (a lot of time) crushing on her from afar like a loser... I never worked up the courage to ask her out and it just made everything awkward. It all ended in misery.

I guess it's just part of growing up.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Travel lots.

Save hard.

Buy property.

Keep your standards rather than settling for less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh a big one for me don't try heroin, it'll fuck up your life 4 20 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitcoin, investing 10 quid could have made you the richest person on the planet

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By *ssetmountainMan
over a year ago

london - Northants

Life’s a box of chocolates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re doing the right thing.

Don’t worry about it.

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By *utterfly64Woman
over a year ago

Raynes Park

Keep on doing what you are doing. You go girl!

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Buy property earlier travel more and start to swing earlier haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Travel lots.

Save hard.

Buy property.

Keep your standards rather than settling for less"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You’re doing the right thing.

Don’t worry about it. "

Cheer leader esq

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Buy property earlier travel more and start to swing earlier haha

Haha like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't piss on the electric fence

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You can't please everyone, stand up for yourself and hard times don't last forever.

Mrs

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Enjoy life as time goes by quickly.

Look after your teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t listen to them who sway you’re going nowhere in life, turns out, I did it my own way.

Don’t take time for granted, you never know when yours or a loved ones time is up, always give that extra hug, always forget petty arguments quickly.

Mrs

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Save 15-20% of each pay check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up your dream job to follow a guy you will dump in a few months time. Be more brave & ignore the inner critic. Empathy doesn't need to make you a doormat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't piss on the electric fence

Ouch ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Save 15-20% of each pay check

Good target

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd want to do it all again, it was shit enough the first time round.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't say anything because I wouldn't listen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the biggest loan as soon as you can followed by a buy and a sell date for bitcoin.

Oh and that hot goth girl at school that wanted to put stuff up ya bum... let he do it man.

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By *unCycleGymRepeatMan
over a year ago

Greater London

Everything will work out in the long run

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Just try to keep your mouth shut occasionally!

Mike

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