FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Someone arrange a meet but do not read message

Jump to newest
 

By *ingdang OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Someone arranged a seemingly genuine meet. When the time came, I can see they log in and out but do not talk to you. When I sent a polite hello message, they never read it.

What about you do? What’s the meaning behind it?

I tried to not be too angry or upset but it does make me feel bad about myself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go ghost,

Don't message them again or give them another chance.

They will be surprised.

Might even try to make it upto you and under exceptional circumstances you could possibly meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Someone arranged a seemingly genuine meet. When the time came, I can see they log in and out but do not talk to you. When I sent a polite hello message, they never read it.

What about you do? What’s the meaning behind it?

I tried to not be too angry or upset but it does make me feel bad about myself."
They ain't worth stressing over! Don't waste your breath or time move on and forget about them. Was their profile verified from a meet?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ingdang OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

It wasn’t verified but I have been talking with him for 5 months? What’s shock?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etal MickeyMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Someone arranged a seemingly genuine meet. When the time came, I can see they log in and out but do not talk to you. When I sent a polite hello message, they never read it.

What about you do? What’s the meaning behind it?

I tried to not be too angry or upset but it does make me feel bad about myself."

Don't feel bad, there are a lot of tools on here.

There is a slim chance there's a genuine reason.

I stay logged in so it shows I'm on but I can go days without checking. Yes if they arranged something they should be checking in but if a genuine emergency or something cropped up they might be logged in but busy.

Personally if I was in your position I'd just block them and assume they are a tool

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etal MickeyMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"It wasn’t verified but I have been talking with him for 5 months? What’s shock?"

Now that i have read this my guess would be they bottled it when the time came

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone arranged a seemingly genuine meet. When the time came, I can see they log in and out but do not talk to you. When I sent a polite hello message, they never read it.

What about you do? What’s the meaning behind it?

I tried to not be too angry or upset but it does make me feel bad about myself."

What's the meaning you've made to it Op?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ingdang OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

He saw him logged in 5 times last hour but never read the message I sent. I even have his phone number but guess I should just deleted.

Had enough of this I’m thinking of deleting this account for good

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *usty07Woman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I had a meet arranged last Wednesday night.

He made all the arrangements etc place time all going good .

An hour before he cancels ....its not you it's me .

That old chestnut

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"He saw him logged in 5 times last hour but never read the message I sent. I even have his phone number but guess I should just deleted.

Had enough of this I’m thinking of deleting this account for good"
You tried ringing him? Blimey he gave you his number and ignoring you seems crackers to me. It would be a "Goodnight Vienna" if it was me. Haha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ingdang OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

[Removed by poster at 27/03/23 13:18:42]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ingdang OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

At lease he canceled. Give him credit for that unlike this person

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Someone arranged a seemingly genuine meet. When the time came, I can see they log in and out but do not talk to you. When I sent a polite hello message, they never read it.

What about you do? What’s the meaning behind it?

I tried to not be too angry or upset but it does make me feel bad about myself."

Can't abide this behaviour. No second chances. Instant block

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Don't take it personally OP, happened to me an hour before a meet recently.

And then tried to gaslight me when I called them out for their behaviour!

Report, block, move on!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Poor behaviour. You live and learn and generally your gut instinct is correct.

Likely to be a catfish or fantasist

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London & Europe

Same thing happened to me recently, with 2 different women. We arranged to meet, then when the time came they stayed offline, for days. When they finally logged back in, one of them apologised and tried to arrange another meet, the other tried to blame me for not sending my address (I had told her to message when she wanted it, she also had my number).

Luckily I hadn't wasted time travelling for these shitshows

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Can’t believe how many people do this! Swear I’d hunt them down and chop their bollocks off if anyone did that to me or didn’t turn up. I’d be fuming!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t believe how many people do this! Swear I’d hunt them down and chop their bollocks off if anyone did that to me or didn’t turn up. I’d be fuming! "

Their left elbow bollocks in trouble then, if it ever happens

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Can’t believe how many people do this! Swear I’d hunt them down and chop their bollocks off if anyone did that to me or didn’t turn up. I’d be fuming!

Their left elbow bollocks in trouble then, if it ever happens "

. Damn right

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t believe how many people do this! Swear I’d hunt them down and chop their bollocks off if anyone did that to me or didn’t turn up. I’d be fuming!

Their left elbow bollocks in trouble then, if it ever happens

. Damn right "

See that left elbow bollock needs protecting, don't stand Nora uo fellas

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t believe how many people do this! Swear I’d hunt them down and chop their bollocks off if anyone did that to me or didn’t turn up. I’d be fuming! "

Exactly this - and guessing you have a jar with the shrunken pickled bollocks of all the blokes who made this mistake

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t believe how many people do this! Swear I’d hunt them down and chop their bollocks off if anyone did that to me or didn’t turn up. I’d be fuming! "

Calm down Glenn Close.

If a man said that, they would be labelled crazy.

Shit happens.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top