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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lot of the OP's by men on here, when people reply, they only reply to the women or couples. They completely ignore replies from other guys a lot of the time.

So basically loads of the men on here are using the forums in order to speak to women, right?

Is this plainly obvious and well known to forumites?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes. Yes it is.

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

Not a suprise to anyone really.

A few lads I've had good chats with but yeah many only care about one thing.

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By *exyEggsCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I mean... If they're on here looking to meet women... Does this surprise you?

Mrs TMN x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

There's a lot that don't reply to couples either, presumably because they assume it's the guy. Spoiler alert - on this account, it's always me (Mrs) in the forum

We get overlooked in the "fuck, lick, wallop, golden shower" threads so don't bother joining in anymore!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Well they can’t get a reply. So might as well try a different angle.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Yes it is."

She’s right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I'm not surprised, I was more curious to see if this has been noted by other people is all

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Yes. Yes it is.

She’s always right. "

FIFY

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I try to respond to everyone.

Some people I can't think of anything to say, some I actively choose not to respond to because I don't want to interact with them. Eventually I get bored the longer my thread goes on, and start to be even more selective with my responses. This is generally why I like that my threads don't last very long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a lot that don't reply to couples either, presumably because they assume it's the guy. Spoiler alert - on this account, it's always me (Mrs) in the forum

We get overlooked in the "fuck, lick, wallop, golden shower" threads so don't bother joining in anymore!"

Are they separate threads or all in one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it a very very cringe !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s pretty obvious. Usually it’s fairly obsequious too. Which is a bit ick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, cringeworthy - well thanks ya'll. Now I know it wasn't just my perception.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s pretty obvious. Usually it’s fairly obsequious too. Which is a bit ick. "

Excellent use of obsequious - gain 5 points

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"A lot of the OP's by men on here, when people reply, they only reply to the women or couples. They completely ignore replies from other guys a lot of the time.

So basically loads of the men on here are using the forums in order to speak to women, right?

Is this plainly obvious and well known to forumites?"

I can't answer that I'm afraid.

You're a guy......

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of the OP's by men on here, when people reply, they only reply to the women or couples. They completely ignore replies from other guys a lot of the time.

So basically loads of the men on here are using the forums in order to speak to women, right?

Is this plainly obvious and well known to forumites?

I can't answer that I'm afraid.

You're a guy......

A"

Yeah, but I talk to everyone, including you and you're a guy!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I try to talk to everyone that talks to me on the forums, occasionally I don't see things or there's not really anything to say back so I say nothing.

There's definitely guys that never reply to other guys though, which is a bit sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a unconvincing tranny. Virtually invisible sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try being a unconvincing tranny. Virtually invisible sometimes!"

Did anyone hear that?!

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I only talk to men to even it up

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome


"Try being a unconvincing tranny. Virtually invisible sometimes!"

Sorry, did you say something?

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

In forums I'm an equal opportunity

Replier depends what's put .

But if a lady takes my eye and I may reply in different way than I would to a man . same goes if I'm replying to wonko or Jennie TV

My reply may be more slanted towards them .

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeah guys do this all the time.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"No I'm not surprised, I was more curious to see if this has been noted by other people is all "

I think the only people who don't notice are those who can't read.

It's an unwritten Fab rule, alongside male OPs only being allowed to post questions "for the ladies"!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Try being a unconvincing tranny. Virtually invisible sometimes!"

Who you kidding. Your cloak of invisablity isn't working your brillents stands out a mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a unconvincing tranny. Virtually invisible sometimes!"

I’m not even a convincing human being.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"A lot of the OP's by men on here, when people reply, they only reply to the women or couples. They completely ignore replies from other guys a lot of the time.

So basically loads of the men on here are using the forums in order to speak to women, right?

Is this plainly obvious and well known to forumites?

I can't answer that I'm afraid.

You're a guy......

A

Yeah, but I talk to everyone, including you and you're a guy!

"

Yep. Just scratched my balls to check.

But yeah. There often a clear pattern. Most of the regular male forum users don't follow it but it's especially prevalent on any of the threads where people are asked to join in, comment on the Profile above and if a woman asks the same question as a guy there'll usually be more responses and much more in a supportive or positive manner.

Because of course, as everyone knows, women who use the forums will fuck any guy that publicly blows smoke up their arse. Not.

Some men think flattery or fawning compliments will curry favour. Others think commenting along the lines of 'I'd never do that' or apologising on behalf of some complete stranger who shares their gender will win bonus points and if they get enough they'll get a gobby wank instead of a goldfish or a cuddly toy.

It's always been the same. Always will be too.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what the thread is about for me. I'll respond to anyone that I think I have something to comment on

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yeah. It's obvious and cringey as hell

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"No I'm not surprised, I was more curious to see if this has been noted by other people is all

I think the only people who don't notice are those who can't read.

It's an unwritten Fab rule, alongside male OPs only being allowed to post questions "for the ladies"! "

Nice dong on you for a woman, pal.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"No I'm not surprised, I was more curious to see if this has been noted by other people is all

I think the only people who don't notice are those who can't read.

It's an unwritten Fab rule, alongside male OPs only being allowed to post questions "for the ladies"!

Nice dong on you for a woman, pal.

"

Not cool to OUT me like that, CD - I told you that in confidence!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"No I'm not surprised, I was more curious to see if this has been noted by other people is all

I think the only people who don't notice are those who can't read.

It's an unwritten Fab rule, alongside male OPs only being allowed to post questions "for the ladies"!

Nice dong on you for a woman, pal.

Not cool to OUT me like that, CD - I told you that in confidence! "

Nonsense, be proud of your lovely dong babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a unconvincing tranny. Virtually invisible sometimes!"

Not true x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Try being a unconvincing tranny. Virtually invisible sometimes!"

I see you, baby (shaking that ass)

https://youtu.be/DDjoouqRnhk

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No I'm not surprised, I was more curious to see if this has been noted by other people is all

I think the only people who don't notice are those who can't read.

It's an unwritten Fab rule, alongside male OPs only being allowed to post questions "for the ladies"!

Nice dong on you for a woman, pal.

Not cool to OUT me like that, CD - I told you that in confidence!

Nonsense, be proud of your lovely dong babe "

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"A lot of the OP's by men on here, when people reply, they only reply to the women or couples. They completely ignore replies from other guys a lot of the time.

So basically loads of the men on here are using the forums in order to speak to women, right?

Is this plainly obvious and well known to forumites?"
You've hit the nail on the head, their inboxes are silent places

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