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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? " Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes " People must have sad lonely lives... I hope they were reported too? X | |||
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"Do it, do it, do it It's acceptable " I'll feel less guilty from now on! Lol | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes " Completely agree. | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes People must have sad lonely lives... I hope they were reported too? X" Some were | |||
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"Perfectly fine! You can't be everyone's cup of tea. If you were you would be a mug! Haha " Oh I'm definitely a mug! | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes People must have sad lonely lives... I hope they were reported too? X Some were " I want to say good but the gmfact it happens that often is quite dissapointing really. | |||
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"Perfectly fine! You can't be everyone's cup of tea. If you were you would be a mug! Haha Oh I'm definitely a mug! " Haha you mug! | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? " It's how we roll. Hell. We block when we're browsing profiles if we see someone that'll never be what we're looking for. Cuts down on searching time and does them a favour too as it means they'll never waste their time looking at us or trying to message. A | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? It's how we roll. Hell. We block when we're browsing profiles if we see someone that'll never be what we're looking for. Cuts down on searching time and does them a favour too as it means they'll never waste their time looking at us or trying to message. A" I'm looking forward to being blocked by you sometime soon. Recognition! | |||
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"Do it, do it, do it It's acceptable " Consider yourself blocked | |||
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"Whats your personal thoughts on blocking OP? " Well generally I only block if it is someone who is outside of my specified preferences... However I usually reply to all messages (I don't get many!). Just wondered if there was a Fab etiquette... Lol Beautiful pictures by the way! (don't block me!) x | |||
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"That’s what I do. Unless it’s someone from the forum. I don’t block them. " Whew! | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes " | |||
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"That’s what I do. Unless it’s someone from the forum. I don’t block them. Whew! " Not sure what that means | |||
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"That’s what I do. Unless it’s someone from the forum. I don’t block them. Whew! Not sure what that means " That I'm not blocked yet... | |||
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"That’s what I do. Unless it’s someone from the forum. I don’t block them. Whew! Not sure what that means That I'm not blocked yet... " | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? It's how we roll. Hell. We block when we're browsing profiles if we see someone that'll never be what we're looking for. Cuts down on searching time and does them a favour too as it means they'll never waste their time looking at us or trying to message. A I'm looking forward to being blocked by you sometime soon. Recognition!" I do occasionally whack the block button due to forum posts.....but it's rare and reserved only for those truly deserving. Pretty sure you're unlikely to join that happy throng. A | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? " Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. " This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol | |||
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"If you just say no thanks, not for me, and block, or delete the message, or whatever, as long as you aren't rude in the message, it's perfectly acceptable." Exactly this.. Also if I send a message which then gets deleted with no return mail, I’ll block | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol" They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. " Bit like in Sainsbury’s having to choose between one mouldy banana and another | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. Bit like in Sainsbury’s having to choose between one mouldy banana and another " Shop at Waitrose darling | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. " Surely that is a logical strategy. It makes perfect sense from an evolutionary point of view. A resource rich environment is desirable, I would have thought. | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? " Completely acceptable. The reasons to block someone are immense, how people run their profile is entirely up to them, if they choose to block you that is their choice whether you see it as acceptable or not. I find it is a great way to filter out who you are interested in and who you aren’t. | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. " So they settle for less? A | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. So they settle for less? A" Nail on head | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. Surely that is a logical strategy. It makes perfect sense from an evolutionary point of view. A resource rich environment is desirable, I would have thought. " Yeah women are naturally hypergamaos It just shows though that it isn't always the case that they weren't attracted. | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. So they settle for less? A" Or they realise they had made a mistake. | |||
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"Im blocked by loads - I just put that down to their shortsightedness if how awesome i am in pretty much every respect!! With couples its always the guy that blocks me as he knows I’m funnier, better looking, and a world class shag and he feels intimidated - its a shame as the women normally know nothing about it then go to message me naked pics and a phone number to find they’ve blocked me!! Single women who block me - i just put that down to them not wanting to fall in love with me and its just self protection… tons have already - just in case… can’t blame them when they realise just how much awesome can be fitted into one body!! " That's really funny.... I am wondering about your chat up lines though.... Do you say... " My name is Moore ...TodgerMoore..." Like James Bond does with his name? | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. Surely that is a logical strategy. It makes perfect sense from an evolutionary point of view. A resource rich environment is desirable, I would have thought. Yeah women are naturally hypergamaos It just shows though that it isn't always the case that they weren't attracted. " Ooof not sure I would agree with that statement! | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. Surely that is a logical strategy. It makes perfect sense from an evolutionary point of view. A resource rich environment is desirable, I would have thought. Yeah women are naturally hypergamaos It just shows though that it isn't always the case that they weren't attracted. Ooof not sure I would agree with that statement! " It made sense when I was balls deep in them. | |||
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"Im blocked by loads - I just put that down to their shortsightedness if how awesome i am in pretty much every respect!! With couples its always the guy that blocks me as he knows I’m funnier, better looking, and a world class shag and he feels intimidated - its a shame as the women normally know nothing about it then go to message me naked pics and a phone number to find they’ve blocked me!! Single women who block me - i just put that down to them not wanting to fall in love with me and its just self protection… tons have already - just in case… can’t blame them when they realise just how much awesome can be fitted into one body!! That's really funny.... I am wondering about your chat up lines though.... Do you say... " My name is Moore ...TodgerMoore..." Like James Bond does with his name? " I once beckoned a woman by wiggling my little finger and she came over.. I said I just made you come by wiggling my little finger… As I didn’t get a punch in the face … I took it from there … no chat up as such just some conversation … and see where it goes xx | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. Surely that is a logical strategy. It makes perfect sense from an evolutionary point of view. A resource rich environment is desirable, I would have thought. Yeah women are naturally hypergamaos It just shows though that it isn't always the case that they weren't attracted. Ooof not sure I would agree with that statement! It made sense when I was balls deep in them. " Maybe you come across less mr know it all in real life and don’t have your high horse to sit on. | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. Surely that is a logical strategy. It makes perfect sense from an evolutionary point of view. A resource rich environment is desirable, I would have thought. Yeah women are naturally hypergamaos It just shows though that it isn't always the case that they weren't attracted. Ooof not sure I would agree with that statement! It made sense when I was balls deep in them. " what you said make actually sense mate your saying people speak to u ghost you then fucked u in club then block u online again because they think they going get better yet if at was case they why the fucking u at club lack of options which means didn't like u in 1st place just wanna get end away similar to say a male when he's choosing a hotter mate , iv experience this a few time its why I won't make any connection with anyone cause end day they will ghost you soon or later | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? Poor form. It's awkward if you run into somebody you have blocked in a club. Had women who i have messaged on here, i had no response but played with them in a club. This is what I was curious about... Loads of messaging and picture sharing then ghosting. As if they were never there at all! Awks! Lol They just have so much choice on here, always trying to look for something better. In different environments they don't have so much choice though. Surely that is a logical strategy. It makes perfect sense from an evolutionary point of view. A resource rich environment is desirable, I would have thought. Yeah women are naturally hypergamaos It just shows though that it isn't always the case that they weren't attracted. Ooof not sure I would agree with that statement! It made sense when I was balls deep in them. Maybe you come across less mr know it all in real life and don’t have your high horse to sit on. " I tend to back my opinions or up with facts or pretty circumstantial evidence. Keep Scout tied up outside the club. | |||
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"Its a two sided debate if your view is to block them then what about the opinion of this happening to you are you OK with people just blocking u on looks if so what happens when your not really the hottest etc its a sliding scale skewed to those it benefits where as on other hand im q hetero male who has to tell alot of other bi and gay males daily im not interested its not hard just need respect to be handled with just tell them about actual attraction and most respect you but most times womens think males going stalk them or be repulsive etc" I personally think whoever you are! You can be respectful with a polite no if you ain't attracted to someone. Doesn't mean you can't still be friendly or block it's personal choice. | |||
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"It stops abuse in some cases, the amount of babies who can't take a polite no , such pathetic behaviour. Can't take a no online imagine they won't take no for an answer in person, gross I don't bother replying, so rare I need to block. I only block people pushing their fetishes and dicks in my inbox now People can block whoever the fuck they want imo" So true! I got blocked from a guy just because he was wanting to see more videos, After i said I'll do them when i post them publicly. He was demanding! But apparently liked talking to me. You are allowed to say "No" | |||
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"Totally acceptable. People have many reasons for blocking, just accept they've blocked you and move on." Don't you block me now... | |||
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"That’s what I do. Unless it’s someone from the forum. I don’t block them. 'Cough'" I haven’t? Although we didn’t used to get on at all did we . Maybe I did on one of your other profiles. Would have been a long time ago though | |||
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"That’s what I do. Unless it’s someone from the forum. I don’t block them. 'Cough' I haven’t? Although we didn’t used to get on at all did we . Maybe I did on one of your other profiles. Would have been a long time ago though " Lol yeah...but only for a day..I probably deserved it lol x | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes " I would have enough to buy a shoe shop!!!! | |||
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"That’s what I do. Unless it’s someone from the forum. I don’t block them. 'Cough' I haven’t? Although we didn’t used to get on at all did we . Maybe I did on one of your other profiles. Would have been a long time ago though " See this is why when people block me because they think im a knob- they shouldn’t. Tbeyshould stick with it until they find out im actually a massive knob.. then do it | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes I would have enough to buy a shoe shop!!!! " You mean you don't own Whitby Cobblers? | |||
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"Blocking is a nuisance when used as a matter of course by forum user. Although I might have no intention of ever messaging people, I sometimes want to check their biography in order to get some idea of what makes them tick and work out why they have commented in a particular fashion. Looking them up doesn't mean I am going to bother them. Some people are so up their own backsides that they think everyone who looks them up is going to send them a 'Hi WUU2? message!" yes - Hi Sup? Is much more efficient. | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes I would have enough to buy a shoe shop!!!! You mean you don't own Whitby Cobblers? " I wish | |||
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"Acceptable. Stops any further messages that may or may not end in abuse And if its a polite/respectful message? Still acceptable. If I had a quid for every polite message that was then followed up by abuse after not getting a response I’d have enough money to buy some nice new shoes I would have enough to buy a shoe shop!!!! You mean you don't own Whitby Cobblers? I wish " They do have some very nice shoes... And a great chippy opposite! | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? " It stings a tad but is totally acceptble | |||
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"Controversial question... What are peoples thoughts on blocking people after a message of you are not attracted to them physically? Bad form or acceptable? " Women see it as acceptable it cuts down on messages from men they aren't interested in and i can see a point to it to be fair gives them more time to concentrate on those they like | |||
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