FabSwingers.com forum: At what point do you time

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What has questioned your fab membership the most recently?

1 bad experience?

2 bad experience?

What's your breaking point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attitudes of a select few have got me close to leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many to count

But I'm just here to piss of the clique

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

The racism , it’s getting so bad .

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Wondering if I could get what I wanted from the site and also whether I had what it took to offer others what they wanted too as far as sexual experiences go. I still do think about the latter quite a bit but it doesn't define me on Fab as much as I thought it used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day when I get no responses lol. But I'm sticking it out!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I just take long breaks if I need to.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’d say a combination of points 1 & 2…

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nothing as it's online and can be avoided some times just able to let it fly over my head

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

When I get chatty Cathy’s in my inbox. I prefer the strong silent type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kept telling myself that it's not Fabs fault that some members are cunts.....the good experiences definitely outweigh the bad, and there has been a few bad experiences

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Actually nothing for a long time now. This is a hobby not a lifestyle so I can take it or leave it.

I have been dragged into other peoples drama in the past but I'm well away from all that now.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"What has questioned your fab membership the most recently?"

Everything, all the damn time.

"1 bad experience?"

My first meet wasn’t great, I was very naive and under the influence of a manipulative narcissist and listened to them instead of my gut.

"2 bad experience?"

I wouldn’t say bad as such but time wasters, no shows & rude people who think it’s ok to message abuse (yes in first contact) kinda ruin the whole experience oh and entitled pricks who think everyone should just drop their knickers for them just because they are on here

"What's your breaking point?"

Still here so I guess it ain’t broke me yet

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

For me, it's the weird and arbitrary decisions taken by forum mods.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nothing bad I just think I’ve almost had enough of it. I tried to delete my account 5 times last week and it wouldn’t work! Wouldn’t let me press the permanently delete bit. I guess they don’t wanna lose me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I've never thought of leaving.

We too a 5 year break where I probably popped in the forums without posting about half a dozen times.

But never considered leaving.

It's far easier to just log off or hide your profile than leave and then have to start again if you choose. I've never understood the revolving door fabbers that come and go every couple of months.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Nothing bad I just think I’ve almost had enough of it. I tried to delete my account 5 times last week and it wouldn’t work! Wouldn’t let me press the permanently delete bit. I guess they don’t wanna lose me

They gave me control of the "allowed to leave" switch.

You're stuck here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be a tad impulsive, things annoy me and I leave. Lots of things annoy me.

I come back for the pretty cocks though, it's always the pretty cocks.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

It’s full of depraved sexual deviants. I fit in and never want to leave

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

They gave me control of the "allowed to leave" switch.

You're stuck here

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I am currently at the breaking point due to many factors, but if something is going to break me, it’s not Fab or any bad experience. It is my inner saboteur.

So far I’m still here.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

No one leaves it's always been a trap

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I've not had any really bad Fab experiences - the usual annoyances and frustrations at times (and on the Forum, there are only so many 'cut or uncut' threads a man can take!)- but I'll leave when I'm bored rather than the actions of others wearing me down (they're not quite the same thing).

I still enjoy chatting and (occasionally) meeting people from here so I'll be around for a bit, I reckon. Sorry about that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can be a tad impulsive, things annoy me and I leave. Lots of things annoy me.

I come back for the pretty cocks though, it's always the pretty cocks.

Would be less annoying if the mouth breeders stopped breathing for 10 minutes?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm holding out for a miracle

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No one leaves it's always been a trap

Haha I used to leave quite a lot. Not for a few years now though. If I go I’ll go for good next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a simple fella, not catching a break. What turns one woman on, disgusts the next. Can't win

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I can be a tad impulsive, things annoy me and I leave. Lots of things annoy me.

I come back for the pretty cocks though, it's always the pretty cocks.

You leave and come back? Since when

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

No one leaves it's always been a trap

Haha I used to leave quite a lot. Not for a few years now though. If I go I’ll go for good next time. "

Well those whom left before I'm sure it wasn't through the door

times change has new security

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Attitudes of a select few have got me close to leaving

Oi don't you dare

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can be a tad impulsive, things annoy me and I leave. Lots of things annoy me.

I come back for the pretty cocks though, it's always the pretty cocks.

You leave and come back? Since when

I think Raven classes leaving as "ninja mode"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of effort in opening messages….which I don’t get

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"When I get chatty Cathy’s in my inbox. I prefer the strong silent type.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I just take wee break from logging on - although the last one ended up being a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I get chatty Cathy’s in my inbox. I prefer the strong silent type.

I can't message you though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just take wee break from logging on - although the last one ended up being a year

It took you a year to have a wee?

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

You will have good and bad in everything.

People will let you down and not live up to expectations.

Many people you haven't spoken too or met so you still have time.

Head up more than down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d miss you and the secret service threads

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Oh many things but they are not fab related, just glossy apple, rotten inside people related.

Happy chatting shit with my fuckoffodometer on high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I just don't care. The thread subjects are usually fun and interesting to delve knee deep into. But I don't care enough to ever leave. I might go on a hiatus but you can still perve on my happy trail x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing at all currently. I am quite chilled about it all now. If I leave it will just be because I need to claw some of my time back being useful, not fuck about on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing specific , sometimes I just wake up in a bad mood and decide to rage quit if something annoys me enough. Like a lot of people we always end up coming back.

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

The attitudes of a select few have made me more steadfast recently

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

It’s hit and miss , I do take breaks for a couple of months at a time … only so much you can put up with .

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A particularly bad experience on a social, but it's one out of so many that have been enjoyable.

I just hide my profile for a bit and stay in the forums because they're always a good distraction.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I thought it was like the mafia, once you're in, you're in for life.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not recently but we deleted our old profile due to some woman who couldn't take a no for an answer and proceeded to threaten me and our children.

Mrs

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"The racism , it’s getting so bad . "

This

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not directly connected to Fab. Ish. But an experience I had recently, first one in my life where someone else was chosen over me. I was the back up option. The lesser one. Didn't know I was until after. It did make me think; fuck, I'm pretty delusional. People wouldn't choose to meet me. Because that's what it's about. Choosing to spend time with someone.

So yeah, that was the closest I've come in a long time. It was handled really poorly. And I did find myself thinking fuck, I must be awful company. Really bad. Hey ho, I've moved on.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I nearly left for good last year. I didn't delete my account but just stopped logging on one day. I was gone for nearly a year but I don't think I will ever officially leave

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Not directly connected to Fab. Ish. But an experience I had recently, first one in my life where someone else was chosen over me. I was the back up option. The lesser one. Didn't know I was until after. It did make me think; fuck, I'm pretty delusional. People wouldn't choose to meet me. Because that's what it's about. Choosing to spend time with someone.

So yeah, that was the closest I've come in a long time. It was handled really poorly. And I did find myself thinking fuck, I must be awful company. Really bad. Hey ho, I've moved on.

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You're engaged are you not? Could be thats why you were second best

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

When I was using the site as my main way to meet I found it pretty frustrating and it really shook my self-confidence at times. Now I just come here for a natter when I've a bit of time on my hands and it suits that purpose really well for me.

I've never thought about leaving but I have had months where I've not thought about logging in because it felt more of a drag than a boon.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

So yeah, that was the closest I've come in a long time. It was handled really poorly. And I did find myself thinking fuck, I must be awful company. Really bad. Hey ho, I've moved on.

You're engaged are you not? Could be thats why you were second best

It very well could be in mono land. I'm in such a happy mood your attempt at a dig has made me laugh.

Damn my eternal chain of damnation in the form of an engagement ring though. Didn't realise what a curse it would be.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Oh I just don't care. The thread subjects are usually fun and interesting to delve knee deep into. But I don't care enough to ever leave. I might go on a hiatus but you can still perve on my happy trail x"

No idea who, but this turned out to be a very ironic post...

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"Attitudes of a select few have got me close to leaving

Never do that you are required here

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I haven't really had a bad experience in a long time one guy I met a few years ago for a social did make me think about leaving as he didn't know the meaning of the word no.But he had left fab before I got home and could report him.

Fab is a strange place at times it has some amazing people and some not so great,what is seen publicly is not always a true representation of the person. So I take most things said on here or to me with a pinch of salt. I make up my own mind and do my own journey my own way and I've been lucky enough to meet some wonderful people and some I do consider to be good friends.And one who is someone I trust completely. And people like that are why fab are worthwhile. I tend to ignore any abuse etc I may get off people that I don't know or care about,that's what the block button is for.

I think if I ever do decide to leave I wouldn't come back.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

No idea who, but this turned out to be a very ironic post...

I thought the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea who, but this turned out to be a very ironic post...

I thought the same thing!"

I know who

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

No idea who, but this turned out to be a very ironic post...

I thought the same thing!

I know who

I think I know, if we've had a whole thread about that already?!?

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