FabSwingers.com forum: Fab friends

By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

Inspired by a couple of recent threads, it got me thinking how do people use this fab feature? I usually add to my friends list people I have met in real life or I am seriously thinking of meeting. Sometimes it fades away as it’s not too much interaction as initially expected and it’s ok. I realise I am not the best “fab” friend either and it’s got a lot to do with my avoidant attachment style so I apologise for being that crappy friend but I would really like to hear your thoughts.

(Hope it makes sense)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just an extra chance to perve people

They are never going to agree to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite particular about who I have as a friend, I think I have about 5 or 6. It never goes past 10, that just panics me.

I'm only comfortable showing my face and other areas to guys I genuinely find attractive and whose penis I think I'd like inside me at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re very similar actually, we have one or two we talk to regularly but we always forget to just reach out and say hi.

We must seem so ignorant but we’re honestly not! Just need a nudge every now and again

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

"It's just an extra chance to perve people

They are never going to agree to meet me "

Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just an extra chance to perve people

They are never going to agree to meet me

Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license."

Bet you say that to all the boys ... Get out excuse no. 335A

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

"It's just an extra chance to perve people

They are never going to agree to meet me

Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license.

Bet you say that to all the boys ... Get out excuse no. 335A"

As the legend says, you caught me red-handed

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We have a very small friends list consisting of people we've met socially and become real friends, people we've met for fun and would happily do.so again, people we've chatted to at reasonable length and would love to meet socially or for fun should circumstances permit....and that's it.

We don't add anyone on a whim, we have no interest in seeing extra photos from anyone else, nor looking to build a huge list of potential meets.

We can 100% guarantee that not one person on our friends list is there to view bonus photo content. 100%. Guaranteed.

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By *vent HorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Inspired by a couple of recent threads, it got me thinking how do people use this fab feature? I usually add to my friends list people I have met in real life or I am seriously thinking of meeting. Sometimes it fades away as it’s not too much interaction as initially expected and it’s ok. I realise I am not the best “fab” friend either and it’s got a lot to do with my avoidant attachment style so I apologise for being that crappy friend but I would really like to hear your thoughts.

(Hope it makes sense)"

Makes total sense.

We tend to have a lot of coming and goings in our friends list for those exact reasons.

It's amazing how many friends requests we get with literally no interaction as well.

Like you we try and limit friends to those who are and those we would like to be.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Only those that jump through hoops and agree to have our names tattooed on their arse cheeks make our friends list.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"We have a very small friends list consisting of people we've met socially and become real friends, people we've met for fun and would happily do.so again, people we've chatted to at reasonable length and would love to meet socially or for fun should circumstances permit....and that's it.

We don't add anyone on a whim, we have no interest in seeing extra photos from anyone else, nor looking to build a huge list of potential meets.

We can 100% guarantee that not one person on our friends list is there to view bonus photo content. 100%. Guaranteed.

Same as this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just an extra chance to perve people

They are never going to agree to meet me

Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license."

Your not on my friends list thought and I do get to London every so often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends list is v small. People I really want to meet or have met in the past .

I'm not always the most chatty.

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Only those that jump through hoops and agree to have our names tattooed on their arse cheeks make our friends list."

That’s a commitment I’m willing to take for the sake of fab friendships. Booking my next tattoo appointment as I type this.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Don't add till you've got to know them.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's not a feature I use

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.

All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.

All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x"

Yet you let me onto it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually my friends list would be those who have already seen me naked or are friends on fab and know it will be just that.

I've had exceptions to those rules before but not often.

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

I'm only comfortable showing my face and other areas to guys I genuinely find attractive and whose penis I think I'd like inside me at some point.

Exactly. With an honourable extension to those who have already done it.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.

All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x

Yet you let me onto it?

How else will I see your bikini pics Wonko

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.

All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x

Yet you let me onto it?

How else will I see your bikini pics Wonko

My beach body is no where near ready

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

"My friends list is v small. People I really want to meet or have met in the past .

I'm not always the most chatty. "

I’m quite similar. Plus I have a foreign language barrier which makes me very insecure about chatting in general.

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

"It's just an extra chance to perve people

They are never going to agree to meet me

Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license.

Your not on my friends list thought and I do get to London every so often "

Thats true, I am not. (yet)

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.

All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x"

That’s how I use my hotlist too, I like to see all the interesting updates!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My friends list is small. It’s people I’ve met or I’m likely to meet.

I’m quite hard work chat wise so I wouldn’t recommend myself and I also upload a lot of photos which can get on the tits of some I’d imagine.

My hotlist, however, is my secret crush list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F is a bit more open to friends than I am, we do use hot list kind of like a bookmark easier than remembering someone's fab name

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

My total accumulation of Fab Friends is about fifteen, five of which are Fab Social organisers' profiles to keep abreast of forthcoming events.

I don't accept friend requests on a whim.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've got 2 people on mine, one that I see kind of regularly and one that I chat to regularly. That's it. I don't add randoms.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

My friends list is guys I have met and guys I am considering meeting. If theres no contact from them for a couple of weeks I delete them.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

For us, our friends list is for folks we have met.

All random requests are deleted but we always answer why we are not adding them as friends, just basic manners. If they reply with a snipe or nasty comment, its a block, that simple.

We use FAB as a swingers meeting site for holidays, parties and socials, not for long term friendships as we feel to be a long term friend we would have to introduce you to our vanilla friends and that petrifies us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I want to meet. My fault it hasn’t happened yet.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I use the forums to help with my boredom of life.

Its this or put my head in a oven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll usually look to add someone if a connection has been made and we're looking to move things forward, possibly to a meet because it's a lot easier to find them on the friends list

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