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By *rCheeky44 OP   Man
over a year ago

a town near you

Persevere they said. You’ll get a reply lol lol still trying but nothing yet lol

Just wondering if it’s worth the effect anymore

Been on here since 2008 never known it so bad.

Use to be such a friendly place to message and chat

What do other old and bold think on how it’s changed on here since the start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Persevere they said. You’ll get a reply lol lol still trying but nothing yet lol

Just wondering if it’s worth the effect anymore

Been on here since 2008 never known it so bad.

Use to be such a friendly place to message and chat

What do other old and bold think on how it’s changed on here since the start?"

Winners never quit and quitters never win.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If I hadn't had a reply since 2008 I'd be packing it in

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Persevere they said. You’ll get a reply lol lol still trying but nothing yet lol

Just wondering if it’s worth the effect anymore

Been on here since 2008 never known it so bad.

Use to be such a friendly place to message and chat

What do other old and bold think on how it’s changed on here since the start?"

Well it started in 2006....but I've been here since 2008.

The site hasn't changed much at all in my mind. I have.

I started out as a single guy and have been a couple since 2012. I changed my approaches over the years, evolved, learned and use a variety of avenues to meet. Not just the site, but clubs and organised socials.

When we things didn't work I looked inwards rather than blame things I couldn't change - the preferences and tastes of others, the site features and tools, club facilities and policies, the ever obvious disparity in the volume of women, couokes and single men. I couldn't change any of those so I changed me.

Worked out great in the end.

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You've got a recent verification

The site hasn't changed, maybe the members have

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

It's still a friendly place, you've just got to find the right people

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Persevere they said. You’ll get a reply lol lol still trying but nothing yet lol

Just wondering if it’s worth the effect anymore

Been on here since 2008 never known it so bad.

Use to be such a friendly place to message and chat

What do other old and bold think on how it’s changed on here since the start?"
If you don't ask politely you don't get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you’re talking bollox op

Youve got three verifications??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site hasn't much if you ask me.

I have over the years though, my tolerance for bullshit has dropped dramatically so I very rarely bother

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

2008 my god I admire your determination to get a message

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I would tell you the site is full of cliques and people after ego massages but, nobody notices me so I just post bollocks on forums.

The real world is better.

Some on here are ok but only the minority, I came back on and think it has gotten worse.

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By *oom Bang a BangMan
over a year ago

Watford


"Persevere they said. You’ll get a reply lol lol still trying but nothing yet lol

Just wondering if it’s worth the effect anymore

Been on here since 2008 never known it so bad.

Use to be such a friendly place to message and chat

What do other old and bold think on how it’s changed on here since the start?

Winners never quit and quitters never win. "

Nick Berry sang Every Loser Wins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would tell you the site is full of cliques and people after ego massages but, nobody notices me so I just post bollocks on forums.

The real world is better.

Some on here are ok but only the minority, I came back on and think it has gotten worse.

"

Do someone say something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would tell you the site is full of cliques and people after ego massages but, nobody notices me so I just post bollocks on forums.

The real world is better.

Some on here are ok but only the minority, I came back on and think it has gotten worse.

"

I appreciate the bollocks you post on here. Makes this forum a little more palatable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it time plenty of beautiful lady’s on hear not a case of preserving

Chat on hear

They don’t bite

Well not many do

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Changed alot as seems now most regard it as either a "Sex" site so need to chat ?? or a "Club" site where most only meet at clubs which sort of defeats the idea of being on here ?? but still afew good ones on here just finding them is harder work ?? and used to be Nothing ventured nothing gained ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain , when I was on here 5/6 years ago , I would get a reply from 80% of messages- even if it was thanks but no thanks( I only send a small amount of messages , I’m not one of the copy and paste brigade ) . Now it’s non existent . I just use it for the forums now, there is no point spending time crafting a message to someone, who then just ignores it ,

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"If I hadn't had a reply since 2008 I'd be packing it in"

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I'm sorry to hear this Mr. Bites.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Most people want to do more than just msg and chat...

Are your veris all just from social events? They don't look like they're from actual meets.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I would tell you the site is full of cliques and people after ego massages but, nobody notices me so I just post bollocks on forums.

The real world is better.

Some on here are ok but only the minority, I came back on and think it has gotten worse.

I appreciate the bollocks you post on here. Makes this forum a little more palatable "
My bollocks thank you, I'll give them a tickle on your behalf.

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