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Up the game ….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think you need to up yours?

Do you think others need to up theirs?

Do you ever tell others to ‘try harder’ with their approach?

Did you change something yourself and it worked for you?

Curious how you’ve found the ‘right place’ for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have game, just do my own thing. The vibe that sends out attracts others on the same wavelength into my love vortex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here?

Hell yeah I really need to up my game if ever I want to meet anyone again. I can’t even be arsed to write a proper bio.

But I don’t have plans to meet at present so I’m happy to continue being shit tbf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have game, just do my own thing. The vibe that sends out attracts others on the same wavelength into my love vortex "

Ooo a love vortex sounds like a treat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On here?

Hell yeah I really need to up my game if ever I want to meet anyone again. I can’t even be arsed to write a proper bio.

But I don’t have plans to meet at present so I’m happy to continue being shit tbf"

Honest & fair ha

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We only ever bring our A game

I mean , why wouldn't you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put in my best efforts every time, be it a social meet, play meet or a club visit. I'm here for a reason so want to make the most of it, and make the best of what I have. Half hearted efforts don't exist in my book.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If I wanted to get out there properly and do the full swinger thing, I'd probably need to up my game.

But I am who I am. I play with the people who interest and excite me for who they are, and who find me interesting and exciting for who I am without having to play silly games.

I'm sure I could up my game to get more sex with different people, but I doubt I'd enjoy it as much as I do with the people I find actual compatibility with by just being me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only ever bring our A game

I mean , why wouldn't you ?"

I can see that from the first video

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I put in my best efforts every time, be it a social meet, play meet or a club visit. I'm here for a reason so want to make the most of it, and make the best of what I have. Half hearted efforts don't exist in my book."

I like your book

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I wanted to get out there properly and do the full swinger thing, I'd probably need to up my game.

But I am who I am. I play with the people who interest and excite me for who they are, and who find me interesting and exciting for who I am without having to play silly games.

I'm sure I could up my game to get more sex with different people, but I doubt I'd enjoy it as much as I do with the people I find actual compatibility with by just being me "

Well from that it seems your game is exactly where it needs to be…and where you want it to be

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

This is like the opposite of the lowering of standards thread.

No, is the answer OP. Simply because I am a who I am and I always present myself as best I can while retaining my authenticity.

In other words - maximum effort, maximum transparency, absolute truth (to myself and others).

If they like what they get, they’re getting the best ‘me’ already. Although we may evolve together.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I quite often tell men they need to try harder...

I probably could up my game, but I just cba right now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is like the opposite of the lowering of standards thread.

No, is the answer OP. Simply because I am a who I am and I always present myself as best I can while retaining my authenticity.

In other words - maximum effort, maximum transparency, absolute truth (to myself and others).

If they like what they get, they’re getting the best ‘me’ already. Although we may evolve together."

A well thought out answer …bravo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I quite often tell men they need to try harder...

I probably could up my game, but I just cba right now.

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Do they often come in with too much expectation ?

I’m sure when you can you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I absolutely need to up my game. Try to not be afraid of being too forward and try to have confidence in myself that even if I get knocked back, I don't need to overthink it and can move on without an issue.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I have no game plan for me to "up" or raise. I come as I am.

I am indifferent in whether others need to up theirs.

Who am I to tell others to try harder?

I change on here organically as my Fab experience evolves.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I don’t think I’m breaking any Trading Standards

I flirt

I interact

I’ve not broken any hearts as yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I absolutely need to up my game. Try to not be afraid of being too forward and try to have confidence in myself that even if I get knocked back, I don't need to overthink it and can move on without an issue."

Yeah don’t get down about rejection… we can’t all be the right one for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no game plan for me to "up" or raise. I come as I am.

I am indifferent in whether others need to up theirs.

Who am I to tell others to try harder?

I change on here organically as my Fab experience evolves."

Some do tel others to try harder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think I’m breaking any Trading Standards

I flirt

I interact

I’ve not broken any hearts as yet "

Or did they just not tell you you’d broken them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how to find the people that I want to talk to I think now. It keeps giving me the same sort of person, but I may have to accept that is the sort of person I like.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I don’t think it’s about game. I think it’s about knowing when to quit and no means no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know how to find the people that I want to talk to I think now. It keeps giving me the same sort of person, but I may have to accept that is the sort of person I like. "

Do you not normally go for that type?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I quite often tell men they need to try harder...

I probably could up my game, but I just cba right now.

Do they often come in with too much expectation ?

I’m sure when you can you will "

Yes, for very little effort.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Do you think you need to up yours?

Do you think others need to up theirs?

Do you ever tell others to ‘try harder’ with their approach?

Did you change something yourself and it worked for you?

Curious how you’ve found the ‘right place’ for you "

I looked...your photo game is extremely strong.

By that standard I really do need to up mine.

Though my private pics are not so bad really.

If I meet I give it 110%

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

On here? Nah. I'm good.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I kind of do my own thing. If people like it then great. If not!

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