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By *acdoodle OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I know women get a lot of attention and messages but is it me or do a lot of profile make them come across as complete bitches? Why do people feel need to have a rant on there profile? Why not just use that good old delete button and sound a bit friendlier just an observation. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're not very friendly lol

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By *acdoodle OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Maybe they're not very friendly lol "

Haha that's my opinion so far I'm sure they're all lovely bit a lot just sound so aggressive in there profiles. Just either scares the shit outta ya or puts you right off. Unless your desperate of course xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well theres 1000s here its just picking the ones you like .... its a bit like the candy shop ... pick and mix , lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some are just genuinely weary of some of the silly people on here and hope it will deter them from bothering them..... for some of the silly people, that is like a moth to a flame.

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By *acdoodle OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"some are just genuinely weary of some of the silly people on here and hope it will deter them from bothering them..... for some of the silly people, that is like a moth to a flame.

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Good point I just can't seem to grasp the harshness of some of them. I thought this was meant to be fun. A lot of profiles sound far from fun. I wouldn't be sure if they'd want a fight or a f.... Lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started on here I loved my profile.

Over time I got worn down by the messages and repeating myself in emails.

I applied filters, I applied a strict age range, and I put the big no no's for me on the top of my profile. That seemed to work

I did not like my profile.

I revamped it. But for those that do read it, it tells you everything.

I cant get that in 1 paragraph, and those that dont read it, email anyways.

Then I learnt to ignore my inbox and concentrate on the forums, so revamped the profile again.

Now it is longer than I would like; however I tried to do it in sensible chunks.

I may come across as a bitch to some; however it is my profile, it is me.

I revamp it every now and again as I change, my preferences change, so I try and keep it up to date but Im never going to please everyone

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

It CAN get tiring trying to keep your cool when so many people seem to chance their luck or completely disregard your preferences (that's even if they bother reading your profile). So I can see where these people are coming from.

Truth be told though, when it gets too much, we've found that it works better just to block EVERYONE from contacting us and go looking for those that WE want to meet.

- VincentandAmy.

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By *acdoodle OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"When I first started on here I loved my profile.

Over time I got worn down by the messages and repeating myself in emails.

I applied filters, I applied a strict age range, and I put the big no no's for me on the top of my profile. That seemed to work

I did not like my profile.

I revamped it. But for those that do read it, it tells you everything.

I cant get that in 1 paragraph, and those that dont read it, email anyways.

Then I learnt to ignore my inbox and concentrate on the forums, so revamped the profile again.

Now it is longer than I would like; however I tried to do it in sensible chunks.

I may come across as a bitch to some; however it is my profile, it is me.

I revamp it every now and again as I change, my preferences change, so I try and keep it up to date but Im never going to please everyone "

Just looked and your profile and I think it's great that's how they all should be I think x

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By *acdoodle OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It CAN get tiring trying to keep your cool when so many people seem to chance their luck or completely disregard your preferences (that's even if they bother reading your profile). So I can see where these people are coming from.

Truth be told though, when it gets too much, we've found that it works better just to block EVERYONE from contacting us and go looking for those that WE want to meet.

- VincentandAmy."

Exactly my point that's all it takes and then you don't need to come across like some man hating bitchbag x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed mine yesterday because I changed my location and ... Well say no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's because men don't read their profile and they get fed up of reading pointless mail they don't want so they have a rant about it, it's how most woman deal with things

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By *iver_iew1Couple
over a year ago

gourock

we love your profile 2

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If people want to look like man hating bitchbags then let them,im sure they can read what their own profiles look like and it obviously does'nt bother them in the slightest

If you're going to let messages that can be deleted in a second and profiles that can be blocked in a second turn your profile into something awful and completely unapproachable then maybe take a break and some deep breaths

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By *acdoodle OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"we love your profile 2"

Loving yours too lets spread the love today and make this site a happier place lol xx

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By *acdoodle OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"If people want to look like man hating bitchbags then let them,im sure they can read what their own profiles look like and it obviously does'nt bother them in the slightest

If you're going to let messages that can be deleted in a second and profiles that can be blocked in a second turn your profile into something awful and completely unapproachable then maybe take a break and some deep breaths "

Right on sister/brother best post yet. Lets hope some people will look at there's and make some changes. Just spreading the love hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus they are up there own arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plus they are up there own arses "
my ass is to tight or i maybe more up there , lol lube only can do so much you know , lol

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By *acdoodle OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"plus they are up there own arses "

I love them sort of pics haha x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I changed mine yesterday because I changed my location and ... Well say no more "

Don't put not meeting on your profile, it attracts even more attention lol x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Don't put not meeting on your profile, it attracts even more attention lol x"

Lol, stop playing hard to get!

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