FabSwingers.com forum: What led you to Fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.

I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.

I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.

I don’t know what I was really searching for before. Just some sex & attention maybe. But I’m already finding more. Friends maybe. A place. Some peace. Definitely not what I was looking for or expecting.

How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed?

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I was Googling Tractors…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was Googling Tractors…"

LOL

Did you find old bangers instead?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I thought it would help to meet new people and make some friends, coming out of lockdown. I hadn't really dated or anything for a few years before that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as you OP although increasingly it is for the forums and the folk that frequent them.

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By *llred1Man
over a year ago

the north

Doggers used my works car park at night, just to watch them on cctv in the morning, googled to see if there was site I could join. Ended up here

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

A fb I met on pof introduced me to fab.

I was looking for skilled sexual men and enjoyed 6 months of sweetshop fuckery, before I found my first longterm fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a good place to find friends initially was for fwb near me but as I’ve got to know some good friends on hear who have supported me through some major issues in my life women as well as some chaps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought it would help to meet new people and make some friends, coming out of lockdown. I hadn't really dated or anything for a few years before that."

And has it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A fb I met on pof introduced me to fab.

I was looking for skilled sexual men and enjoyed 6 months of sweetshop fuckery, before I found my first longterm fwb

I think I’m in the sweet shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old friend told me about it. Explored and never looked back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is a good place to find friends initially was for fwb near me but as I’ve got to know some good friends on hear who have supported me through some major issues in my life women as well as some chaps

That’s lovely. I have to say the forum is great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same as you OP although increasingly it is for the forums and the folk that frequent them."

Yes. I do like it here on forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman on a dating app told me if I joined fab swingers site, I could be having sex within no time. At the time I was in the mood so I joined up but it hasn't been how she described it to me. I've knocked sex on the head now and I'm only here for passing time in the forums and watching a few videos. I find it all a bit intriguing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"An old friend told me about it. Explored and never looked back "

I do love exploring. (Not exploring London though

. I got so lost last week. I was actually scared for a while!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A woman on a dating app told me if I joined fab swingers site, I could be having sex within no time. At the time I was in the mood so I joined up but it hasn't been how she described it to me. I've knocked sex on the head now and I'm only here for passing time in the forums and watching a few videos. I find it all a bit intriguing."

That’s a shame.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Mrs Bang Bang was on a Facebook group and it was mentioned. She had wanted to try a MFF for a long time and just like that the Bang Bangs appeared

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"A fb I met on pof introduced me to fab.

I was looking for skilled sexual men and enjoyed 6 months of sweetshop fuckery, before I found my first longterm fwb

I think I’m in the sweet shop

Awesome, taste all that you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was nosey with my previous neighbour when she'd get dressed up, go out and come back with '3,4,5 people' lol and i could hear what they were upto. She said she was on here. So i joined, very naive at the start and didn't know how to navigate it. Had a couple of bad socials and deleted..... But I couldn't stay away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mrs Bang Bang was on a Facebook group and it was mentioned. She had wanted to try a MFF for a long time and just like that the Bang Bangs appeared "

That’s awesome!!!! Girl power!!!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I was on another site but local men were hard to find. I left there and joined Tinder and a man from there recommended this site to me.

Chock full of local men, wish I’d found this site first to be honest!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I thought it would help to meet new people and make some friends, coming out of lockdown. I hadn't really dated or anything for a few years before that.

And has it?"

I've met lots of people... Not really made any lasting friendships yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was nosey with my previous neighbour when she'd get dressed up, go out and come back with '3,4,5 people' lol and i could hear what they were upto. She said she was on here. So i joined, very naive at the start and didn't know how to navigate it. Had a couple of bad socials and deleted..... But I couldn't stay away

It is addictive isn’t it? I ran away first time in…

But now I’m in & loving it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was on another site but local men were hard to find. I left there and joined Tinder and a man from there recommended this site to me.

Chock full of local men, wish I’d found this site first to be honest!"

Well I’m glad you’ve found it now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought it would help to meet new people and make some friends, coming out of lockdown. I hadn't really dated or anything for a few years before that.

And has it?

I've met lots of people... Not really made any lasting friendships yet."

Oh that’s a shame. Hopefully soon. I haven’t made any female friends.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I found fab through a more kink related site

Left again when I had my brain removed (I.e. got married) and now I’m back baby

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By *rickhouseCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

We love the idea of Mrs Brick carrying out hot wife or cuck fantasies

She would live to be seduced by hung, fit men and I’d love to either watch and photograph or video or maybe play out the ultimate hot wife scenario of her being pleasured while I’m at work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I found fab through a more kink related site

Left again when I had my brain removed (I.e. got married) and now I’m back baby

Yeah. Kicking the ex to the kerb has certainly kick started life volume 2 for me!!!

How kinky? (You don’t have to answer)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We love the idea of Mrs Brick carrying out hot wife or cuck fantasies

She would live to be seduced by hung, fit men and I’d love to either watch and photograph or video or maybe play out the ultimate hot wife scenario of her being pleasured while I’m at work "

Oh that is hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found fab through a more kink related site

Left again when I had my brain removed (I.e. got married) and now I’m back baby

Love a kink related site

kinky friends are always a plus too

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I found fab through a more kink related site

Left again when I had my brain removed (I.e. got married) and now I’m back baby

Yeah. Kicking the ex to the kerb has certainly kick started life volume 2 for me!!!

How kinky? (You don’t have to answer)"

Oh I’m 100% non-vanilla

And I have eaten a lot of wedding cake. But I’ve had my quota now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was watching something on TV and this site got bought up so had a look

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

It was many year ago and someone I was chatting to in chatroom told me about it. Curiosity got the better of me and here I am many years later..still just as curious

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I joined to keep in touch with people who I know at Eureka.

Never been too concerned about meeting new contacts via the site and since covid came along I have enjoyed the forum scene.

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By *oungGingerDMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Wanted to explore swinging as a whole make some new friends and see where it takes me ??

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By *annylickerMan
over a year ago

Chester-le-Street

Bumped into old school friend, ended up back at hers. Met again week later, told me about it. Week later, popped round and she's sucking cock and i joined in.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Past messed up relationships. Exploring and finding what I want and like. Experiencing life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a site for fans of Thunderbirds..F.A.B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a swinger from way back when I was younger and not in the UK. When I first came over in 2014 during my first stint in this country, I wanted to seek out the swinging scene here to open my eyes and widen my worldview, so to speak.

That plus I just preferred the idea of casual sex through swinging with full on adults as opposed to hooking up with barely-18 freshers at uni. I was already 21 then.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I thought it was a site for fans of Thunderbirds..F.A.B"

Thunderbirds are go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hobby to do together

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I was mercilessly coerced by a friend

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

The info was put into the person bio on a dating site obviously the person must have got fed up of receiving dick pictures and sexual advances so trying to redirect. I wrote it down just out of curiosity then roughly 8 months later thought have a nosey

been here since it has been an experience made some fantastic friends even after they left the site but also met some great people and chatted with some also here and off here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was mercilessly coerced by a friend

Are you glad now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted an ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too long and lurid a story, to write in this little box on fabs

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I wanted an ice cream

Did you get a mint choccy chip?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was planted here by the Sydney University swinger research decision

I will lie cheat and steel to get as much personal information from you all as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I was mercilessly coerced by a friend

Are you glad now?"

Oh yeah that was years ago now

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.

I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.

I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.

How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? "
A wife haven't found her yet I'll keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I complained about the only thing I missed being single was sex to a married friend, she suggested here(also was here) & I've been here on&off, ever since. I met a couple of long term fwbs here, then met my hubby here too. Though we enjoy it differently & mostly I'm here for friends & the forums xo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits mainly

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By *hare2CareCouple
over a year ago

Shepshed

First time, with my ex wife, we were told about Fab by a couple we met at ClubF. This time I suggested it to my wife as I had a fantasy of seeing her suck and fuck a other guy before we spitroast her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex has pretty much tailed off in my marriage sadly. Or I’m just a addicted to sex lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored of vanilla guys, not good at relationships.....

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

What led me to joining fab was I enjoy sex and I don't want a partner/ boyfriend. We can have fun but at the end of the night I am sleeping in my bed on my own.

Also I enjoy a variety of sexual things and it's hard to find someone that enjoys a variety of things. Xxx

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I found myself in an unexpected mmf situation with a couple and they introduced me to the world of fab.

I signed up and had a verification ready to go

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Swinger's Quay in Torquay, needed a FAB verify to get in, still never been but lots of fun in the meantime

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

A lady I met on my first ever club visit told me about it. Been friends for 7 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've shared this before so apologies if I'm a bore.

I was talked in to dating again by a friend when I filed for divorce. She ear-twisted me on to Tinder and then Hinge when I hated Tinder then fessed up about here when I quit Hinge after a few days.

I want and need non-vanilla, unconventional.

She found it through her then partner / now fiance.

Was impulsive in the first weeks and met without enough chat so wasn't the best intro but that one taught me well and was always more careful and patient. But it did what I wanted, which was to reclaim the me I'd lost over the years with the ex.

Fab has been a mixed bag. I have made worthy connections and toxic ones.

I'm tiptoeing through the landmines and doing my best to not step in any more cowpats

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I watched the swinger program on ch4 years ago and they showed fab on there

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Saw it years ago and as it was a free site and less likely to have call girls on here I gave it a go.

Though on the whole it's been one long disappointment

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Desperation

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

After coming out of a long completely vanilla marriage I had no idea what I wanted, tried dating sites and had lots of coffees and a 6 month fling but didn't really want to settle down. Met a lady on tinder who after a while ... said she was married...and I said doesn't your hubby wonder what your up to with me...she said no, were swingers ..and I said what's a swinger ? (Sheltered life) she then showed me fab... In 2018

I've had a lot of fun...I enjoy it , love the adventure and hedonistic madness of it..I struggle with rudeness and being treated like a second rate citizen in the fab dimension but avoid those sorts of situations if possible.

I love flirting with woman in the real world and even if it doesn't go anywhere it's a good boost to ones ego...

I am pondering what to do next ...can't see a vanilla date ever working now I've succumbed to this malarky ...

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

My friend told me about it, she signed up the day before. I signed up that night and the day day we sat in the back of lecture comparing messages

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.

I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.

I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.

How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? "

Hi OP,Love what you wrote here

glad to hear you found peace and friendship

For me, I have an inquisitive mind and didn't want to listen to Boris who said people were allowed outside to exercise and go to work if they wasn't able to work from home in our times of lockdown

To me that just said you are allowed outside. I asked a bi sexual lady I have known for a lot of years for a genuine app or website to meet people and she told me about fab.

The parties were really great

I have met lovely people and then going abroad for over year made me miss the scene and fab.

Glad to be back and get into the swing of things again xxx I have lost friends since returning back from the scene but it tells me those ones weren't friends to begin with because I still have some that I love and are happy to have me back in the UK xxx

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums."

I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.

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By *moochyvibesMan
over a year ago

Nearby

I got cheated on then one of my close mates who's been on here for a while introduced me to it. I didn't believe him at first and now we have a laugh about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband committed suicide… we had sex pretty much daily and arguably was one of the best parts of ‘us’. After a year I signed up anonymously just to look… as I lost weight I posted the odd snap of my mum bod (no face) just to see if anyone may still find me attractive. Lost 5 stone (still have another 5 to lose) went blonde again and had a ‘f it’ moment and posted a nude selfie in my kitchen apron. Fab has genuinely been a huge, huge part of my recovery from domestic abuse, gaining all that weight and losing everything - my spirit included.

The escapism, confidence and amazing experiences /friends I’ve made - I couldn’t put a price on it. Who knew!!

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By *ik69Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I was on a kik group and they were talking about it. Glad they did

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Came to it after being a member on another site. People complain about time wasters on here but this is a great place compared to the first one I joined. It almost seemed like it was people's first foray into it and then when they decided they really wanted to do it, join this one instead!

I joined a fet site as well but only got one meet from that. Pity because it's got a much bigger menu of interests than on here!

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I be totally honestly (yeah course he will I hear few say) anyway I joined here because someone I know is on here from time to time and got told to join as its fun and you do get to meet interesting fun people you dont on conventional sites, my cup of tea. So I joined and paid that subscription pass thing the gold one,but took me ages to settle in especially as a newbie and it is tough on here ive noticed, anyway was thinking of leaving but got told just have chats in forum have a laugh expect nothing see out the subscription seen as you paid then decide, so that's what I'm doing. But I would never knock this site think it's a good site you get bad good on every dating site.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

That’s a probing question. After my first wife died it was to fill a void without commitment. Never really thought I could love again. Met someone from off scene a few years later and stopped meeting but still liked the chat. She didn’t want to be involved but was ok with me chatting. She decided she didn’t love me anymore and here I am

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

It is a eye opener site, you get judged very quickly which is understandable, safety has to be top priority always. Been told I need to sort my profile out take a lot more pics of private setting and show them to all, but I thought just get the mundane but important information out there on profile, and rest will follow via connecting messaging. But its great to see a lot have connected and its helped a lot of people in there lives too which is fantastic news. The banter on here is so funny and hopefully no one takes offence, my advice to anyone new ish like myself, is definitely take advice of the more experienced site members who been here a long time they know what there talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was such a long time ago. Migrated over from another site.

I've made lots of friends over the years and each time I return I bring a new perspective.

This time I'm the woman in a sweet shop enjoying the best pick n mix.

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Bring back woolworths for there pix and mix, try one and one for the bag so on and so on ha. Glad your having good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I though it was a website for golfers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.

I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.

I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.

How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? "

A woman told me about this joint and l suppose lm addicted to the place now BUT l don't ..or won't ..take anything to heart here simply because you can end up crushed if you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom and frustration

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.

I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.

I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.

How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? "

I was invited by a couple from xhamster I've never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on another site for ages n this one was mentioned , met some lovely folk over the years and had a fb as a couple for a time

Kept leaving n coming back lol Do find it harder to meet now though, especially if you haven't any veris ?????

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We’ve always been kinky and never vanilla, so have always discussed ‘what’s next’, and the topic of dogging, swinging and swapping often came up in the throws of passion. During lockdown we experimented with a certain famous porn site for a couple of weeks until all unverified accounts were removed - so we left!

Realising we were a massive pair of exhibitionists and people enjoyed our content, we joined a fetish site and realised we were more about swinging than kink. Got bored with that site and discovered Fab. We’re here and loving it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been fairly kinky couple, but it was Mrs coming out as bi sexual,

Impressed so far with the site!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I followed the trail of used condoms. The guy behind me was drinking them so I’m glad I came across them before him or I would have never of found it.

The mr

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Extra dick

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I met Cammy in 2001. She had just come out of a long term relationship and was going through a divorce. She was so horny looking and lived up to her looks. She was very insecure and I took her to a party in Oldham. 20 years later: married, totally in love and best friends we both discussed trying the lifestyle together. We searched swinging sites and I signed us up to three. One had a three month free membership and we dropped that one quite quickly. The second has limited free access. That left FAB. It has a bit more of a vibe than the other two so we got a silver account. We have still not met anyone from here but are both hoping to attend the next Manchester social.

We tend to look at this site rather than look at others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pleb I met on POF led me here, 10 yrs ago. 2yrs as a fab couple. Ditched him, stayed mainly for the forums

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I got lost ended up here

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.

I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women. "

Why is this worse?!

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I was looking for information on my local dogging sites as my friend wanted to try it and as he wasn't from here he didn't know either. Somehow found fab and got the information I was looking for, and never left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.

I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.

Why is this worse?!

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I was thinking the same

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I googled playground equipment for my garden. I’m now either in the forums or on my ‘Authentic UK Indiana Jones Big Boy’s Funtime Playtime Super Adventure Number One Rocket Ship’ set in the garden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.

I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.

Why is this worse?!

I was thinking the same

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- only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand

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By *omeoplaysMan
over a year ago

London / Hertfordshire

Was watching porn and stumbled across fabswingers porn. Searched google for FAB and here I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex fwb lady brought me hear

She found the Man she wanted permanently

So that leaves me

Wished her all the best then goodbye that was while ago now

Hope she is happy

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

A male friend off fab suggested I was a pervert and i should join.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I commented at the clubs that it was such a pain checking all their websites individually. Someone pointed out they all post their events here

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I just stumbled across it. In the past I was more concerned about sex, but these days I enjoy a browse and feeling a sense of community with respect to attitudes towards sex. Forums keep me coming back periodically.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Reached my 50th birthday having gone through 10 years of no sexual contact at all and very little sexual experience in general.

A few things happened in the months leading up to my 50th that were life changing and I saw myself in a different light.

Two years later I wanted to continue exploring and found another site that wasn't very user friendly and then moved to here just as I turned 52.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"A male friend off fab suggested I was a pervert and i should join.

He was correct

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Lots of different topics up for discussion.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Been here long time on and off. Originally joined with my partner because we had friends here. But gave up trying to meet couples, my interest was in the female half, rarely worked out.

Used to write in the Stories and Fantasies forum about my experiences, changed quite a lot now.

Pop on time to time to chat in chat rooms but most of my old friends have now left.

So just pop in now and again, maybe comment in the forum on posts that interest me.

Maybe find someone similar for drinks, meals and .... maybe

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.

I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.

Why is this worse?!

I was thinking the same

- only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand"

I think I’d prefer it, at least I’d know it was something that I couldn’t offer!

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.

I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.

Why is this worse?!

I was thinking the same

- only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand"

It wasn't an issue for me, I knew she was bi when we met. In fact I encouraged her to explore it if she wanted, she never did. When I caught her we talked about it and I said ok as long as our relationship comes first. There were many other bigger issues in the relationship, mainly her being a horrible alcoholic.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"A male friend off fab suggested I was a pervert and i should join.

He was correct

Ssshhhhh!

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I was introduced to it years ago when young age single and thought wow

never really recovered from that , thought I could settle down and all that but it didn’t work and found myself looking around for kinky ladies and vanilla didn’t seem to scratch my itch

Here I am lurking and meeting lovely ladies in the process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.

I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.

Why is this worse?!

I was thinking the same

- only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband committed suicide… we had sex pretty much daily and arguably was one of the best parts of ‘us’. After a year I signed up anonymously just to look… as I lost weight I posted the odd snap of my mum bod (no face) just to see if anyone may still find me attractive. Lost 5 stone (still have another 5 to lose) went blonde again and had a ‘f it’ moment and posted a nude selfie in my kitchen apron. Fab has genuinely been a huge, huge part of my recovery from domestic abuse, gaining all that weight and losing everything - my spirit included.

The escapism, confidence and amazing experiences /friends I’ve made - I couldn’t put a price on it. Who knew!! "

Seems like Fab has had an incredibly positive impact for you in light of the awful experiences you have endured. You look confident and super sexy in your pictures - yes I had a little look. And I very much hope you continue to have amazing experiences. X

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By *arcobell21785Man
over a year ago

leeds

The buzz of feeling wanted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.

I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.

Why is this worse?!

I was thinking the same

- only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand

I think I’d prefer it, at least I’d know it was something that I couldn’t offer! "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escaping a couple of disatrous relationships really.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

He had a dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

porn what leads many people to crazy shit and society we live in today proves that. So the answer for me what led me to Fab is porn now I just get off watching my wife fuck other men and join in the mix.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I think I’d prefer it, at least I’d know it was something that I couldn’t offer! "

That was my approach to really

Didn't go down well when I said then I should get from a woman what you don't offer, like desire,intimacy and affection.

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By *arko2020Man
over a year ago

Sale

Frustration and a craving for physical connection

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone who has answered. It’s fascinating seeing all of the different stories. The huge amount of things people have found here. It’s quite heartwarming really. Who would have thought it.

I can’t leave now. Who knows what else is out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you to everyone who has answered. It’s fascinating seeing all of the different stories. The huge amount of things people have found here. It’s quite heartwarming really. Who would have thought it.

I can’t leave now. Who knows what else is out there "

As long as you're out there, there's always hope

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By *J StathamMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As honest and blunt as possible, I just wanted to sex or head from time to time

No strings attached kinda fun and it seems like most dont want that which is fine and makes sense as to why I don't get much luck with what I'm looking for. Of course woman want to know that they are safe and also like to build a little bond with the person first.

Even tho I rarely get meets on here I still enjoy just being on here and having a nosey from time to time as well as attending clubs and socialising

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By *netobeextraMan
over a year ago

location varies

Accidental find on a google search found fab for me. Can’t remember what exactly I was searching for but I stumbled upon fab.

I created an account many moons ago (possibly 2009/2010 ish)

Left and rejoined many times. Several rodeos, memories that will last a lifetime (good, bad and indifferent) and I still keep coming back

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Dragged in by cheerfully hopeful FB who thought having a couples profile will give him an access to unlimited shag, if only I was willing to take one for the team. Luckily for everyone involved it didn’t work out so I decided to have my own profile. Still doesn’t work but at least nobody will keep changing my fab password anymore.

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By *ustmemyselfandi1Man
over a year ago

southampton

I was coaching for my sons football team and got new shirts. Made a joke about red being “the best colour” to the mums and got a text of her, in red, a few days later.

Said that I was flattered but “I don’t think your husband would approve” and she replied saying “he told me to send it and thinks we should chat”…….

The rest as they say, is history

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

My then partner suggested swinging and we googled it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dragged in by cheerfully hopeful FB who thought having a couples profile will give him an access to unlimited shag, if only I was willing to take one for the team. Luckily for everyone involved it didn’t work out so I decided to have my own profile. Still doesn’t work but at least nobody will keep changing my fab password anymore."

*Nods* my ex and I shared control of our profile but I'd login to find he'd been faffing about with preferences and sexualities, would put me as bi to attract other couples. So I changed the password and took total control

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We were on another site then after a visit to a club, someone suggested we try Fab and here we are.

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

I moved house to a different part of the north east and there was a local spa hotel otherwise know as ClubF been here ever since.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Yikes. So sorry to hear that but well done you. The same thing happened to me, I am 100% straight and he used to creepily message other women telling them “my partner is not ready for a threesome yet so would you like to play with me first “. Totally creepy.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Another master found his sub here and they recommended that I join .

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

A friend I met on another site recommended fab to me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Netmums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He definitely sounds a wrong one

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Bizarrely found it on tiktok after deciding to try swinging.

I never expected to find what I’ve found. Some really good laughs, a community in the forum, an increase in self confidence and some good friends.

I find more questions asked than answered every day

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

From a guy I was chatting to on a dating site, he said this would be right up my street

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Ive been hugely disappointed i expected to find a wife........ Sheeeesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From someone I chatted to on a chat site years ago

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By *r and Mrs Sweet CheeksCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Lockdown! Wasn't able to visit clubs as we usually would have so joined fab to have our fun

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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage. "

I’m the same. My marriage ended and I felt like I needed male company and fun but without the expectation of constantly messaging and stuff.

I think this site helped me get through my divorce massively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always coming back, the forums keep me sane and then there’s those beautiful ladies

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A dreadful spelling mistake looking for larger ladies for a choir.

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

You know, being a submissive male online I kind a get ignored or berated for the wrong reasons ,but being on FAB I have had a few meets and spoke to lots of lovely people....

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By *ravel CompanionsCouple
over a year ago

London

We were trying to "convert" regular friends to regular playmates and found it a bit risky and uncomfortable. So, decided to find regular playmates and become friends with them. Works so far

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"We were trying to "convert" regular friends to regular playmates and found it a bit risky and uncomfortable. So, decided to find regular playmates and become friends with them. Works so far

Blimey, just read your profile, you guys take more holidays than Judith Chalmers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decided to try cheese and onion instead of ready salted for once

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By *punk n gushCouple
over a year ago

new milton

Went dogging not something we're really a fan of and a guy said try fab for more personal meets so we did but a bit dead down here now

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Netmums

That's fantastic

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Went dogging not something we're really a fan of and a guy said try fab for more personal meets so we did but a bit dead down here now "

Deal with it

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By *ravel CompanionsCouple
over a year ago

London

"Blimey, just read your profile, you guys take more holidays than Judith Chalmers!"

Haha yes, we do

)) Life is too short, you never know when it's gonna end, need to enjoy as much as you can

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