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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like, I'm sure everyone will say high....but is it?

I actually think my sex drive is pretty normal I just love good hot sex when it happens rather than, 5 minutes quickie job done.

How often would you ideally be having sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through peaks and troughs.

Some days I am insatiable and will be wanting it as soon as I'm home from work. Or times I'm happy to not even think about vulvas or penis'.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is realistic.

Poor little thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this thread was going to be about a swinging road trip...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice a day , everyday except for Sundays because I have some respect.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Used to be. unless I use a very powerful telescope I can just about see it disappearing over yonder horizon.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Twice a day , everyday except for Sundays because I have some respect. "
then its 3 and a long lie in xx

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Mine is low. T’s is normal/high. Poor man x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Depends on the sex for me. If we're talking an all night shagathon then once or twice a week would tide me over with wanks in between.

If it's an hour or two then I'd prefer four or five times a week, with wanks in between.

Based on my last monogamous relationship I'd guess that was high though not ridiculously so (one of many reasons I'm no longer in a monogamous relationship).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a high sex drive most of the year but for the first couple of months of the year it dips, well plummets actually, work, tiredness and stresses play havoc with the sex drive.

I am however quickly on the up now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Twice a day , everyday except for Sundays because I have some respect. "

Really twice a day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twice a day , everyday except for Sundays because I have some respect. then its 3 and a long lie in xx"

On the lords day ?!

It’s Sunday service and an afternoon nap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twice a day , everyday except for Sundays because I have some respect. then its 3 and a long lie in xx

On the lords day ?!

It’s Sunday service and an afternoon fap. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twice a day , everyday except for Sundays because I have some respect. then its 3 and a long lie in xx

On the lords day ?!

It’s Sunday service and an afternoon fap.

"

Damn autocorrect. That’s what I meant

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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At least once a day would be nice

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By *eardedTattManMan
over a year ago

Elland

I'd say mine is pretty high. Would be happy with once a day in all honesty but I do have the odd days when I'm not feeling it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is ridiculously high. D has his work cut out for him keeping up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no one way for me, some weeks I am constantly wanting it, to the point it's a distraction from work.

Other weeks, I seriously consider taking holy orders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is high I ideally like at least 3 times a week.

Hubbies is much lower and can be once a week or what feels like once a month.

Before anyone asks yes we have spoken about this being our issue and we have our agreement and I have my toys too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week

Spooning cuddles in Morning and last thing at night

Oh and plenty of cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine gets higher the more sex I have.

It’s risen quite a lot since being single again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was really high used to masturbate often but went through a rough patch ended up on medication for anxiety and depression and lost all opft

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I need someone in my life to focus my fanny on to kickstart that passion. Then I usually can’t get enough of them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If I'm really into someone? Daily. Minimum. Or at least enough sex in the time together so it feels like daily. A couple of times a week?

I think my libido fluctuates a lot. Even during the day.

Take today - ridiculously high, vanquished, resurrected, destroyed, reignited in a very big way... it's as much high energy/low energy as I am.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I need someone in my life to focus my fanny on to kickstart that passion. Then I usually can’t get enough of them.

"

Fanny focus.

Well described

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine goes up and down. Sometimes I have no interest. Sometimes (like now) I can’t get enough

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I go through phases. This week I’ve been leaving a snail trail from my vagina everywhere I go. Last week the thought of being touched didn’t really cross my mind.

Swingers and roundabouts

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I have a huge sex drive. My FWB lives over 150 miles away…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go through phases. This week I’ve been leaving a snail trail from my vagina everywhere I go. Last week the thought of being touched didn’t really cross my mind.

Swingers and roundabouts "

You've come on a bit since the Queen of the Desert days!

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"I go through phases. This week I’ve been leaving a snail trail from my vagina everywhere I go. Last week the thought of being touched didn’t really cross my mind.

Swingers and roundabouts

You've come on a bit since the Queen of the Desert days!"

It’s done a full 180 on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a very high sex drive but it's completely gone now

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By *hare2CareCouple
over a year ago

Shepshed

Both of ours are quite high. Mrs will spontaneously get so wet her panties will be soaked through, Mr will get so aroused from the slightest thought thay he can't concentrate on anything else, especially after he's been on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High and masturbating does not help. I haven't lived with anyone for 7 years so it makes it tricky ! I like one big sesh per week so 4/5 times then I like stuff I between when I can fit it in

If I could have a live in sex freak with me I would, in fact I will when kids leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I suppose you have to be honest don't you

So obviously I am about 12 years older than Aurelia and find I do have a lower sex drive than her.

We kind of got into the lifestyle for excitement but also to give her the extended sex sessions she sometimes wants which works out quite nicely for us.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

it varies

now and again is nice

or now, and again, and again is better

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