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By *ispas22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Vanilla with a twist.....struggling to climax.....

So when I play with my husband....we talk dirty....play....but if he comes too quick I struggle to climax..even with toys...( I do talk tablets that numb my nerve endings...? That ?) Any tips x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vanilla with a twist.....struggling to climax.....

So when I play with my husband....we talk dirty....play....but if he comes too quick I struggle to climax..even with toys...( I do talk tablets that numb my nerve endings...? That ?) Any tips x "

Maybe agree that you cum first? Get him to hold off sometimes? Is it him climaxing that makes it difficult for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you play with toys first and as the above person has said, you climax first?

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By *ispas22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I think that's fair he just gets that excited I really struggle...but if I'm honest I wouldn't need toys if we had a little more foreplay....etc....as wen we do explore with our hands and play a little ...I come quite quickly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that's fair he just gets that excited I really struggle...but if I'm honest I wouldn't need toys if we had a little more foreplay....etc....as wen we do explore with our hands and play a little ...I come quite quickly x "

You've answered your own question Tell him that you both need to focus on you first, plenty of teasing and foreplay, then you can start on him

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Tell him to solo climax day before. He hopefully should be able to last longer.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think that's fair he just gets that excited I really struggle...but if I'm honest I wouldn't need toys if we had a little more foreplay....etc....as wen we do explore with our hands and play a little ...I come quite quickly x "

This sounds like more foreplay is needed, maybe scrap the sex just enjoy some mutual masterbation, oral only, hands only kind of evenings mix it up a bit, sex doesn't always have to be the end game.

Also tablets to numb nerve endings could be having an impact I'd suggest checking with the GP but the fact you can cum quickly yourself suggests not.

Mrs

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By *ispas22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Tell him to solo climax day before. He hopefully should be able to last longer."

He does every day.....very high sex drive x

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By *ispas22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"I think that's fair he just gets that excited I really struggle...but if I'm honest I wouldn't need toys if we had a little more foreplay....etc....as wen we do explore with our hands and play a little ...I come quite quickly x

No its me who takes gabepentin so I struggle......he comes quickly....

I come quicker with more teasing like most lol ....I cant use sex toys cos of the vibrations ....it affects my health conditions.....I have trued the durex play stimulating gel too that does help....

This sounds like more foreplay is needed, maybe scrap the sex just enjoy some mutual masterbation, oral only, hands only kind of evenings mix it up a bit, sex doesn't always have to be the end game.

Also tablets to numb nerve endings could be having an impact I'd suggest checking with the GP but the fact you can cum quickly yourself suggests not.

Mrs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vanilla with a twist.....struggling to climax.....

So when I play with my husband....we talk dirty....play....but if he comes too quick I struggle to climax..even with toys...( I do talk tablets that numb my nerve endings...? That ?) Any tips x "

Yes play with me lol xxx

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