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By *ob and Dee OP   Woman
over a year ago

crook

got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

He had a wank.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had a wank.

LvM"

*Nods*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he changed his mind at the last minute and didn’t want to go through with it.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Changed his mind.

Better offer.

Couldn’t be bothered to get ready.

Had a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t answer tbf, it may be legitimate or might be he’s just a twat (or had that wank as mentioned above!)

It’s more unusual if you’ve met before though, rather than someone you’ve never met, I assume a good time was had by all last time around?

Sorry to hear that happened and hopefully better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often."

Did you chat much between arranging and the actual meeting?

Sometimes it’s hard to get into the mood if there’s been no chat and build up…

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Change of mind. At least he had the decency to let you know by text and didn't just not turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often."

Maybe ask him for the reason as to why.....who knows there may a legit explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often."

Maybe he forgot about the arranged meet ..

Or he is feeling poorly or a relative/friend called around.

He may have a perfectly good reason for cancelling at the last minute...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often.

Maybe he forgot about the arranged meet ..

Or he is feeling poorly or a relative/friend called around.

He may have a perfectly good reason for cancelling at the last minute...

"

Totally this as things can happen unexpectedly out of our control the fact you did receive a response rather than not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then "

Exactly! This is why I always check a couple of hours before, saves me getting ready if they're going to cancel.

Pretty poor OP, and really annoying. What a waste of time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then

Exactly! This is why I always check a couple of hours before, saves me getting ready if they're going to cancel.

Pretty poor OP, and really annoying. What a waste of time!"

Ditto. I check before getting ready, then just before meeting. I had one guy send me his location/movements to prove he was coming, like fab-uber-eats

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then

Exactly! This is why I always check a couple of hours before, saves me getting ready if they're going to cancel.

Pretty poor OP, and really annoying. What a waste of time!

Ditto. I check before getting ready, then just before meeting. I had one guy send me his location/movements to prove he was coming, like fab-uber-eats "

I've had someone do that on WhatsApp, it's very handy!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Maybe he’s just a dick

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Has happened twice with two women from here. They both cancelled me for the first meet. Then after rescheduled the meets and they both literally cancelled at 5 mins. Two separate women on separate occasions. I wasn't meeting two at same time. I've also unfortunately had to cancel on someone from here. Was due to fly to UK and cancelled it owing to illness. Rescheduled a few month later and I had to cancel again. We chatted again 6 months later and I made it to the UK and half an hour before I was due to meet she cancelled me

as she was hung over from the night before. We don't chat anymore so opportunity lost. Ah well.

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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Sometimes the nerves kicks in,had a mate like that,anything that was arranged worried him like crazy,I am opposite,can’t wait to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe his wife came home early?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Maybe his wife came home early?"

Lol probably

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I had to cancel a meet once when I was on my way..... Some twat smashed into my car at 60mph. Lucky for me I want hurt but couldn't make the meet

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

His loss tall guys gain.

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By *hree_into_oneCouple
over a year ago

warrington

We had a cancel last week, he had to work apparently…no he went to swingers club…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then "

I thought the same. Why did the op have to text to find out?

Op. You did the right thing.

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often."

Cold feet?

Maybe his wife/gf got home

Or maybe he had a wank as people have suggested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He bottled it

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've also experienced this.Frustrating as it is we don't try to analyse the situation.After all,he did have the decency to cancel!

Mike

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Having a shit?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Having a shit?"
In his special meet outfit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then

I thought the same. Why did the op have to text to find out?

Op. You did the right thing. "

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By *unnilingualMan
over a year ago

Margate

Sounds like he had a better offer or was hedging his bets in some way.

Could also have been one of his kids had descended unannounced and messed up his plans.

Pretty poor form not to have given an explanation and a suitable apology.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We have had to do it... We had a child that threw up.

Its why we only meet locally. With lots of small kids there is more opportunity for things to get in the way. We Could not have people travelling miles.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Ask if he is ok. If he cancels again, move on.

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