FabSwingers.com forum: Bucket and / or Fuckit lists

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s on your ‘to do’ lists, Fabsters?

Either sexual bucket lists or non-sexual?

There’s a few on mine, such as a messy FMFF for my sexual kicks (inbox is open if any ladies want to team up and volunteer to tag-team me

) and witnessing the Aurora Borealis first hand from the snowy forests of Norway for my non-sexual one.

There’s another one on my non-sexual list that I hope to achieve early next year (all going well) that I’ll reveal later (and see if anyone else has the same goal as me first!)

But I’m sure your ideas can help inspire me to add more… let’s hear about those that you want to achieve and also those you’ve managed to tick off recently… was the reality as good as you hoped?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’ve always wanted to visit Japan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckit list first:

Find a fwb

Bit of a gangbang with men from Wales, Scotland...you get the drift lol

Bucketlist

Visit: Rome, America (Memphis is THE one I want to do) and Belfast to visit the Titanic museum (and Nova Scotia)

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"I’ve always wanted to visit Japan.

Yup...same here

planning...

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

Finding a local forumite is top of my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DVP. Have done so with toys but I would like two of the squishy real deals please.

Maybe DP too, heck, maybe even DVP and anal at the same time if I'm feeling frisky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First on fuck it list

Find a woman than can deal with my strange kinky sexual habits and not tell me to F**k off call me a pervert

Visit

Australia

And weirdly enough

China would love to walk the whole of the Great Wall in china

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have many but one is to host a swingers party.

Again I have so many but a non sexual one is a simple one...to sit at the beach, with a rug wrapped around us keeping us cosy, glass of wine each, listen to the sound of the waves and watch the sun set.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bucket list - skydiving. Northern lights in Iceland. Climb a famous mountain. London marathon. A date in Paris. And more

Fucket list - a ffm 3way. A foursome. A girl over a balcony. A girl up against a hotel window. And

ffmff with Welsh/Irish/Scottish/English women.

and more

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Finding a local forumite is top of my list"

Why do they have to be a forumite?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’ve always wanted to visit Japan.

Yup...same here

planning..."

It looks such a fascinating place; the balance of the traditional with the ultra high tech

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always wanted to visit Japan.

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"DVP. Have done so with toys but I would like two of the squishy real deals please.

Maybe DP too, heck, maybe even DVP and anal at the same time if I'm feeling frisky

I really hope you get two or three

squishy dicks. DVP is amazing

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Go to Rio (the one in Brazil not Kentish Town)…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a fucket list I've done everything! But I just keep enjoying lots of weird and wonderful experiences

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I’ve always wanted to visit Japan.

Yup...same here

planning...

It looks such a fascinating place; the balance of the traditional with the ultra high tech

And thats exactly what fascinates me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a fucket list I've done everything! But I just keep enjoying lots of weird and wonderful experiences

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Same, done everything I want to do. Met some if the best on here.

The thrill is meeting new people now.

Or corrupting people into the lifestyle.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

China would love to walk the whole of the Great Wall in china

13,171 miles is a long walk !

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

I don't really do bucket lists ... But ..there's some bands I've never got to see live I really would like too, still some places abroad I'd like to visit.

Same really for the fuck it list I have kinda done the stuff I want too.

But I'm intrigued in trying needleplay.

And there is someone I really want to fuck against a glass to ceiling window in a certain hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a fucket list I've done everything! But I just keep enjoying lots of weird and wonderful experiences

Same, done everything I want to do. Met some if the best on here.

The thrill is meeting new people now.

Or corrupting people into the lifestyle. "

My thrill comes from building on existing connections

I feel like I've found people who "get" me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really do bucket lists ... But ..there's some bands I've never got to see live I really would like too, still some places abroad I'd like to visit.

Same really for the fuck it list I have kinda done the stuff I want too.

But I'm intrigued in trying needleplay.

And there is someone I really want to fuck against a glass to ceiling window in a certain hotel.

Omg needles are lush ! And which hotel ? Haha

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Fuckit list a safe gang bang! Bucket list visit daughter in florida! And get to retirement in July x

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I don't really do bucket lists ... But ..there's some bands I've never got to see live I really would like too, still some places abroad I'd like to visit.

Same really for the fuck it list I have kinda done the stuff I want too.

But I'm intrigued in trying needleplay.

And there is someone I really want to fuck against a glass to ceiling window in a certain hotel.

Omg needles are lush ! And which hotel ? Haha"

I’ve never seen the point in needle play…

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

"I don't really do bucket lists ... But ..there's some bands I've never got to see live I really would like too, still some places abroad I'd like to visit.

Same really for the fuck it list I have kinda done the stuff I want too.

But I'm intrigued in trying needleplay.

And there is someone I really want to fuck against a glass to ceiling window in a certain hotel.

Omg needles are lush ! And which hotel ? Haha

I’ve never seen the point in needle play…"

Boom boom

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

"I don't really do bucket lists ... But ..there's some bands I've never got to see live I really would like too, still some places abroad I'd like to visit.

Same really for the fuck it list I have kinda done the stuff I want too.

But I'm intrigued in trying needleplay.

And there is someone I really want to fuck against a glass to ceiling window in a certain hotel.

Omg needles are lush ! And which hotel ? Haha"

The Hilton Manchester...on top of deansgate ...it just has the best floor to ceiling windows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really do bucket lists ... But ..there's some bands I've never got to see live I really would like too, still some places abroad I'd like to visit.

Same really for the fuck it list I have kinda done the stuff I want too.

But I'm intrigued in trying needleplay.

And there is someone I really want to fuck against a glass to ceiling window in a certain hotel.

Omg needles are lush ! And which hotel ? Haha

The Hilton Manchester...on top of deansgate ...it just has the best floor to ceiling windows

Thought so ! Done it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up telling anyone, they don't do them anyway so what's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have enough energy at the end of the day to have a wank

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I think they are more about who than what!

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

"I've given up telling anyone, they don't do them anyway so what's the point?

I mean that sounds very much like you need to tell the right people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done most things but never been involved in a gang bang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucklicking

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner

Fuckit list is none

Bucket list, to set foot on Antarctica and to visit to Cook Islands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've given up telling anyone, they don't do them anyway so what's the point?

You have to MAKE them happen! I’ve ticked a few off my list over the last few years by proactively making it so!

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I know tinder has a few things she wants to do sexually but personally i prefer to take situations on face value as they arise rather than engineer something.

Marc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One of my bucket list items is to witness a full solar eclipse first hand, quite a few years ago we had one in the UK but only parts of Cornwall had full totality so I missed out.

Next year there’s one in the USA and, all going well, I’ll be there at the time to tick that one off.

Any others, Fabsters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up telling anyone, they don't do them anyway so what's the point?

I mean that sounds very much like you need to tell the right people..."

You're spot on of course.

My bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up telling anyone, they don't do them anyway so what's the point?

You have to MAKE them happen! I’ve ticked a few off my list over the last few years by proactively making it so!

How exactly do you MAKE them happen with consent and no force or control, unless that's part of the fantasy of course.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

A first MFF with my gorgeous partner in crime

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've given up telling anyone, they don't do them anyway so what's the point?

You have to MAKE them happen! I’ve ticked a few off my list over the last few years by proactively making it so!

How exactly do you MAKE them happen with consent and no force or control, unless that's part of the fantasy of course.

Ah I was talking about my bucket list items (eg doing a skydive etc), I agree that the fuckit items are harder to achieve! Apols, I didn’t interpret your comment properly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucket List:

Find a club buddy/FB

FFM Threesome

Being tied up, blindfolded and teased

Bucket List:

See WrestleMania live

Visit Auschwitz (bleak, I know but it's interesting)

Earn enough to retire early and work part time as a barista in a small coffee shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

China would love to walk the whole of the Great Wall in china

13,171 miles is a long walk !"

Yes but stopping off nightly at villages on way be epic trip but satisfying

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"One of my bucket list items is to witness a full solar eclipse first hand, quite a few years ago we had one in the UK but only parts of Cornwall had full totality so I missed out.

Next year there’s one in the USA and, all going well, I’ll be there at the time to tick that one off.

Any others, Fabsters?

If you had been down here you'd have missed it anyway 'cause it was fucking cloudy

I don't know about others who 'saw' it happen but I definitely felt something on a mystical/spiritual plane and can fully understand how our ancestors must have thought something catastrophic was coming as they didn't have the knowledge that we do. There is another one due in the UK in three years but not sure which part will get the total experience.

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