FabSwingers.com forum: How are you doing ?

By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m fine thanks!

But how are you really doing ? And how do you even know ?

Want to play the game of fives with me? Then join in.

Don’t overthink it just pick a number from 1 (Really bad) to 5 (Awesome) for each; or if you prefer just give your overall total out of 45

Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 5, Love life 1, Family relationships 3, Friendships 3, Finances 4, Work 4, Spirituality 2, Hobbies/Me time 3. Total-29

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over a year ago

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 4. Love life 3, Family relationships 4,Friendships 5, Finances 3. Work 5, Spirituality 2, Hobbies/Me time 3. Total-33

Not bad at all really

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Life is pretty darn great

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"40

Life is pretty darn great

Wow! Get you! What’s your secret?

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

30 - not been the best of times recently but I’m doing alright

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

33. I'm quite happy with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but there’s a reason for that

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

25 - was not expecting that! I'm off to re evaluate my life

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

15, needs improvement.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"16

but there’s a reason for that

That’s not good. Hopefully you can see a way to get it a little bit higher in some areas , if not all.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"40

Life is pretty darn great

Wow! Get you! What’s your secret? "

Ive reached a stable balance again tbf.

I made changes that make me happy and every thing else slotted into place. As you know, mindset is so important and all powerful

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"15, needs improvement."

Oh dear….I shall stop feeling sorry for myself now. Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"16

but there’s a reason for that

That’s not good. Hopefully you can see a way to get it a little bit higher in some areas , if not all. "

Give it 3 weeks and I’ll be back up there

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"40

Life is pretty darn great

Wow! Get you! What’s your secret?

Ive reached a stable balance again tbf.

I made changes that make me happy and every thing else slotted into place. As you know, mindset is so important and all powerful

Good work

But If my cock wears out and drops off , no amount of mindset will fix that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why are physical and mental together ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 5, Love life 5, Family relationships 5, Friendships 5, Finances 5, Work 5, Spirituality 4, Hobbies/Me time 5. Total- 43

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a pretty good place right now, work is great everything else is stable.

All good

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"15, needs improvement."

Hopefully you can see some small steps / quick wins to improve a few areas a little . Hugs x

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 5, Love life 5, Family relationships 5, Friendships 5, Finances 5, Work 5, Spirituality 4, Hobbies/Me time 5. Total- 43"

Excellent, you’re in the zone right now

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"40

Life is pretty darn great

Wow! Get you! What’s your secret?

Ive reached a stable balance again tbf.

I made changes that make me happy and every thing else slotted into place. As you know, mindset is so important and all powerful

Good work

But If my cock wears out and drops off , no amount of mindset will fix that

More lube helps to prevent cock wear and tear

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Why are physical and mental together ?"

Good question. It’s all health ? For a long time they have been seen so differently but we’re beginning to realise it’s the same in terms of needing diagnosis, getting treatment and impact on happiness, and they are so connected, it’s just a different part of your body that’s unwell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 3. Love life 5, Family relationships 4,Friendships 3, Finances 3. Work 3, Spirituality 3, Hobbies/Me time 1. Total- 29

Should be higher but it's the time of year,it just is what it is and can't do much about it. Ask me again in summer.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 3. Love life 5, Family relationships 4,Friendships 3, Finances 3. Work 3, Spirituality 3, Hobbies/Me time 1. Total- 29

Should be higher but it's the time of year,it just is what it is and can't do much about it. Ask me again in summer."

Lamb time hey.

At least you know why and can see the end in sight. You have love & health anyway - the two most important

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why are physical and mental together ?

Quite. So why not just 'health'

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Why are physical and mental together ?

Quite. So why not just 'health' "

Many people still assume or believe Health just means physical - not anxiety / depression etc.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"19"

Hoping for better days ahead. Hugs x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

15 out of 45, omg that's really depressing, where's the vodka.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"15 out of 45, omg that's really depressing, where's the vodka."

Some grey goose in my boxers..

I'm doing alright around the 35 mark I'll take that

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

12 for me and that was the optimistic level

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24. Some good, some bad. I had to try not to overthink it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world is good ... I'm at the bottom and finding, or maintaining, motivation is the crux of the matter right now

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Physical/Mental Health 2, Sex life 0, Love life 3, Family relationships 4,Friendships 2, Finances 5, Work 4, Spirituality 3, Hobbies/Me time 5 Total- 28

Pretty shitty times but af least I bought myself a pair of Jimmy Choos as an early birthday present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

43 winter puts a damper on some hobbies.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

27 but I'm doing OK.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Physical/Mental Health 1, Sex life 1, Love life 0, Family relationships 3, Friendships 1, Finances 4, Work N/A, Spirituality N/A, Hobbies/Me time 0. Total-10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m fine thanks!

But how are you really doing ? And how do you even know ?

Want to play the game of fives with me? Then join in.

Don’t overthink it just pick a number from 1 (Really bad) to 5 (Awesome) for each; or if you prefer just give your overall total out of 45

Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 5, Love life 1, Family relationships 3, Friendships 3, Finances 4, Work 4, Spirituality 2, Hobbies/Me time 3. Total-29

Physical/Mental Health -4 Sex Life 0 Love Life 0 Family Relationship 4 Friendships 5 finances 2 Work 0 Spiritually 3 Hobbies/Me time 3

Total= 14

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

"Physical/Mental Health 1, Sex life 1, Love life 0, Family relationships 3, Friendships 1, Finances 4, Work N/A, Spirituality N/A, Hobbies/Me time 0. Total-10

Hope everyone is okay

Mine comes at 35, could be worse but could be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical/Mental Health 5,

Sex life 1

Love life 1

Family relationships 5

Friendships 5,

Finances 5

Work 5,

Spirituality 5

Hobbies/Me time 5.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"12 for me and that was the optimistic level

Marc"

Hang on you must have 10 just on the love and sex

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"15 out of 45, omg that's really depressing, where's the vodka."

Think of it as 1/3 Awesome 2/3 work in progress. Hugs x

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Physical/Mental Health 1, Sex life 1, Love life 0, Family relationships 3, Friendships 1, Finances 4, Work N/A, Spirituality N/A, Hobbies/Me time 0. Total-10

Just hugs x

Hug a tree or do a yoga pose and your spiritually might rise to a 1

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Physical/Mental Health 1, Sex life 2, Love life 1, Family relationships 2, Friendships 3, Finances 3, Work 1, Spirituality 0, Hobbies/Me time 1. Total-14

Well that's not too good

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I’m fine thanks!

But how are you really doing ? And how do you even know ?

Want to play the game of fives with me? Then join in.

Don’t overthink it just pick a number from 1 (Really bad) to 5 (Awesome) for each; or if you prefer just give your overall total out of 45

Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 5, Love life 1, Family relationships 3, Friendships 3, Finances 4, Work 4, Spirituality 2, Hobbies/Me time 3. Total-29

Physical/Mental Health -4 Sex Life 0 Love Life 0 Family Relationship 4 Friendships 5 finances 2 Work 0 Spiritually 3 Hobbies/Me time 3

Total= 14

You don’t need money with all your friends and family discounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m fine thanks!

But how are you really doing ? And how do you even know ?

Want to play the game of fives with me? Then join in.

Don’t overthink it just pick a number from 1 (Really bad) to 5 (Awesome) for each; or if you prefer just give your overall total out of 45

Physical/Mental Health 4, Sex life 5, Love life 1, Family relationships 3, Friendships 3, Finances 4, Work 4, Spirituality 2, Hobbies/Me time 3. Total-29

Physical/Mental Health -4 Sex Life 0 Love Life 0 Family Relationship 4 Friendships 5 finances 2 Work 0 Spiritually 3 Hobbies/Me time 3

Total= 14

You don’t need money with all your friends and family discounts.

Thus is true

But pissballing about with my sych meds and having an operation to have lump removed two months ago doesn’t help

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Physical/Mental Health 1, Sex life 1, Love life 0, Family relationships 3, Friendships 1, Finances 4, Work N/A, Spirituality N/A, Hobbies/Me time 0. Total-10

Hope everyone is okay

Mine comes at 35, could be worse but could be better"

My sex life could possibly be getting better tonight, but it's playing havoc with my anxiety.

Cruel to be kind, and all that

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Physical/Mental Health 1, Sex life 1, Love life 0, Family relationships 3, Friendships 1, Finances 4, Work N/A, Spirituality N/A, Hobbies/Me time 0. Total-10

Hope everyone is okay

Mine comes at 35, could be worse but could be better

My sex life could possibly be getting better tonight, but it's playing havoc with my anxiety.

Cruel to be kind, and all that

Oh I forgot it was 0-5 Mine is 12

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

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over a year ago

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am fine. I scored 30 with sex and love life the lowest and the rest higher

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

34, apparently life is pretty bloody good today

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I scored 10

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

35, I'm pretty happy with that

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