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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey,

I look at profiles and I see so many different aspects but one thing I struggle to construct is that first message and the right subject!

Do you make the topic about sex or them or you.

Do you tell them about yourself or do you ask them about themselves.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Read the profile and work it out from there

There's no one size fits all.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Different strokes for different folks.

I normally pick non sexual chit chat for a first message, normally geek related

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By *ubikslongswordMan
over a year ago

Rubiksville


"Different strokes for different folks.

I normally pick non sexual chit chat for a first message, normally geek related "

I usually do the same tbf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read the profile and work it out from there

There's no one size fits all."
thank you I will bare that in mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Different strokes for different folks.

I normally pick non sexual chit chat for a first message, normally geek related "
I can for sure be geeky ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ctrl + c

ctrl + v

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally pick non sexual chit chat for a first message, normally geek related "

I misread that as 'Greek' related, and thought "Well that's definitely different!"

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I assume most profiles will give clues what they expect from the first message. Personalise it to that person

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

A face pic, and a polite introduction.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Try to work it out from the content of the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I normally pick non sexual chit chat for a first message, normally geek related

I misread that as 'Greek' related, and thought "Well that's definitely different!" "
that would be different

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