FabSwingers.com forum: Single blokes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello single blokes of the Fab forum!

I keep my profile off the searches as I prefer to go look for who I want to meet. So I always mail people first.

I'm crap at flirting and I can't type "fancy a fuk" as a first mail because that would be rude....

So... As single blokes.... What kind of thing would you want a female to send you in a first mail?

p.s. This isn't an invite for blokes to mail or wink me. As I said before, I prefer to go looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always nice to get a simple hi how are you, followed by why you decided to contact

! If its well written and you don't seem like a fruit loop you will get a response. Well from me at least. Even if its just a polite thank you but no thanks.

Steve

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Alright big boy ! Could I possibly tempt you with some tasty snacks? I have Pringles, cookies and an assortment of horses duvets

please get back to me, I can't wait to mutually munch with you

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By *ayb1970Man
over a year ago

Somerset

Same here a nice polite hello does the trick!......

Jay

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Alright big boy ! Could I possibly tempt you with some tasty snacks? I have Pringles, cookies and an assortment of horses duvets

please get back to me, I can't wait to mutually munch with you

surely 'just picked up macdonalds cheeseburger for £1.99' works for you??

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By *acdoodleMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hello single blokes of the Fab forum!

I keep my profile off the searches as I prefer to go look for who I want to meet. So I always mail people first.

I'm crap at flirting and I can't type "fancy a fuk" as a first mail because that would be rude....

So... As single blokes.... What kind of thing would you want a female to send you in a first mail?

p.s. This isn't an invite for blokes to mail or wink me. As I said before, I prefer to go looking.

I'm blatantly speaking on behalf of every single man on here when I say it doesn't matter what you write. Hello, goodbye or hfhjkddyg. We would be happy just to get a message or two. You have no worries at all about getting replys

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Alright big boy ! Could I possibly tempt you with some tasty snacks? I have Pringles, cookies and an assortment of horses duvets

please get back to me, I can't wait to mutually munch with you

surely 'just picked up macdonalds cheeseburger for £1.99' works for you??

Possibly but I won't admit it else I will sound cheap

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

anything absolutely anything i just wanna a message boo hoo please!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello single blokes of the Fab forum!

I keep my profile off the searches as I prefer to go look for who I want to meet. So I always mail people first.

I'm crap at flirting and I can't type "fancy a fuk" as a first mail because that would be rude....

So... As single blokes.... What kind of thing would you want a female to send you in a first mail?

p.s. This isn't an invite for blokes to mail or wink me. As I said before, I prefer to go looking.

(to blantantly rip of a fave film of mine)

you had me at Hello ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a cheery 'Hi' followed by an introduction, anything we may have in common etc.

Then of course we'll all reply with.....

since you emailed me

'fancy a fuck?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll chuck in a drink with his burger

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

"Its always nice to get a simple hi how are you, followed by why you decided to contact

! If its well written and you don't seem like a fruit loop you will get a response. Well from me at least. Even if its just a polite thank you but no thanks.

Steve"

Yes just nice and friendly hello and chat to see if you have things in common or profile interest is mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like something friendly im easily pleased

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

for me pussy pics loads of em, and fancy a fuck works for me

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Alright big boy ! Could I possibly tempt you with some tasty snacks? I have Pringles, cookies and an assortment of horses duvets

please get back to me, I can't wait to mutually munch with you

Horses duvets???? And I get told I'm kinky? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the men so far. Any messages from ladies would be a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been on here as a single male and seen how infrequent unprompted messages are, I honestly think that even just a wink would probably get a response. But a brief hello and why you have messaged would almost certainly get a reply.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Scarlette, you need to read our profiles. Compare them to yours...Then nothing to compare anyway...

Just send any message. It will sound like winning a jackpot for any single bloke to get a message from you

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I'll chuck in a drink with his burger

What sort?

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By *heekygeordieguyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

A reference to who you are messaging i.e profile name,single guys also get cut and paste messages where it is blatantly obvious that our profile has not been read.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Alright big boy ! Could I possibly tempt you with some tasty snacks? I have Pringles, cookies and an assortment of horses duvets

please get back to me, I can't wait to mutually munch with you

Horses duvets???? And I get told I'm kinky? lol"

Should have posted that on Artfuls food thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that will make me laugh or smile.

Something witty.

Flattery will get you everywhere too

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By *teve oneilMan
over a year ago

manchester

I'd love a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a nice simple...

" hi I like what I see and read, if you do too, mail me back"

or words to that effect... no pushy shots either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just a nice simple...

" hi I like what I see and read, if you do too, mail me back"

or words to that effect... no pushy shots either

pussy Dam predictive text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a nice message showing that you have viewed my profile and are generally interested in taking it further. Explaining what your interested in and maybe a few pics threw in there aswell. This normally gets the ball rolling with me xx

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By *igerstyle2k2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

There should be more women, like yourself, who make the first move.

Any first message would be great. A 'hi' then what you are looking for or what you like about the profile.

Happy swinging!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Hi boys......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"for me pussy pics loads of em, and fancy a fuck works for me

Yeah me too. Easy Peasy. Although, of course, I'm extremely picky actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi boys......

Evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Scarlette, you need to read our profiles. Compare them to yours...Then nothing to compare anyway...

Just send any message. It will sound like winning a jackpot for any single bloke to get a message from you

Yeah good point. I keep my profile a few notches above 'utter shite' as it puts people off mailing me.

I have tried mailing blokes with nice polite messages but had no reply. They probably looked at my profile and thought I was a nutjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say hello and introduce yourself ! It's not an interview it's an intro to say ' hi let's chat' x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alright big boy ! Could I possibly tempt you with some tasty snacks? I have Pringles, cookies and an assortment of horses duvets

please get back to me, I can't wait to mutually munch with you

What the chuff is a horses duvet??! Should I get one? It's bloody hard work being a single bi fem on this site ya know, I need all the help I can get!!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I have tried mailing blokes with nice polite messages but had no reply thought I was a nutjob.

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...Do a try with me..message me and see if i reply or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi boys......

Coooooooo eeeeeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat as you normally would do, just tried to have a conversation with a woman who gave one word answers and hot bored very quickly

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Just a nice short message that shows you've looked at my profile is enough. A bit of humour is a winner for me too.

An attached face pic is always nice, but not essential for a first message.

Just be yourself

Happy hunting

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Alright big boy ! Could I possibly tempt you with some tasty snacks? I have Pringles, cookies and an assortment of horses duvets

please get back to me, I can't wait to mutually munch with you

What the chuff is a horses duvet??! Should I get one? It's bloody hard work being a single bi fem on this site ya know, I need all the help I can get!!

I think it's what the French call a selection of posh starters

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