FabSwingers.com forum: Easing her in…

By *heSilverFox1701 OP Man
over a year ago

Near Sleaford

So, a woman I’ve met wants to branch out into the swingers scene but is, probably like almost anybody who starts a life here, self conscious, scared about it, nervous and curious. I asked her how she would like to be introduced to this world and she told me she’d like to be stripped and fucked in the kitchen by me but - with a handsome guy watching and then maybe she might go further with no pressure.

So I’d like some advice on how to find the right guy without annoying the blokes on here. What’s the best approach as he’d have to just watch and hope rather than watch and play initially… but how to find a decent guy?

Hive mind thoughts please…

By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Sounds like quite a big step to 'ease in' , but ultimately its whatever she feels comfortable with.

I think I'd suggest she either makes her own profile here , or you make a couples one, so that she can be involved in the search, especially as your idea of a handsome guy may differ from hers.

Don't rush, chat plenty to any prospective 3rd party, and be very clear about what you're looking for and what the boundaries are. A social meet before anything more would also probably be a good idea.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Couples profile first, no decent man is going to agree to meet from a single guys profile in my opinion. Block single men from contacting you then search with your friend and contact the ones who interest you both

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP.. I have the same problem at the moment.. mine has low confidence due to a ex of hers..

But slowly ease in with photos..

My next step is to get a couples profile..