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"The agenda again of women not looking for NSA sex......this is getting old.....your views your view, have a great day "If you don't like my thread don't comment on it. Just trying to get a understanding. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. " For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. " Idiot guys that's why! and women can find sex when or wherever they what to a degree. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. " I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. Idiot guys that's why! and women can find sex when or wherever they what to a degree. " Yeah it easier for women to find sex as I've said but others will disagree with you on that. They could be meeting some of the elite shaggers in the country on here though. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. " I mean you say there’s a lack, but I don’t think there is a lack of women I think there’s a lack of men who can communicate, who won’t lie, who can make us feel safe Too many men here complain and whine they can’t find women There clearly are women here and plenty of us Just because we’re not picking you doesn’t mean we’re not here, it’s means you’re not who we want Try looking at yourself abs why you’re not getting meets instead of blaming others for not wanting you Rant over | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. Idiot guys that's why! and women can find sex when or wherever they what to a degree. Yeah it easier for women to find sex as I've said but others will disagree with you on that. They could be meeting some of the elite shaggers in the country on here though. " It's bullshit like Elite shaggers putting many of. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. " Exactly that, and here lies the real problem. If it wasn't for so many Men with a lack of understanding of the scene, there would possibly be more Women. We've known a few Women to leave fab because of it, the lack of respect and understanding, the entitled attitudes etc. There are probably as many Women as there are Men that have enough understanding to find the fun they seek. Whereas, a lot more Men here, acting on their urges in that moment they log in. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. I mean you say there’s a lack, but I don’t think there is a lack of women I think there’s a lack of men who can communicate, who won’t lie, who can make us feel safe Too many men here complain and whine they can’t find women There clearly are women here and plenty of us Just because we’re not picking you doesn’t mean we’re not here, it’s means you’re not who we want Try looking at yourself abs why you’re not getting meets instead of blaming others for not wanting you Rant over " No the ratios of single men compared to women is completely distorted you are wrong. You assume too much aswell. Just posing a question. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. " Actually elements of truth in this .. however, how they ever thought...hey! You wanna fuck now? Would ever been an acceptable approach...is beyond me. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. Exactly that, and here lies the real problem. If it wasn't for so many Men with a lack of understanding of the scene, there would possibly be more Women. We've known a few Women to leave fab because of it, the lack of respect and understanding, the entitled attitudes etc. There are probably as many Women as there are Men that have enough understanding to find the fun they seek. Whereas, a lot more Men here, acting on their urges in that moment they log in. " Yeah, the lack of respect because of the judgment of the women on here maybe. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. I mean you say there’s a lack, but I don’t think there is a lack of women I think there’s a lack of men who can communicate, who won’t lie, who can make us feel safe Too many men here complain and whine they can’t find women There clearly are women here and plenty of us Just because we’re not picking you doesn’t mean we’re not here, it’s means you’re not who we want Try looking at yourself abs why you’re not getting meets instead of blaming others for not wanting you Rant over No the ratios of single men compared to women is completely distorted you are wrong. You assume too much aswell. Just posing a question. " Can I ask how you know the numbers are distorted? | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. Actually elements of truth in this .. however, how they ever thought...hey! You wanna fuck now? Would ever been an acceptable approach...is beyond me." See I think they are few guys who might message that kind of thing but probably a lot more who send decent messages just to no avail. | |||
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It does feel like Christmas indeed "I wish my Christmas was like this | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. I mean you say there’s a lack, but I don’t think there is a lack of women I think there’s a lack of men who can communicate, who won’t lie, who can make us feel safe Too many men here complain and whine they can’t find women There clearly are women here and plenty of us Just because we’re not picking you doesn’t mean we’re not here, it’s means you’re not who we want Try looking at yourself abs why you’re not getting meets instead of blaming others for not wanting you Rant over No the ratios of single men compared to women is completely distorted you are wrong. You assume too much aswell. Just posing a question. Can I ask how you know the numbers are distorted? " Seconded, does he have some site access we don’t? I doubt it | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. I mean you say there’s a lack, but I don’t think there is a lack of women I think there’s a lack of men who can communicate, who won’t lie, who can make us feel safe Too many men here complain and whine they can’t find women There clearly are women here and plenty of us Just because we’re not picking you doesn’t mean we’re not here, it’s means you’re not who we want Try looking at yourself abs why you’re not getting meets instead of blaming others for not wanting you Rant over No the ratios of single men compared to women is completely distorted you are wrong. You assume too much aswell. Just posing a question. Can I ask how you know the numbers are distorted? " People have checked who's near me etc and said the ratio was at least 10 to 1. Just pretty clear too | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. Actually elements of truth in this .. however, how they ever thought...hey! You wanna fuck now? Would ever been an acceptable approach...is beyond me. See I think they are few guys who might message that kind of thing but probably a lot more who send decent messages just to no avail. " You’re wrong! | |||
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"* Pulls up Chair * Any room for the fat one?
A 3 seater sofa haha
Ummmm - I brought cake and gin....
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It does feel like Christmas indeed "Definitely for me | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. Actually elements of truth in this .. however, how they ever thought...hey! You wanna fuck now? Would ever been an acceptable approach...is beyond me. See I think they are few guys who might message that kind of thing but probably a lot more who send decent messages just to no avail. " Are you assuming or talking through experience? Our experience differs. | |||
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"* Pulls up Chair * Any room for the fat one?
A 3 seater sofa haha
Ummmm - I brought cake and gin....
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I'm loving my sofa atm
It does feel like Christmas indeed
Definitely for me "I’m putting the kettle on if anyone wants a cuppa | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. I mean you say there’s a lack, but I don’t think there is a lack of women I think there’s a lack of men who can communicate, who won’t lie, who can make us feel safe Too many men here complain and whine they can’t find women There clearly are women here and plenty of us Just because we’re not picking you doesn’t mean we’re not here, it’s means you’re not who we want Try looking at yourself abs why you’re not getting meets instead of blaming others for not wanting you Rant over No the ratios of single men compared to women is completely distorted you are wrong. You assume too much aswell. Just posing a question. Can I ask how you know the numbers are distorted? People have checked who's near me etc and said the ratio was at least 10 to 1. Just pretty clear too" But surely that depends on if all the women in that area happen to be signed in at the time? I also have my near me turned off.... | |||
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"* Pulls up Chair * Any room for the fat one?
A 3 seater sofa haha
Ummmm - I brought cake and gin....
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It does feel like Christmas indeed
Definitely for me
I’m putting the kettle on if anyone wants a cuppa "Just 1 sweetener for me I'm sweet enough | |||
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"* Pulls up Chair * Any room for the fat one?
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. Actually elements of truth in this .. however, how they ever thought...hey! You wanna fuck now? Would ever been an acceptable approach...is beyond me. See I think they are few guys who might message that kind of thing but probably a lot more who send decent messages just to no avail. Are you assuming or talking through experience? Our experience differs. " 100% Men here have very different experiences than women and couples each of different dynamics again have very different experiences too, there is no one way for all or ‘correct’ way to use this site either It’s all about finding your type and if others don’t fit that that’s not anyone being wrong, that’s life everywhere | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. Actually elements of truth in this .. however, how they ever thought...hey! You wanna fuck now? Would ever been an acceptable approach...is beyond me. See I think they are few guys who might message that kind of thing but probably a lot more who send decent messages just to no avail. Are you assuming or talking through experience? Our experience differs. 100% Men here have very different experiences than women and couples each of different dynamics again have very different experiences too, there is no one way for all or ‘correct’ way to use this site either It’s all about finding your type and if others don’t fit that that’s not anyone being wrong, that’s life everywhere " Exactly that. I say it's as difficult for anyone here, only from different perspectives. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. For a full understanding, look at what draws Men here and you may find the difference. I'm thinking most men come on here thinking it could be easy NSA without groundwork then they get a shock when they see how it isn't easy at all. Actually elements of truth in this .. however, how they ever thought...hey! You wanna fuck now? Would ever been an acceptable approach...is beyond me. See I think they are few guys who might message that kind of thing but probably a lot more who send decent messages just to no avail. " Have to say I've seen the many many messages that friends and partners on here have been sent...and if that's reflective of what the rat if the women on here get...then...no that's not the case. Do some men with decent well thought out posts get lost in the inbox with 100s of others...yup. Are some well written messages sometimes ignored ...yup We as men are not owed a response. | |||
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"Erm you do realise there is an option to show or not show on 'who is near'.... I'd be more inclined to think it's a function that more guys are keen to use than females. So the females turn it off. It's just not safe." 100%, safety alone is a huge reason I’ll hesitate rather then jump in It seems taken for granted to assume trust before it’s built | |||
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"* Pulls up Chair * Any room for the fat one?
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It does feel like Christmas indeed
Definitely for me
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"Erm you do realise there is an option to show or not show on 'who is near'.... I'd be more inclined to think it's a function that more guys are keen to use than females. So the females turn it off. It's just not safe. 100%, safety alone is a huge reason I’ll hesitate rather then jump in It seems taken for granted to assume trust before it’s built " Absolutely true. My fab location is actually quite a distance from my real location, because past experience has taught me that it's safer that way. | |||
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"So fab is about sifting the sugar from the s^^t, which come hand with each other. That's not gender specific... Can I ask Op, where do you get this perception of elite shaggers? And who are they? And are you suggesting, that these elite shaggers! Are the only ones who get to meet women?..." Perhaps OP is one of the undiscovered elite? | |||
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"Erm you do realise there is an option to show or not show on 'who is near'.... I'd be more inclined to think it's a function that more guys are keen to use than females. So the females turn it off. It's just not safe. 100%, safety alone is a huge reason I’ll hesitate rather then jump in It seems taken for granted to assume trust before it’s built Absolutely true. My fab location is actually quite a distance from my real location, because past experience has taught me that it's safer that way. " Same, had them turn up to my home and work after I’ve said no, now I don’t state where I am nor allow them near | |||
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"So fab is about sifting the sugar from the s^^t, which come hand with each other. That's not gender specific... Can I ask Op, where do you get this perception of elite shaggers? And who are they? And are you suggesting, that these elite shaggers! Are the only ones who get to meet women?..." We know you're not 1 | |||
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"Do elite shaggers get a badge? " I want to know what you have to do to become one? Is it a numbers thing or do you have to pass certain tests? | |||
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"So fab is about sifting the sugar from the s^^t, which come hand with each other. That's not gender specific... Can I ask Op, where do you get this perception of elite shaggers? And who are they? And are you suggesting, that these elite shaggers! Are the only ones who get to meet women?... We know you're not 1" I find him more attractive than you OP simply for the personally and attitudes attracted alone I’d call him more elite than you anyday after following the green arrow | |||
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"They could be meeting some of the elite shaggers in the country on here though. " Elite shaggers 
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. Idiot guys that's why! and women can find sex when or wherever they what to a degree. Yeah it easier for women to find sex as I've said but others will disagree with you on that. They could be meeting some of the elite shaggers in the country on here though. " I want to know these elite shaggers. Get their side of the story. We've never heard from them....... | |||
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"So fab is about sifting the sugar from the s^^t, which come hand with each other. That's not gender specific... Can I ask Op, where do you get this perception of elite shaggers? And who are they? And are you suggesting, that these elite shaggers! Are the only ones who get to meet women?... Perhaps OP is one of the undiscovered elite? " People tring to read through the lines. I can assure you I do alright on here, i hold my own. Currently not meeting off this profile as my teammate is taking a break. Just puzzles me the lack of women. Want to know possible reasons for it. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. Idiot guys that's why! and women can find sex when or wherever they what to a degree. Yeah it easier for women to find sex as I've said but others will disagree with you on that. They could be meeting some of the elite shaggers in the country on here though. I want to know these elite shaggers. Get their side of the story. We've never heard from them......." Same but I’m getting the feeling they only exist in someone’s imagination tbh | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. Idiot guys that's why! and women can find sex when or wherever they what to a degree. Yeah it easier for women to find sex as I've said but others will disagree with you on that. They could be meeting some of the elite shaggers in the country on here though. I want to know these elite shaggers. Get their side of the story. We've never heard from them....... Same but I’m getting the feeling they only exist in someone’s imagination tbh "I want to meet one for tea and cakes | |||
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If you pass...it will be like being in the SAS of fab
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"Try again. Honestly I really need to read what I type. Just the phrase elite shagger makes me drier than the Sahara. It smacks of someone who thinks they know what I want better than me. J I like it. I'm going to call Mr KC an elite shagger later and see what happens
Remember to make a thread and tell us how it went, I’m invested now
Yes!
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Remember to make a thread and tell us how it went, I’m invested now
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"Could we please add 'elite shagger' to search criteria? Or maybe have an elite shagger room on the cams? " I would like to request an elite shagger badge next to one’s username please. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. " My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response. | |||
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"If you take the initial E from Elite Shagger then that's more me " followed by a nice cuppa and slice of cake. Perfect. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. " Because women are more often raised with the ideal of heteronormative life and motherhood being the ideal. Men are more likely to be encouraged to sow their wild oats or whatever as they mature. The latter lends better to this lifestyle  | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response." 500 with no pictures, yet I'm told it's not easier for women to have sex and there isn't a lack of women on here. Doesn't add up does it. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. Because women are more often raised with the ideal of heteronormative life and motherhood being the ideal. Men are more likely to be encouraged to sow their wild oats or whatever as they mature. The latter lends better to this lifestyle "Yeah that's the society issue then isn't it. The stigma of it. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response. 500 with no pictures, yet I'm told it's not easier for women to have sex and there isn't a lack of women on here. Doesn't add up does it. " I don't think anyone is saying it isn't easier for women to have sex. They are pointing out that a lot of women won't just open their legs for every man that messages. Some would never be able to close them | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. " If its like Christmas, imagine the variety of "trees" we get presented with! We only want a certain kind of tree, that we find attractive, and fits in our house. Sometimes the trees are so poor that we would rather use an artificial tree, or have no tree, than put up with the sorry looking specimen in the window
Some women aren't looking for a tree at all.
The variety however, can be irrisitible to some, and they might want a tree in each room!
A lot of women like to stick with the same kind of tree, year after year, whereas some yearn for a bigger one, a smaller one, a fatter one, or maybe a different colour one.
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response. 500 with no pictures, yet I'm told it's not easier for women to have sex and there isn't a lack of women on here. Doesn't add up does it. I don't think anyone is saying it isn't easier for women to have sex. They are pointing out that a lot of women won't just open their legs for every man that messages. Some would never be able to close them "Beg to differ, lots of people have argued that on other threads. Apparently it is but obviously not. Who messages people with no pics too. Shows the desperation. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. " I don't think there's a lack of single women. Just a lack of them for some men. Most likely because they read some profiles and forum posts and would rather shove a cactus up their foof than engage with a particular element of the Fab male population. Those that join and stick around learn how to avoid those they find distasteful via the block button and filters. There's plenty of them but they're  to much of the male population and always will be.
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response. 500 with no pictures, yet I'm told it's not easier for women to have sex and there isn't a lack of women on here. Doesn't add up does it. " 500, you noticed, though ignored the rest of it, that was pointing out that the majority were not worth looking at. Like I've said, it's difficult for all, only from different angles. If anything, I wonder if it's easier for Bi Men. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response. 500 with no pictures, yet I'm told it's not easier for women to have sex and there isn't a lack of women on here. Doesn't add up does it. " You’re not told it’s easier for women, you’re assuming And you’re very wrong You’re told by women it’s not easy and you dismiss what doesn’t fit your personal narrative We all know full well men will push and try to meet women who clearly aren’t interested. That doesn’t mean there are more men or women That shows only that men will fk anything abs women have higher standards As I told you on a previous thread you posted asking this same question repeatedly Quality makes a difference to women. To some horny men it means nothing and any hole is a goal That’s why you’re confused and struggling to understand Standards and quality are very very different for the opposite sex | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response. 500 with no pictures, yet I'm told it's not easier for women to have sex and there isn't a lack of women on here. Doesn't add up does it. " If I was prepared to have sex with literally anyone, regardless of looks/personality, then I could put up a 'meet now' status or post and I'm sure I would be able to have sex within the hour. But personally I only want to have sex with someone I am physically AND mentally attracted to, those people are much, much harder to find. | |||
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"I don't know for sure, why I'm asking. There are varied reasons but I think that could be a big 1. " I think it is. But if course, that's only my perception and my opinion. Everyone has different ways of processing and digesting the world they live in and I could be a million miles away. The end result is that there are more men than women on here. And that that doesn't mean anyone should have to settle for anything less than what they want | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response. 500 with no pictures, yet I'm told it's not easier for women to have sex and there isn't a lack of women on here. Doesn't add up does it. If I was prepared to have sex with literally anyone, regardless of looks/personality, then I could put up a 'meet now' status or post and I'm sure I would be able to have sex within the hour. But personally I only want to have sex with someone I am physically AND mentally attracted to, those people are much, much harder to find. " See most men only need physical attraction, women seem to want the full package. You have to encompass it all as a guy. | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. My ex gf put a profile up with no picture and just saying divorcee. No mention of me in it. She got 500 emails the first week. Who the fuck has time to read all those let alone reply to them, most where very derogatory and asking to fuck now even though they hadn't seen her and many where abusive of they did'y get a response. 500 with no pictures, yet I'm told it's not easier for women to have sex and there isn't a lack of women on here. Doesn't add up does it. If I was prepared to have sex with literally anyone, regardless of looks/personality, then I could put up a 'meet now' status or post and I'm sure I would be able to have sex within the hour. But personally I only want to have sex with someone I am physically AND mentally attracted to, those people are much, much harder to find. See most men only need physical attraction, women seem to want the full package. You have to encompass it all as a guy. " Many men who message wanting to meet don't even ask for face pics...they dont actually care about looks, they just want a shag | |||
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" The end result is that there are more men than women on here. Apparently not.
Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me. "Now attacking ppl for being delusional, simply because they don't share the same stance as you, and are willing to challenge your view point..... | |||
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me. "Well, I'm speaking for me and my interpretation. I don't pretend to fathom anyone else's who thinks that there are equal numbers. Obviously everyone will have a different cross section on their who's near and it's entirely possible that some have more women than men. There will also be some men with the charisma and charm that means they get enough attention to think that numbers are at least equal enough. It is what it is. There's no point arguing or debating it. Everyone has their own reasons for being or not being a part of this lifestyle or even just this site | |||
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"So fab is about sifting the sugar from the s^^t, which come hand with each other. That's not gender specific... Can I ask Op, where do you get this perception of elite shaggers? And who are they? And are you suggesting, that these elite shaggers! Are the only ones who get to meet women?... Perhaps OP is one of the undiscovered elite? People tring to read through the lines. I can assure you I do alright on here, i hold my own. Currently not meeting off this profile as my teammate is taking a break. Just puzzles me the lack of women. Want to know possible reasons for it. " Team mate? What game are you playing? | |||
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me. "Or perhaps it’s because YOU are the most disagreeable person ever to grace the forums with your thoughts. People are entitled to their opinions but have spent the last two weeks being called out by you as you express you narrow minded views on the world, failing to accept there may be an alternative view or that it is wrong. This an inclusive and friendly community of people, interested in debate not defending themselves from misogynists. | |||
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me. "Delusional and attacking? You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional  | |||
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" The end result is that there are more men than women on here. Apparently not.
Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Well, I'm speaking for me and my interpretation. I don't pretend to fathom anyone else's who thinks that there are equal numbers. Obviously everyone will have a different cross section on their who's near and it's entirely possible that some have more women than men. There will also be some men with the charisma and charm that means they get enough attention to think that numbers are at least equal enough.
It is what it is. There's no point arguing or debating it. Everyone has their own reasons for being or not being a part of this lifestyle or even just this site "You are not daft then. It's a forum though, it's for some debating. | |||
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"So fab is about sifting the sugar from the s^^t, which come hand with each other. That's not gender specific... Can I ask Op, where do you get this perception of elite shaggers? And who are they? And are you suggesting, that these elite shaggers! Are the only ones who get to meet women?... Perhaps OP is one of the undiscovered elite? People tring to read through the lines. I can assure you I do alright on here, i hold my own. Currently not meeting off this profile as my teammate is taking a break. Just puzzles me the lack of women. Want to know possible reasons for it. Team mate? What game are you playing? " This reads as if you have a single male profile also OP. Why not post from it if the sidekick/MM profile is not active? Not relevant to this obv, just curious. Seems odd | |||
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional "You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too. | |||
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too. "
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" The end result is that there are more men than women on here. Apparently not.
Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Or perhaps it’s because YOU are the most disagreeable person ever to grace the forums with your thoughts.
People are entitled to their opinions but have spent the last two weeks being called out by you as you express you narrow minded views on the world, failing to accept there may be an alternative view or that it is wrong.
This an inclusive and friendly community of people, interested in debate not defending themselves from misogynists."Well said | |||
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too. "Would you state your ‘irrefutable fact’ with evidence for everyone here to decide for themselves. Oddly I’m unwilling to take your word for it | |||
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too. "Talking for the majority now...op your great  | |||
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too. "How can the majority agree with an irrefutable fact? Either it’s a fact or it isn’t. You agree with an opinion, not a fact. | |||
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" The end result is that there are more men than women on here. Apparently not.
Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Well, I'm speaking for me and my interpretation. I don't pretend to fathom anyone else's who thinks that there are equal numbers. Obviously everyone will have a different cross section on their who's near and it's entirely possible that some have more women than men. There will also be some men with the charisma and charm that means they get enough attention to think that numbers are at least equal enough.
It is what it is. There's no point arguing or debating it. Everyone has their own reasons for being or not being a part of this lifestyle or even just this site "Here's my take on the numbers issue. Strip out all the couples and yes, there are more male profiles than female. That's beyond a doubt. But that doesn't mean there's a lack of female profiles at all. Because it you were strip out all the active male profiles that have had sufficient attention put into the content on them, remove those that think it's instashag and all they have to do is send a message to get laid, don't include in your calculations those just here to wank over photos, knock one out in the cam rooms, swap photos of their wives and gf's (probably without their knowledge or even existence) and only take into account the profiles that are making a positive contribution to Fab? Then I suspect there's only a marginally higher number rather than a significantly bigger disparity. Because the one thing I've noticed over the last 15 years is that there are less women joining the site just for the sake of it. Less jumping on board because it's a good way to get some online kicks. Fewer signing up just to chat, cam and swap photos. You can prove anything with statistics. You can argue that the gender imbalance is an issue for some and not for others. You can blame numbers for a lack of success or recognise that they have fuck all to do with your ability to use the site effectively. If you think the numbers are irrelevant then they will be. Some people could be the only guy on a site with a 1000 women and they'd still end up wanking to pictures whilst a big all girl orgy was going on because even the straightest woman on the planet would choose that option over them......
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" The end result is that there are more men than women on here. Apparently not.
Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too.
Talking for the majority now...op your great "Makes a change from talking for all the women on here | |||
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" The end result is that there are more men than women on here. Apparently not.
Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too. "Are you a Conservative politician? | |||
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" The end result is that there are more men than women on here. Apparently not.
Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too.
How can the majority agree with an irrefutable fact? Either it’s a fact or it isn’t. You agree with an opinion, not a fact."Well some people believe the world is flat. You can't help some | |||
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"I believe there are far more Men here, than Women. I also believe the competition for Men is a lot smaller than seems, because some are never in the competition, just lurking. To be in competition, we have to compete, and many do not use the site to put them in such a position. I'd say, for every 100 Men, there's maybe 2 or 3 in with a chance. I'm thinking, this effort is what has some appear as 'elite' to yourself and also to those that put in no effort." Very good answer, my sentiments exactly | |||
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"I believe there are far more Men here, than Women. I also believe the competition for Men is a lot smaller than seems, because some are never in the competition, just lurking. To be in competition, we have to compete, and many do not use the site to put them in such a position. I'd say, for every 100 Men, there's maybe 2 or 3 in with a chance. I'm thinking, this effort is what has some appear as 'elite' to yourself and also to those that put in no effort. Very good answer, my sentiments exactly "So you agree that the numbers aren't an issue then. If you think only 2-3% ever stand a chance then the alleged 'lack' of women isn't a problem. Glad you agree. Guess that clears things up once and for all that there's no gender related issues on Fab. Happy days. 
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Completely delusional people on this thread saying that isn't the case, or they just want to disagree with me.
Delusional and attacking?
You don’t get to control others wants, thoughts and ideas
Maybe we’ve found the problem at last. If we disagree, we’re delusional You are disagreeing with an irrefutable fact, majority would agree too.
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"Still waiting to hear these ‘irrefutable facts’ with evidence to back them up There only available to elite shaggers, and are not to be passed to anybody else
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So I'd give up on these irrefutable facts "The only conclusion I can draw is these ‘facts’ themselves are the only delusion here unfortunately | |||
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"Still waiting to hear these ‘irrefutable facts’ with evidence to back them up There only available to elite shaggers, and are not to be passed to anybody else
So I'd give up on these irrefutable facts
The only conclusion I can draw is these ‘facts’ themselves are the only delusion here unfortunately "That conclusion was arrived at few days ago, and the evidence keeps building to support this.... | |||
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"There such a lack of single women on here compared to single guys. I keep hearing how society has more equals view etc but it can't be the case. I think it would be like Christmas being a single woman on here having so much option. Surprised they don't tell their friends. Is it because they don't want to be judged. Is it because women just aren't really looking for NSA sex. They want something more meaningful...? Interested to hear theories. " Like Christmas? Full of 100s of pairs of socks and bath salts when what you actually want is something very different | |||
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"My theory is Majority of single guys on here are not actually swingers then just want an easy fuck. Yes I know #notallmen but Majority are literally here is my penis I wouldn't be recommending fab to people tbh but I wonder if men tell their mates to join fab for the pussy ? I dunno I haven't the patience or resources to do my own extensive research
I can assure you it is not like Christmas. I just get an inbox full of single guys wanting a hook up which I'm not interested in."I've noticed when fab is in the press there is an uptake in users. Who don't understand the scene etc. I don't tell my friends some are handsome bastards
Interesting hearing views though that are more objective and not subjective.
Got to decipher who is looking for what then.
A guy on a sex/swinging site is looking to hook up for sex and women say they are not interested in that.
Seems perfectly reasonable for them to assume that you see.
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"You know what I think if you minus all the 'single men' that have wives and girlfriends that they forget to mention , there are a hell of a lot less actual single men on fab than you may imagine" Seconded! | |||
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"My theory is Majority of single guys on here are not actually swingers then just want an easy fuck. Yes I know #notallmen but Majority are literally here is my penis I wouldn't be recommending fab to people tbh but I wonder if men tell their mates to join fab for the pussy ? I dunno I haven't the patience or resources to do my own extensive research
I can assure you it is not like Christmas. I just get an inbox full of single guys wanting a hook up which I'm not interested in. I've noticed when fab is in the press there is an uptake in users. Who don't understand the scene etc.
I don't tell my friends some are handsome bastards
Interesting hearing views though that are more objective and not subjective.
Got to decipher who is looking for what then.
A guy on a sex/swinging site is looking to hook up for sex and women say they are not interested in that.
Seems perfectly reasonable for them to assume that you see.
"Problem your asking for views with are based in experience which is biased, and unfortunately that makes them unique and idiosyncratic to the individual, so instead of asking people's views, ask them there experience, you'd get more objective responses... | |||
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"My theory is Majority of single guys on here are not actually swingers then just want an easy fuck. Yes I know #notallmen but Majority are literally here is my penis I wouldn't be recommending fab to people tbh but I wonder if men tell their mates to join fab for the pussy ? I dunno I haven't the patience or resources to do my own extensive research
I can assure you it is not like Christmas. I just get an inbox full of single guys wanting a hook up which I'm not interested in. I've noticed when fab is in the press there is an uptake in users. Who don't understand the scene etc.
I don't tell my friends some are handsome bastards
Interesting hearing views though that are more objective and not subjective.
Got to decipher who is looking for what then.
A guy on a sex/swinging site is looking to hook up for sex and women say they are not interested in that.
Seems perfectly reasonable for them to assume that you see.
"for some, swinging/ENM/poly is more than simply just sex. The whole men only want sex, women only want relationships binary view of the world isn't the one I see. Definite shades and colours out there. | |||
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" A guy on a sex/swinging site is looking to hook up for sex and women say they are not interested in that. Seems perfectly reasonable for them to assume that you see. " It's not a sex/swinging site it's called fabswingers. Of course people will use it for one to one hook ups and that's fine but why assume that's what everyone wants that ? Like I said lots of single men come here to find an easy fuck. That's not swinging is it ? And I don't care that people do one to one meets but people who come here and then moan that women don't do it is fucking weird | |||
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"My theory is Majority of single guys on here are not actually swingers then just want an easy fuck. Yes I know #notallmen but Majority are literally here is my penis I wouldn't be recommending fab to people tbh but I wonder if men tell their mates to join fab for the pussy ? I dunno I haven't the patience or resources to do my own extensive research
I can assure you it is not like Christmas. I just get an inbox full of single guys wanting a hook up which I'm not interested in. I've noticed when fab is in the press there is an uptake in users. Who don't understand the scene etc.
I don't tell my friends some are handsome bastards
Interesting hearing views though that are more objective and not subjective.
Got to decipher who is looking for what then.
A guy on a sex/swinging site is looking to hook up for sex and women say they are not interested in that.
Seems perfectly reasonable for them to assume that you see.
for some, swinging/ENM/poly is more than simply just sex.
The whole men only want sex, women only want relationships binary view of the world isn't the one I see. Definite shades and colours out there. "Oh we have discovered that lately. The true unicorns on here seem to be women just looking for casual sex. | |||
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