FabSwingers.com forum: The rise of the one-handed wank

By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

This came from a friend in a conversation via messages last night:

"I touch myself absent-mindedly in all sorts of ways all the time."

We were chatting about the pleasure of touching your own skin, your own body. Sexually and not.

I was thinking about it again this morning. And about wanking.

Do you think maybe Internet porn and mobile phones have made people get used to the one-handed wank? Especially guys.

Is the act of really enjoying yourself, without external stimulation, in decline?

Wanking with one hand, yes, but with your other hand sliding over your body too. Stroking, squeezing, massaging …

As a man, fondling my balls. If you’re a woman, probably your tits. Hey, if you’re a T-girl maybe both! But just your skin in general too. Why wouldn’t you, it feels good!

But yeah - have we sort of normalised *not* doing all of that because we’re busy scrolling with the other hand?

I dunno. Just thinking about it. Over to you, fellow pervs.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Tbh...some of the things in my wank bank ...from things I have seen and done are generally a million times hotter than anything in most porn so...I find that in most instances that is enough stimulation.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I engage in self massage. Not sexual - usually face and neck. I enjoy it very much

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Curvy blonde blue eyed women taking big black cut cock deep down their slutty throats .. perfect to watch, can’t help do the one handed wank and cup my balls at the same time to stretch my cock out as far as possible

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Erm..... no

Unless I have three hands who is holding my phone for me whilst I watch utter smut to "one" hand wank over?

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I very rarely use porn these days. It’s either sizzling memories, scorching future plans or a couple of voice notes that shall remain private

On the odd porn use occasion it is written word rather than films or videos anyway.

And yet …. Even without scrolling etc - 80% of the time I tend to favour one hand. I’ve never really thought about it before. Hmmm. Interesting. I shall have to investigate further. For science - obviously

Mrs m

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I always have my other hand on the steering wheel…

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Blacked porn

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

"Rise of the One Handed Wank" would make a great album title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help imagining a guy wanking with one hand and throwing the other up like a bull rider as he comes....

Olé

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Interesting thread.

I rarely watch conventional porn and rely on the memories of lovers past and present.

My other hand is usually holding a flute of chilled Tattinger™.

When I climax I celebrate with a sip or two.

If I fail to climax I commiserate with a sip or three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever caressed myself while wanking yet rarely hold the porn device

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Do you think maybe Internet porn and mobile phones have made people get used to the one-handed wank? Especially guys. "

Possibly. It's a definite skill you master isn't it? Especially if you're fond of smutty messaging.

What's great about WA is you can voicenote and keep it locked so you can pleasure yourself to your heart's content, dual handed and they get to hear the full thing.

Maybe it is in decline? Who knows.

But yeah - have we sort of normalised *not* doing all of that because we’re busy scrolling with the other hand? "

No. Generally when I'm scrolling it's with both hands, if I'm pleasuring myself I'll watch a video (more often than not of myself), listen to something or daydream about future scenarios. I

don't really often need to one hand scroll - I'm not really one for that sort of chat oft as it leaves me frustrated. Like I need to fuck.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Why has it weirdly spaced that?

Mortal shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to stroke my inner thighs a bit first before I dive in. I think I am quite sensory seeking anyway as I do touch/stroke my skin a lot, not in an overtly sexual way more a habit. I think I do miss an awful lot just that soft touch of fingers. I can only really wank with my left hand so my right has to do something else.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't use my phone while touching myself. I don't fantasise or watch videos so much as remember how certain situations and events felt at the time. And if I'm messaging someone about it I generally bring myself right to the edge and then force myself to stop before that crest so I can type with both hands. Then go back to building up to the edge again while they respond.

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Mortal shame."

Oh, Meli.

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By *lues eyesMan
over a year ago

tiverton

I’ve got no chance only one hand does it

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