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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fab is a sex site. Fact. (Or at least to connect with people of the same outlook in life)

So if you are here to kick start your sex life or add some more to an already good one, how’s it going for you?

Is Fab actually detrimental to you socialising and getting your jiggly on?

Because at this rate and the way things going, I could potentially have sex 3 times this year …. If I connect with anyone in here

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

The trains are unfortunately detrimental to my socialising atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like ordering maccie d you want from Deliveroo, Uber, just eat, zomato et al.

Then they send you fries no burger.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I mean, I'm really just here to see what's on at the clubs.

But I enjoy the forums. A few people have been in touch that genuinely interest me and I would like to meet. All of my actual partners I connected with on here, though one was a reconnection it still might not have happened without the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The trains are unfortunately detrimental to my socialising atm "

Yep. Don’t rely On public transport.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s like ordering maccie d you want from Deliveroo, Uber, just eat, zomato et al.

Then they send you fries no burger.

"

You got fries? Nobody like s as show off!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Fab is good for socialising, we don't generally look to meet, well search to meet, if it happens it happens it's a bonus.

Kinda deteramental in that I've seen so many nudes I think I'm immune to them, sometimes it can be as much a turn off as a turn on.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like ordering maccie d you want from Deliveroo, Uber, just eat, zomato et al.

Then they send you fries no burger.

You got fries? Nobody like s as show off! "

I thought it was a make your own potato kit. Was there for ages

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've found it to be everthing I'd expected to be and more! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is good for socialising, we don't generally look to meet, well search to meet, if it happens it happens it's a bonus.

Kinda deteramental in that *I've seen so many nudes I think I'm immune to them, sometimes it can be as much a turn off as a turn on.

Mrs"

* I find most pics a turn off. Seen it all before.

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By *eorge1949Man
over a year ago

BroadwayWR11


"The trains are unfortunately detrimental to my socialising atm

Yep. Don’t rely On public transport. "

Back in the sixties, before we had to endure progress, we had individual carriages the fast trains from Paddington to Brighton non stop and it was a good place for a not so quickie!

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I mostly just use fab for the forum, it is comedy gold

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Fab is a sex site. Fact. (Or at least to connect with people of the same outlook in life)

So if you are here to kick start your sex life or add some more to an already good one, how’s it going for you?

Is Fab actually detrimental to you socialising and getting your jiggly on?

Because at this rate and the way things going, I could potentially have sex 3 times this year …. If I connect with anyone in here

"

Incorrect.

Swinging is a community and not purely about sex. Sex is involved but it is not the be all and end all.

C

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab is a sex site. Fact. (Or at least to connect with people of the same outlook in life)

So if you are here to kick start your sex life or add some more to an already good one, how’s it going for you?

Is Fab actually detrimental to you socialising and getting your jiggly on?

Because at this rate and the way things going, I could potentially have sex 3 times this year …. If I connect with anyone in here

Incorrect.

Swinging is a community and not purely about sex. Sex is involved but it is not the be all and end all.

C"

Okay, this strikes a good conversation and observation from someone like yourself that views swinging in a way I would.

But would you agree swinging is about sex or all it variants?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Is Fab actually detrimental to you socialising and getting your jiggly on?"

I’m curious what you meant by this bit, Woody.

Do you feel that maybe your Fab life is taking time or attention away from you going out and meeting people? Or have I grabbed the wrong end of that particular stick?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Well I've definitely had more sex than I was having before I joined Fab... And I've definitely met more people, so it's helped with socialising too.

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By *eorge1949Man
over a year ago

BroadwayWR11

Petition your MP on the grounds that having more sex is good for you physically and is much more fun than running, it keeps people off the street and it improves everyones mental health so paid membership of Fab sites should be available on the NHS.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is Fab actually detrimental to you socialising and getting your jiggly on?

I’m curious what you meant by this bit, Woody.

Do you feel that maybe your Fab life is taking time or attention away from you going out and meeting people? Or have I grabbed the wrong end of that particular stick?"

Oh trust me. Before fab, I was much much worse.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm immune to cock pics thanks to fab. Seen so many.

Seen some things I can't unsee and so at this rate I'm gonna go be a nun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's sex?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If I relocate further north then I could be having lots of sex as that seems to be where I'm most popular. I'm not liking this no sex since end of last year

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

FAB gives us the opportunities to meet likeminded people but it’s still down to us/you to get out to socials with many/one.

We go to clubs and we are on another site.

We have made many friends in this lifestyle - some are friends and some are play friends - but we’ve put the effort in and been rewarded.

I honestly think having a positive outlook in this lifestyle helps too

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately fab is failing me at the moment, don't get me wrong I get offers (like all women here) but I can see the conversation forming well and then suddenly "boom" says one thing and I am like "absolutely not"...I've probably missed out on some cracking cock because of this lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately fab is failing me at the moment, don't get me wrong I get offers (like all women here) but I can see the conversation forming well and then suddenly "boom" says one thing and I am like "absolutely not"...I've probably missed out on some cracking cock because of this lol x"
This is so me too, hence me hiding my profile for a bit. Less talk more action re: msgs would be preferable I think, too many words usually f'things up

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I wasn’t sure how to say this without it sounding crass, but … I get plenty of offers here on Fab. I certainly can’t complain.

The reality is, though, that lots of the women I really click with are quite a long way away and I have limited free time for travelling to meet them. So it’s sort of a blessing and a curse.

I love this old place. It’s filled with some of the best people. (And a lot of nutters, but it’s best we don’t talk about those.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for clubs home and away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social forums aspect is fun and mainly what i use it for at the moment

not much in way of meet ups happening

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

A lot of my social time is spent with fab non playing friends

The people I meet and want to meet are all quite a distance away which doesn’t bother me as I quite enjoy an adventure it’s just trying to find suitable dates which suit us both

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I wasn’t sure how to say this without it sounding crass, but … I get plenty of offers here on Fab. I certainly can’t complain.

The reality is, though, that lots of the women I really click with are quite a long way away and I have limited free time for travelling to meet them. So it’s sort of a blessing and a curse.

I love this old place. It’s filled with some of the best people. (And a lot of nutters, but it’s best we don’t talk about those.)"

It’s not crass, your experience is fairly common just not talked about.

My blessing/curse is the women I meet on here are the most awesome and understanding people I’ve ever had sex with , when it comes to sharing, boundaries, adventuring etc the irony being the place where you look because you don’t want relationships has some of the best relationship candidates

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