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By *ottom4topx OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry

Which do you prefer? I myself prefer fabguys. I get alot more attention on there than here. Get no attention from girls at all on here so I'm just going to stick with the guys.

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By *ottom4topx OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry

Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you prefer? I myself prefer fabguys. I get alot more attention on there than here. Get no attention from girls at all on here so I'm just going to stick with the guys. "

Your profile says your only looking for guys so maybe that's why girls don't pay attention?

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By *ottom4topx OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry


"Which do you prefer? I myself prefer fabguys. I get alot more attention on there than here. Get no attention from girls at all on here so I'm just going to stick with the guys.

Your profile says your only looking for guys so maybe that's why girls don't pay attention?"

I only updated that recently to say guys. Been on this site for 2 years and not one girl messaged me. I just seem to be more guys type than girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you prefer? I myself prefer fabguys. I get alot more attention on there than here. Get no attention from girls at all on here so I'm just going to stick with the guys.

Your profile says your only looking for guys so maybe that's why girls don't pay attention?

Maybe try less is more instead of ass pics ? No offense. Tailor you needs.

I only updated that recently to say guys. Been on this site for 2 years and not one girl messaged me. I just seem to be more guys type than girls"

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I get more interactions on here than fabguys, mostly by straight guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely your username is going to indicate you are looking for top guys not women

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol"

Why are you even here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely your username is going to indicate you are looking for top guys not women "
lol I would have to agree

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By *ottom4topx OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry

I changed my username recently to lol. I do get messages from straight guys on here to but overall the other site is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I only updated that recently to say guys. Been on this site for 2 years and not one girl messaged me. I just seem to be more guys type than girls"

This might need some clarification.

'Not one girl messaged me'?

Do you mean you haven't received a single unsolicited message from women?

Or none have replied to messages you've sent?

If its the first one, then i think i can see the problem. But ill reserve judgement for now.

Fella, being blunt...if no ones chatting to you. Then that's not the sites fault.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Why are you even here then? "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally as a woman I do not want to see pics of men's asses. No offense to anyone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Here, it's very much essential that men invest some hard graft. Many men have unrealistic expectations and also don't.

It's no surprise to most of us that guys outnumber women. That's standard in sex seeking media. If you're managing better on guys, it's a simple choice

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I prefer here for the people and culture, but like that fabguys has the search option of top/bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol"

Why are you still here then?

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Which do you prefer? I myself prefer fabguys. I get alot more attention on there than here. Get no attention from girls at all on here so I'm just going to stick with the guys.

Your profile says your only looking for guys so maybe that's why girls don't pay attention?

I only updated that recently to say guys. Been on this site for 2 years and not one girl messaged me. I just seem to be more guys type than girls"

As a girl, I have never sent the first messages unless playing forums games. I have more rhan enough messages coming into my inbox.

There is a huge discrepancy between the number of men vs women on this side of fab, so if you expect a women to send the first message I wouldn't be surprised in a lack of messages. Likewise, member messaging women is a sjot in the dark while we filter though the few dozen we can receive daily

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By *andysbackbitchesTV/TS
over a year ago

Sunny old lemner

I left fabguys a while back. Got a lot more messages on there, but mostly fantasists or married "straight" guys.

On here the messages are fewer but the people seem much more respectful, and ive met some truly awesome people!

I'd imagine its different depending what area you're in. Somewhat of a postcode lottery.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Why are you still here then?"

Think if I had no messages for 2 years I’d maybe change my game plan a little

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Which do you prefer? I myself prefer fabguys. I get alot more attention on there than here. Get no attention from girls at all on here so I'm just going to stick with the guys. "

Going by your pics looks like your after men only anyway

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london

Both seem pretty similar to me. Main difference is that the guys I meet on fabguys are mostly on prep so fuck raw. More guys on here are married and so want to use condoms - more concern about the other STDs that prep doesn’t protect you from. Some kinky fuckers on here though and had some great meets - though the fabguys are more likely to give you verifications! Agree the “top vs bottom” indicator on fab is useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Why are you still here then?

Think if I had no messages for 2 years I’d maybe change my game plan a little "

Precisely

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Why are you still here then?

Think if I had no messages for 2 years I’d maybe change my game plan a little

Precisely "

Must make note, someone agrees with something I said

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Why are you still here then?

Think if I had no messages for 2 years I’d maybe change my game plan a little

Precisely

Must make note, someone agrees with something I said "

Rare on these forums isn't it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of your into trans women or men then this site wind hands down !..specially the trans women in Scotland! They are stunning!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol"

Aww bless another bruised ego, throwing the dumpy out.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Aww bless another bruised ego, throwing the dumpy out.

The mr "

Who’s Dumpy?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Aww bless another bruised ego, throwing the dumpy out.

The mr

Who’s Dumpy? "

Fucking phone . He’s a homeless guy by the sounds of it

The mr

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Aww bless another bruised ego, throwing the dumpy out.

The mr

The mr

Who’s Dumpy?

Fucking phone . He’s a homeless guy by the sounds of it

The mr "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Aww bless another bruised ego, throwing the dumpy out.

The mr

Who’s Dumpy?

Fucking phone . He’s a homeless guy by the sounds of it

The mr "

Save Dumpy !!!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Aww bless another bruised ego, throwing the dumpy out.

The mr

Who’s Dumpy?

Fucking phone . He’s a homeless guy by the sounds of it

The mr

Save Dumpy !!!

"

I'll donate to poor dumpy

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By *iscreetMan_UKMan
over a year ago

nearby


"Which do you prefer? I myself prefer fabguys. I get alot more attention on there than here. Get no attention from girls at all on here so I'm just going to stick with the guys. "

From your user name to your pictures, your profile reads as a bi man looking for gay interaction. The profile doesn’t feel like it would appeal to the majority of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Aww bless another bruised ego, throwing the dumpy out.

The mr

Who’s Dumpy?

Fucking phone . He’s a homeless guy by the sounds of it

The mr

Save Dumpy !!!

"

Did anyone else ever call the little bottles of beer you get ‘dumpies?’ Or just me?

Also I think a bit of expectation management is in order OP.

Badger

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Fella,

I’ll let you in to a bit of a secret, I never message first either or get couples/women message me first.

The number of blokes/women on here is heavily skewed to the men side, so the odds are against.

But no point telling you to socialise in forums etc as it’s clear you’ve made your mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/03/23 08:12:44]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even on forms people comment more. This site is crap lol

Aww bless another bruised ego, throwing the dumpy out.

The mr

Who’s Dumpy?

Fucking phone . He’s a homeless guy by the sounds of it

The mr

Save Dumpy !!!

Did anyone else ever call the little bottles of beer you get ‘dumpies?’ Or just me?

Also I think a bit of expectation management is in order OP.

Badger "

We called them ‘stubbies ’.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's okay. You don't have to announce your departure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both seem pretty similar to me. Main difference is that the guys I meet on fabguys are mostly on prep so fuck raw. More guys on here are married and so want to use condoms - more concern about the other STDs that prep doesn’t protect you from. Some kinky fuckers on here though and had some great meets - though the fabguys are more likely to give you verifications! Agree the “top vs bottom” indicator on fab is useful. "

If anyone is ever wondering why some people don't want to meet bi men.....

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner

The answer to meeting men meeting women for sex is not found on swingers sites.. shh don't tell everyone and your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I changed my username recently to lol. I do get messages from straight guys on here to but overall the other site is better"

Stick with fab guys then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh if ya prefer fabguys ya may as well bin them both off and go gri*der or Scr*ff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with others in that your profile is solely tailored for men, everything about it.

I will give you credit though for not being a sneeky liar like some. On the other site but on here pretending to be straight(will push bi curious) and profile tailored to match that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you prefer? I myself prefer fabguys. I get alot more attention on there than here. Get no attention from girls at all on here so I'm just going to stick with the guys. "

Close the door on your way out

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Does anyone else understand the point of this pointless thread?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Op you come across as a gay male in profile. Majority of women have zero interest in gay men or bisexual men on here .

If it’s man love you want then other site is probably better as it is catered for cock on cock only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else understand the point of this pointless thread?"

Yes.

To challenge the women of Fab to rally to the cause and prove the OP wrong.

Which I am sure his by now splitting at the seams inbox will prove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op you come across as a gay male in profile. Majority of women have zero interest in gay men or bisexual men on here .

If it’s man love you want then other site is probably better as it is catered for cock on cock only

"

The other site might be better called stds on the down low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else understand the point of this pointless thread?

Yes.

To challenge the women of Fab to rally to the cause and prove the OP wrong.

Which I am sure his by now splitting at the seams inbox will prove"

If I drill holes in my boat it’ll float better cos it’s lighter

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Op you come across as a gay male in profile. Majority of women have zero interest in gay men or bisexual men on here .

If it’s man love you want then other site is probably better as it is catered for cock on cock only

The other site might be better called stds on the down low. "

Don’t worry this site is no different with couples / singles lol

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I would hazard a guess that FabGUYS is better for meeting guys. It's just a guess though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hazard a guess that FabGUYS is better for meeting guys. It's just a guess though."

I’ve had more success on here than fabguys tbf. That said I wasn’t very active on there.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

As Stephen Fry said “I feel sorry for straight men”

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london


"I would hazard a guess that FabGUYS is better for meeting guys. It's just a guess though."

Surprisingly not the case. I get fucks most days from both. Swingers has a lot of horny guys into fucking arse. They might prefer a woman’s but like that mine is more available and I’m not allowed to refuse them. No need to chat me up and they can just tell me they are coming over - fuck and go

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You are asking a question that is aimed at solely men…bi or gay.

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

Rugeley


"Both seem pretty similar to me. Main difference is that the guys I meet on fabguys are mostly on prep so fuck raw. More guys on here are married and so want to use condoms - more concern about the other STDs that prep doesn’t protect you from. Some kinky fuckers on here though and had some great meets - though the fabguys are more likely to give you verifications! Agree the “top vs bottom” indicator on fab is useful.

If anyone is ever wondering why some people don't want to meet bi men....."

If you think that’s just fabguys and just bi men you’re kidding yourself. just because the profiles says straight doesn’t men he is… trust me.. we have had str8 men message us even to prove their bi with verifications with their fabguys profile name.

Also we have seen and even stopped guys in a session/club going from one hole to another (different holes and people) with the same condom on which is pretty much the same thing for the recipient.

You should not be painting every bi or gay man with the same brush ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both seem pretty similar to me. Main difference is that the guys I meet on fabguys are mostly on prep so fuck raw. More guys on here are married and so want to use condoms - more concern about the other STDs that prep doesn’t protect you from. Some kinky fuckers on here though and had some great meets - though the fabguys are more likely to give you verifications! Agree the “top vs bottom” indicator on fab is useful.

If anyone is ever wondering why some people don't want to meet bi men.....

If you think that’s just fabguys and just bi men you’re kidding yourself. just because the profiles says straight doesn’t men he is… trust me.. we have had str8 men message us even to prove their bi with verifications with their fabguys profile name.

Also we have seen and even stopped guys in a session/club going from one hole to another (different holes and people) with the same condom on which is pretty much the same thing for the recipient.

You should not be painting every bi or gay man with the same brush ….

"

So ALL men are dodgy. Thanks.

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

Rugeley


"Both seem pretty similar to me. Main difference is that the guys I meet on fabguys are mostly on prep so fuck raw. More guys on here are married and so want to use condoms - more concern about the other STDs that prep doesn’t protect you from. Some kinky fuckers on here though and had some great meets - though the fabguys are more likely to give you verifications! Agree the “top vs bottom” indicator on fab is useful.

If anyone is ever wondering why some people don't want to meet bi men.....

If you think that’s just fabguys and just bi men you’re kidding yourself. just because the profiles says straight doesn’t men he is… trust me.. we have had str8 men message us even to prove their bi with verifications with their fabguys profile name.

Also we have seen and even stopped guys in a session/club going from one hole to another (different holes and people) with the same condom on which is pretty much the same thing for the recipient.

You should not be painting every bi or gay man with the same brush ….

So ALL men are dodgy. Thanks. "

Haha to be fair now I’ve read your profile I can see you don’t like men full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabguys is an utter meat market.

This site is lots better. Plus I get a fair few messages from women and couples that lead to some interesting times ..

Don't get that on Fabguys.

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

Rugeley


"Fabguys is an utter meat market.

This site is lots better. Plus I get a fair few messages from women and couples that lead to some interesting times ..

Don't get that on Fabguys."

Agree it is, but I would probably think that depends on what you’re after. As a bi couple or bi man looking to meet both sexes here is the place to be.

I think if your a bi or gay man looking specifically for men fabguys is your better option I would imagine.

Yes a meat market but lefts face it, isn’t that what most are after it is a hole fuck or a cock in them. Certainly don’t think you would use either to look for a relationship

TVs seem to do well here with the bicurious “straight” men from what I read…

Anyway happy fabbing whichever you use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just stick to "five guys "

Some tasty things in there and uv never been disappointed .

I get my fill regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv also been on fabgrandma ...I can now bake the perfect Victorian sponge

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By *amyrrefMan
over a year ago

dundee

This is such a strange website. I get very little interest from females. Plenty of messages from guys who are probably on fabguys , who are possibly up to all sorts on there.

The women seem to be constantly reminding us blokes about how they have soooooooo many messages to get through. Must do wonders for their ego. If little else. Lol

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"Fabguys is an utter meat market.

This site is lots better. Plus I get a fair few messages from women and couples that lead to some interesting times ..

Don't get that on Fabguys."

Seems to be that way from what have heard. plus a lot, as on here, just there to cheat and hide things from their partners. As usual as long as they get their bit of cock fuck those they supposedly love

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I would've as assumed fabg was mainly for guys looking for guys whereas here it's optional more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're on fab guys then why the heck would you want to come on fab swingers? Come on!

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