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Picture it, you’re alone, your not quite feeling it but all of a sudden something happens when you might catch yourself in your reflection or a feeling washes over you that your sexual mojo gets turned upto eleven and and you think, damn, there’s a lucky person that’s about to strike it lucky and get ALL of me. 
Because I’ve just showered…dressed well…and I smell fantastic. I’m in a great sexy mood and it Friday night. ….
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"Nope! I get a slight "maybe I am" when somebody else says it, but that's the extent of my own sexy self" I definitely think you are  xx | |||
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"I know other people find me sexy. The weirdos." “We *are* the weirdos, Mister.” | |||
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"Think I'm too sexy for my shirt... Well someone had to say it " | |||
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"I never think any better of myself than "Fuck it, I'll do." But I know other people find me sexy. The weirdos." Weirdo?....rude | |||
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"I never think any better of myself than "Fuck it, I'll do." But I know other people find me sexy. The weirdos. Weirdo?....rude "I've called you worse  | |||
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"I never think any better of myself than "Fuck it, I'll do." But I know other people find me sexy. The weirdos. Weirdo?....rude
I've called you worse "Haha...true. I only call you nice things....like cumdumpster | |||
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"This is going to sound a bit shallow or ridiculous you decide! Last summer, I had "that moment" I felt amazing, was told by mutilple people I looked it and off I trotted to a club with my husband, honestly I have never ever felt so sexy in my life, by the end of the night, I was standing on the dance floor on my own (husband had gone off to play, it's what we do in clubs) as my friends were at the bar and I looked around me and saw all the beautiful women, then men and thought how wrong I was, as soon as my husband came back, we left almost immediately and drowned my sorrows in a kebab and ever since then if someone pays me a compliment via here or other, I don't believe anyone. If seriously knocked my confidence x" Oh goodness I can relate. Fab and all of this can really knock your confidence. Sometimes it dies, sometimes it doesn’t. I used to go out and feel like people looked at me, and now? I feel like I am invisible. But I think we all know ourselves and think how very sexy we CAN be, and some moments we can see and feel it. Just like you did. 
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"This is going to sound a bit shallow or ridiculous you decide! Last summer, I had "that moment" I felt amazing, was told by mutilple people I looked it and off I trotted to a club with my husband, honestly I have never ever felt so sexy in my life, by the end of the night, I was standing on the dance floor on my own (husband had gone off to play, it's what we do in clubs) as my friends were at the bar and I looked around me and saw all the beautiful women, then men and thought how wrong I was, as soon as my husband came back, we left almost immediately and drowned my sorrows in a kebab and ever since then if someone pays me a compliment via here or other, I don't believe anyone. If seriously knocked my confidence x" Sorry...I'm not sure what it was that knocked your confidence?? Was it just that moment if comparison to others? | |||
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"This is going to sound a bit shallow or ridiculous you decide! Last summer, I had "that moment" I felt amazing, was told by mutilple people I looked it and off I trotted to a club with my husband, honestly I have never ever felt so sexy in my life, by the end of the night, I was standing on the dance floor on my own (husband had gone off to play, it's what we do in clubs) as my friends were at the bar and I looked around me and saw all the beautiful women, then men and thought how wrong I was, as soon as my husband came back, we left almost immediately and drowned my sorrows in a kebab and ever since then if someone pays me a compliment via here or other, I don't believe anyone. If seriously knocked my confidence x Sorry...I'm not sure what it was that knocked your confidence?? Was it just that moment if comparison to others?" Sorry, I forgot to add that bit (I'm old and the font is small). I felt like not one person looked at me all night (hence the shallow part), I don't have the confidence to rock up to blokes but as I felt amazing, I felt I oozed "come talk to me" but it didn't happen, hence the looking around and feeling like a bit of an idiot x | |||
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"This is going to sound a bit shallow or ridiculous you decide! Last summer, I had "that moment" I felt amazing, was told by mutilple people I looked it and off I trotted to a club with my husband, honestly I have never ever felt so sexy in my life, by the end of the night, I was standing on the dance floor on my own (husband had gone off to play, it's what we do in clubs) as my friends were at the bar and I looked around me and saw all the beautiful women, then men and thought how wrong I was, as soon as my husband came back, we left almost immediately and drowned my sorrows in a kebab and ever since then if someone pays me a compliment via here or other, I don't believe anyone. If seriously knocked my confidence x Oh goodness I can relate. Fab and all of this can really knock your confidence. Sometimes it dies, sometimes it doesn’t. I used to go out and feel like people looked at me, and now? I feel like I am invisible. But I think we all know ourselves and think how very sexy we CAN be, and some moments we can see and feel it. Just like you did.
"All the above totally resonates with me. I am pretty average looking at best, bit of a cheeky grin, but that's it. I'm perfectly at peace with that but sometimes I do catch myself in a mirror and think "Not bad for you, Felix, old sausage! Go gettem lad!!" And then I go out and am roundly ignored by those with fannies. I've spent my life standing in clubs and being overlooked so it's nothing new, and I never go expecting to pull. Sometimes, just sometimes, when the moon aligns with uranus, i might get a snog and touch a boob. That makes it all worthwhile | |||
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"Just for you Woody https://youtu.be/wouKI_myXxk Jx" If I’m opening links, I have high expectations. | |||
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"This is going to sound a bit shallow or ridiculous you decide! Last summer, I had "that moment" I felt amazing, was told by mutilple people I looked it and off I trotted to a club with my husband, honestly I have never ever felt so sexy in my life, by the end of the night, I was standing on the dance floor on my own (husband had gone off to play, it's what we do in clubs) as my friends were at the bar and I looked around me and saw all the beautiful women, then men and thought how wrong I was, as soon as my husband came back, we left almost immediately and drowned my sorrows in a kebab and ever since then if someone pays me a compliment via here or other, I don't believe anyone. If seriously knocked my confidence x Sorry...I'm not sure what it was that knocked your confidence?? Was it just that moment if comparison to others? Sorry, I forgot to add that bit (I'm old and the font is small). I felt like not one person looked at me all night (hence the shallow part), I don't have the confidence to rock up to blokes but as I felt amazing, I felt I oozed "come talk to me" but it didn't happen, hence the looking around and feeling like a bit of an idiot x" Ahh I see. Well I suspect its more about any guys not wanted to bother you while your having fun on the dancefloor... But hopefully you'll have the confidence to go again. | |||
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"This is going to sound a bit shallow or ridiculous you decide! Last summer, I had "that moment" I felt amazing, was told by mutilple people I looked it and off I trotted to a club with my husband, honestly I have never ever felt so sexy in my life, by the end of the night, I was standing on the dance floor on my own (husband had gone off to play, it's what we do in clubs) as my friends were at the bar and I looked around me and saw all the beautiful women, then men and thought how wrong I was, as soon as my husband came back, we left almost immediately and drowned my sorrows in a kebab and ever since then if someone pays me a compliment via here or other, I don't believe anyone. If seriously knocked my confidence x Sorry...I'm not sure what it was that knocked your confidence?? Was it just that moment if comparison to others? Sorry, I forgot to add that bit (I'm old and the font is small). I felt like not one person looked at me all night (hence the shallow part), I don't have the confidence to rock up to blokes but as I felt amazing, I felt I oozed "come talk to me" but it didn't happen, hence the looking around and feeling like a bit of an idiot x Ahh I see. Well I suspect its more about any guys not wanted to bother you while your having fun on the dancefloor... But hopefully you'll have the confidence to go again." I've been to a few since then and still hasn't returned, hopefully one day x | |||
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"This is going to sound a bit shallow or ridiculous you decide! Last summer, I had "that moment" I felt amazing, was told by mutilple people I looked it and off I trotted to a club with my husband, honestly I have never ever felt so sexy in my life, by the end of the night, I was standing on the dance floor on my own (husband had gone off to play, it's what we do in clubs) as my friends were at the bar and I looked around me and saw all the beautiful women, then men and thought how wrong I was, as soon as my husband came back, we left almost immediately and drowned my sorrows in a kebab and ever since then if someone pays me a compliment via here or other, I don't believe anyone. If seriously knocked my confidence x Sorry...I'm not sure what it was that knocked your confidence?? Was it just that moment if comparison to others? Sorry, I forgot to add that bit (I'm old and the font is small). I felt like not one person looked at me all night (hence the shallow part), I don't have the confidence to rock up to blokes but as I felt amazing, I felt I oozed "come talk to me" but it didn't happen, hence the looking around and feeling like a bit of an idiot x" That's really honest and insightful so thank you for sharing your experience. There are the moments when you catch someone's eye in a club and you're asking yourself what are they thinking. Are they encouraging me to go and chat or are they thinking what's that old guy doing looking at me? I'm not the eye candy kind of guy so I rely more on humour and a bit of charm. If you get blanked then it can knock your confidence. | |||
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"Just for you Woody https://youtu.be/wouKI_myXxk Jx If I’m opening links, I have high expectations. "I can honestly say. That the first time I’ve ever seen the video for a that song o know pretty well.
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"Every time I walk past a mirror! X" This is what we all should do. | |||
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"Do you say this often?
Picture it, you’re alone, your not quite feeling it but all of a sudden something happens when you might catch yourself in your reflection or a feeling washes over you that your sexual mojo gets turned upto eleven and and you think, damn, there’s a lucky person that’s about to strike it lucky and get ALL of me.
Because I’ve just showered…dressed well…and I smell fantastic. I’m in a great sexy mood and it Friday night. ….
Shame I’m in work in the morning. "Yes! I wish we could bottle that feeling as it doesn't come about often enough. That said, it did wash over me this morning when I stepped out of the shower so I snapped a quick pic and posted it online. Without proof, it didn't happen, right? | |||
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"I don't feel sexy. But this morning I caught aight of myself on a video call and thought "I look kinda pretty". I'll take that." Pffft. Nonsense. You’re more than ‘kinda’ and you know it. Ya hottie. | |||
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"I don't feel sexy. But this morning I caught aight of myself on a video call and thought "I look kinda pretty". I'll take that. Pffft. Nonsense. You’re more than ‘kinda’ and you know it. Ya hottie." I can't believe you just made a pffft at me! Jeez. And nah... I just know how to take a good photo | |||
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"And nah... I just know how to take a good photo "FFS Posh, take the damn compliment. | |||
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"And nah... I just know how to take a good photo
FFS Posh, take the damn compliment. "Thank you. You're very kind
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"(I feel chastised now)" ‘Chastised’ is a good word. Kinda sexy, actually. | |||
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"My sexiness — or rather a close resemblance of whatever that was — has been lost down the side of my sofa. I'm more likely to fish an old pound coin from the depths of its upholstery." I feel like you might be putting too much emphasis on the physical. Your way with words, charm and kindness is definitely sexy. But I also understand that other people telling you isn't same as feeling your own internal sexiness. J | |||
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"My sexiness — or rather a close resemblance of whatever that was — has been lost down the side of my sofa. I'm more likely to fish an old pound coin from the depths of its upholstery. I feel like you might be putting too much emphasis on the physical. Your way with words, charm and kindness is definitely sexy. But I also understand that other people telling you isn't same as feeling your own internal sexiness. J" • Oh, you are smoother than porcelain, you! | |||
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"Never say it and I really don't feel it" Don’t worry, I’m always here to tell you how hot you are. | |||
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Remembering that 'we're all someone's idea of hot and someone's idea of not' is great for managing expectations, disappointments, ego and self-confidence | |||
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" Remembering that 'we're all someone's idea of hot and someone's idea of not' is great for managing expectations, disappointments, ego and self-confidence "Can we frame this and put it above the entrance to Fab? | |||
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"Sexy? No, I don't really do sexy. I don't think I really give off that vibe. I can sometimes think I look ok, and I normally like my face (by and large), but I'm acutely aware of what I don't like. It's not a lack of confidence, I'm just ruthlessly objective about my good and bad bits!" • To be honest, my noble paladin, your sexiness went up a huge notch when you discovered Fab's newest emoji. | |||
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"Nope! I get a slight "maybe I am" when somebody else says it, but that's the extent of my own sexy self" Exactly this  | |||
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"It's not something I think often but I did take a photo last night that I think I looked really good in . It was an unusual but lovely thing " Yes this! Every now and then I may take a selfie/photo because of the reason of feeling sexy or thinking I look good.  | |||
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"I took a few pics on Saturday in a red dress I was about to throw out as it’s been hanging in my wardrobe for 3 year unworn and I did actually feel quite sexy in it The dress is now hanging back up in the wardrobe "You look sexy in it Cookie. Find an excuse to wear it. And drink tequila in it. And have it removed. | |||
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"I took a few pics on Saturday in a red dress I was about to throw out as it’s been hanging in my wardrobe for 3 year unworn and I did actually feel quite sexy in it The dress is now hanging back up in the wardrobe
You look sexy in it Cookie.
Find an excuse to wear it. And drink tequila in it. And have it removed.
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"This is going to sound a bit shallow or ridiculous you decide! Last summer, I had "that moment" I felt amazing, was told by mutilple people I looked it and off I trotted to a club with my husband, honestly I have never ever felt so sexy in my life, by the end of the night, I was standing on the dance floor on my own (husband had gone off to play, it's what we do in clubs) as my friends were at the bar and I looked around me and saw all the beautiful women, then men and thought how wrong I was, as soon as my husband came back, we left almost immediately and drowned my sorrows in a kebab and ever since then if someone pays me a compliment via here or other, I don't believe anyone. If seriously knocked my confidence x Sorry...I'm not sure what it was that knocked your confidence?? Was it just that moment if comparison to others? Sorry, I forgot to add that bit (I'm old and the font is small). I felt like not one person looked at me all night (hence the shallow part), I don't have the confidence to rock up to blokes but as I felt amazing, I felt I oozed "come talk to me" but it didn't happen, hence the looking around and feeling like a bit of an idiot x That's really honest and insightful so thank you for sharing your experience. There are the moments when you catch someone's eye in a club and you're asking yourself what are they thinking. Are they encouraging me to go and chat or are they thinking what's that old guy doing looking at me? I'm not the eye candy kind of guy so I rely more on humour and a bit of charm. If you get blanked then it can knock your confidence. " I'm very much the same generally not someone who gets looked at or approached but like the TikTok videos say "funny guys are dangerous, you laugh and laugh then Boom your clothes are gone" My issue is getting the conversation started Lost my confidence a bit recently and just not feeling me at the moment but I'm trying to bring him back | |||
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