FabSwingers.com forum: The Dilemma

By *anasGod OP Man
over a year ago

everywhere

So I’ll be quick.

She is hot,sexy and more….BUT merried!

She don’t want her husband to find out,

The thing is I have Men’s Code

So what to do?

Get in or keep it platonic love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does she want?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Men's code?

What's men's code? Are you allowed to talk about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go with your gut (sounds like your gut is staying well away).

Speaking from very recent experience, alot of the time it doesn't end well.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Men's code?

What's men's code? Are you allowed to talk about it? "

He has it.

But apparently its not particularly strict, otherwise there'd be no question to ask.

Possibly just guidelines rather than rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ll be quick.

She is hot,sexy and more….BUT merried!

She don’t want her husband to find out,

The thing is I have Men’s Code

So what to do?

Get in or keep it platonic love?

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Remove yourself from the situation.

Stand by your principles.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

Its not a dilemma at all. That would suggest a difficult decision. It isnt, stay away. "Bros before hoes"

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"So I’ll be quick.

She is hot,sexy and more….BUT merried!

She don’t want her husband to find out,

The thing is I have Men’s Code

So what to do?

Get in or keep it platonic love?

Merried? Has she been drinking?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Just be a decent human being

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By *ickeyblueeyes7Man
over a year ago

newport

"Men's code?

What's men's code? Are you allowed to talk about it? "

First rule of men’s code is you don’t talk about men’s code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't going to end well

Mrs C

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Don't do it.

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By *rRareButRealMan
over a year ago

"Men's code?

What's men's code? Are you allowed to talk about it?

First rule of men’s code is you don’t talk about men’s code"

Hahaha my man, beat me to it

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By *rRareButRealMan
over a year ago

Ball is in your court pal Iv had some of the best sex with married woman, does that make me a bad guy? If they aren’t happy then yes they should leave but it’s not always as easy as that and everybody has needs etc but if you know the guy then it’s totally different and could get messy but if not fill your boots. Just be careful of them things called feelings, they can bite you on the arse and cause more hassle than it’s worth.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Men's code?

What's men's code? Are you allowed to talk about it?

He has it.

But apparently its not particularly strict, otherwise there'd be no question to ask.

Possibly just guidelines rather than rules.

But is everyone with a dick a 'bro'?

Some guys are complete arseholes!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally stay clear unless your happy to be involved with the fall out.

Mrs

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

If meeting her will contradict your own personal moral stance then don't meet

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By *anasGod OP Man
over a year ago

everywhere

"Ball is in your court pal Iv had some of the best sex with married woman, does that make me a bad guy? If they aren’t happy then yes they should leave but it’s not always as easy as that and everybody has needs etc but if you know the guy then it’s totally different and could get messy but if not fill your boots. Just be careful of them things called feelings, they can bite you on the arse and cause more hassle than it’s worth. "

True is like we doing community service

But all this desire,lust,adrenaline rush,passion…!

Nothing is right and nothing wrong.In matters that if will bond her relationship with her husband I’ll go yes all the way but that is unknown or if her husband is right to her?

Better to keep it platonic love I believe and go with the flow…

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you wouldn't mind having if it happened to you do it

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By *anasGod OP Man
over a year ago

everywhere

Thank you all for your help/advice/opinion

Stay truthful sexy hot and beautiful as you are!

You help my dilemma and hopefully she will not make me to think with my second head and loose control

she hold that power.

Keep it real

Kisses

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you all for your help/advice/opinion

Stay truthful sexy hot and beautiful as you are!

You help my dilemma and hopefully she will not make me to think with my second head and loose control

she hold that power.

Keep it real

Kisses

She doesn't, you've given her that power. Take it back

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Thank you all for your help/advice/opinion

Stay truthful sexy hot and beautiful as you are!

You help my dilemma and hopefully she will not make me to think with my second head and loose control

she hold that power.

Keep it real

Kisses

Think you will find self control is down to yourself and if shits hits the pan then you will be as responsible as her.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"Men's code?

What's men's code? Are you allowed to talk about it? "
if he tells you he will have to kill you,,

how he kills you is your choice,, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you all for your help/advice/opinion

Stay truthful sexy hot and beautiful as you are!

You help my dilemma and hopefully she will not make me to think with my second head and loose control

she hold that power.

Keep it real

Kisses

It's hardly losing control is it. Either fuck her or don't.

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By *anasGod OP Man
over a year ago

everywhere

"Thank you all for your help/advice/opinion

Stay truthful sexy hot and beautiful as you are!

You help my dilemma and hopefully she will not make me to think with my second head and loose control

she hold that power.

Keep it real

Kisses

She doesn't, you've given her that power. Take it back"

Ill stand my ground

no worries

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you all for your help/advice/opinion

Stay truthful sexy hot and beautiful as you are!

You help my dilemma and hopefully she will not make me to think with my second head and loose control

she hold that power.

Keep it real

Kisses

She doesn't, you've given her that power. Take it back

Ill stand my ground

no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You grown make your own decisions

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"So I’ll be quick.

She is hot,sexy and more….BUT merried!

She don’t want her husband to find out,

The thing is I have Men’s Code

So what to do?

Get in or keep it platonic love?

"
stay away you horndog

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"Just be a decent human being"
be a decent human being and fuck her with your eyes closed so it doesnt count,,

rule number 6 of the mens code

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Did anyone actually find out what "Men’s Code" is (or was)?

I'm genuinely intrigued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did anyone actually find out what "Men’s Code" is (or was)?

I'm genuinely intrigued.

Sounds like a new cheap aftershave from b&ms ...

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"So I’ll be quick.

She is hot,sexy and more….BUT merried!

She don’t want her husband to find out,

The thing is I have Men’s Code

So what to do?

Get in or keep it platonic love?

I know what you are saying.

Personally I have a male friends code. ie I wouldn't fuck a mates wife without his permission. But as long as I don't know the guy! it is not my problem as if the lady didn't shag me, she would probably find another man to satisfy her needs.

So my advise is, go for it (unless her husband has been inside for murder, then I would say, run a mile)

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

It’s a puzzle. An enigma. An anagram.

Rearrange the letters and the truth will be revealed.

It’s COD SEMEN.

He has cod semen. Worth its weight in gold, that stuff. There’s a global shortage. He’s telling us that he’s filthy rich. A man of means.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Did anyone actually find out what "Men’s Code" is (or was)?

I'm genuinely intrigued.

You don't slip your wick in another mans Zippo!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve no idea what mens code is , but I don’t play with married women, there’s one or two on here with very specific situations I would but generally no

Why are you having dilemma ? You either believe it’s ok to do or you don’t ? Have a conversation with yourself rather than ask people here

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"You don't slip your wick in another mans Zippo!"

Actually I do that. Quite often. I guess I don’t have Men’s Code. Or at least didn’t read the guidebook …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may already have OP.....

Unless every single person tells you 100% the truth on and off fab, in clubs etc etc, bearing in mind the truth on fab is a rare thing in itself.

Only you really know the answer as to what you can do.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Did anyone actually find out what "Men’s Code" is (or was)?

I'm genuinely intrigued.

You don't slip your wick in another mans Zippo!"

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Why not? Is he going to duff me up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From your post, you have morals that you stand by. Don’t break them for a one off.

Things could get messy.

Personally, I wouldn’t ever play with married people, but they’re my morals and who am I to judge.

Mrs

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

You might get away with it. Hell you probably will.

But you still have to look at yourself in the mirror every morning

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"You may already have OP.....

Unless every single person tells you 100% the truth on and off fab, in clubs etc etc, bearing in mind the truth on fab is a rare thing in itself.

Only you really know the answer as to what you can do. "

This

Take responsibility for the choices you make, as they are only yours to choose.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd stay well away.

Just remember actions have consequences,so as long as you're prepared to deal with any that may come up,go for it .

Sounds like your bro code is selective though tbh.

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By *anasGod OP Man
over a year ago

everywhere

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By *anasGod OP Man
over a year ago

everywhere

About Mans Code.Everything that’s make you.The shoes that you were the aftershave,your car,your cigar that you smoke……your morals,discipline,the power,your hobbies…your kinks…your job,your drink,the way that you talk,your style that you dress.

Some they don’t have set or haven’t discovered yet.so those are in process to find their manhood.

Most they discovere throw a woman(relationship).

For example if you don’t turn to look your car after you parked it this car is not for you.or at least you should know what car you love but the life sometimes…A lot ways to find out if you have Code and know what you want and not messing and tricking around.

First rule of man is to pee standing

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"So I’ll be quick.

She is hot,sexy and more….BUT merried!

She don’t want her husband to find out,

The thing is I have Men’s Code

So what to do?

Get in or keep it platonic love?

Get in there mate and give her one or two and one for me, opportunity comes but once

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Codes shmodes. I have Nora code. That’s it.

Do what you want to do.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"About Mans Code.Everything that’s make you.The shoes that you were the aftershave,your car,your cigar that you smoke……your morals,discipline,the power,your hobbies…your kinks…your job,your drink,the way that you talk,your style that you dress.

Some they don’t have set or haven’t discovered yet.so those are in process to find their manhood.

Most they discovere throw a woman(relationship).

First rule of man is to pee standing

No the first rule is lift the seat and put it down when finished peeing

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely nothing

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