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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been dreaming of my wife fucking another man for some years now my wife fully knows of my fantasy for many years every time we fuck we always talk filthy with a man joining in the mix while we are fucking. Now has come the time she has agreed to trying it. but the problem am having with it I soon as I cum the idea of another man goes out the window am no longer interested in another man going near her but when I get horny I want her to have many men as possible but when I shoot my load it's no longer a intrest to me I don't want anyone near her? Any guy felt this way also ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been dreaming of my wife fucking another man for some years now my wife fully knows of my fantasy for many years every time we fuck we always talk filthy with a man joining in the mix while we are fucking. Now has come the time she has agreed to trying it. but the problem am having with it I soon as I cum the idea of another man goes out the window am no longer interested in another man going near her but when I get horny I want her to have many men as possible but when I shoot my load it's no longer a intrest to me I don't want anyone near her? Any guy felt this way also ?"

I suggest that if you do it, don't shoot your load

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been dreaming of my wife fucking another man for some years now my wife fully knows of my fantasy for many years every time we fuck we always talk filthy with a man joining in the mix while we are fucking. Now has come the time she has agreed to trying it. but the problem am having with it I soon as I cum the idea of another man goes out the window am no longer interested in another man going near her but when I get horny I want her to have many men as possible but when I shoot my load it's no longer a intrest to me I don't want anyone near her? Any guy felt this way also ?

I suggest that if you do it, don't shoot your load"

lmao good idea..

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

For her sake, I hope she holds off until your doubts disappear

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Get a cage, certainly stops cuck from shooting anything!!

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk and talk and talk to her and ask her to talk to you.

Seriously I can’t stress this enough, the old saying ‘be careful what you wish for!’ Is unbelievably true when you get something wrong.

Regrets are horrible to live with, fantasies should wait until your absolutely certain you are both strong enough to deal with any mistakes you make together.

Good luck,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy and reality do not often, if not always, align.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to have that conversation and tell her, if you have always felt this way, perhaps the conversation should have been had before it got to the point your wife agreed to it? That's hindsight, wonderful thing isn't it.

Definitely talk to her, as boring as that sounds but sometimes fulfilling a fantasy in the bedroom isn't all it's cracked up to be and you don't want to destroy your marriage.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

She's agreed to try it but now you're having doubts. Don't do it.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Have the conversation when you haven't got the raging horn! Although it sounds like you don't need to - ask yourself how you'll feel if you have shot your load and he is still pounding your good lady for all he's worth.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Definitely communication between you two is needed but if you however decide to do it, make sure the “other” guy is not being treated as an object to fulfil your fantasies.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

None! We both got our pleasure, experience and excitement together! A few 'roadbumps' and honest conversations, but we wouldn't change it and the sex after... Well, we all know that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

really appreciate all the sound advice thanks guys

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By *hree_into_oneCouple
over a year ago

warrington

Must admit when thinking about Angie meeting very horny indeed, once ive come not so…But met plenty of guys, both loved it and even when ive come, i still enjoy watching her and meet is good…

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Sharing turns us on before, during and after the event, but if you’ve any doubts then don’t do it (yet). Watching your partner fuck someone else is a big step.

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By *omoxfordMan
over a year ago

leeds

To start get her to do a double bj edging each guy then just when your about to blow she switches to the other guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a known fact that people make poor decisions when they are horny. It’s biological.

There are lots of steps you can take in that direction without actually going the whole hog (talking about it, socialling, letting her chat to other guys, kissing them, letting them watch). Communication and time to come down and be together after each step is essential.

Chances are if you lose interest afterwards just talking about it, you’re probably not going to enjoy the feeling after doing it.

For us the mix of jealousy, nerves, excitement, adrenaline etc is a huge rush, but it isn’t for everyone.

Good luck OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you only have the urge when you're feeling horny then we'd step back and keep it as a fantasy, fantasy and reality are so different.

The first time I watched my wife take another cock I think I had every emotion go through my body but it was something that we'd definitely wanted to do so the erotic, horny, happy emotions over rode the jealousy emotions.. but you have to be 100% sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read a few couples arranging a fuck and go meet for the female Half to enjoy, just watch and enjoy however many guys you invite round to finish in your wife then you can have her alone thinking about what you just watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been dreaming of my wife fucking another man for some years now my wife fully knows of my fantasy for many years every time we fuck we always talk filthy with a man joining in the mix while we are fucking. Now has come the time she has agreed to trying it. but the problem am having with it I soon as I cum the idea of another man goes out the window am no longer interested in another man going near her but when I get horny I want her to have many men as possible but when I shoot my load it's no longer a intrest to me I don't want anyone near her? Any guy felt this way also ?"

Be absolutely careful what you wish for , sometimes the fantasy never matches the reality, there is always the danger that the guy might fuck her like she's never been fucked before and she might want more , whatever ye choose to do make sure you have talked about it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We talked everything through from DP group sex with more then one extra man, all sounds like great fun but reality is for us we both decided not to go down that route, if anything more Mrs then Mr, we think for us men wanking and cumin over mrs is fine, definitely adds for us

Our main thing here is Mrs being bi sexual

Maybe try the wanking off over her first scenario to start with, if it works maybe oral and so on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all these are all valid points that everyone is making I thank u all.

I think what am going to do is as long as she is totally OK with it and not just doing it for me I be OK with that am more worried what she might think straight after too she was a virgin when I married her. So I want to make sure she is 100 percent she wants to do it and not just for me it has to be for her and weather I cum or not as long as she is happy mentally emotionally etc after we be OK.x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If your having doubts don't do it, you can't unsee what you've seen.

Otherwise hold off cuming.

I kinda have the same thing, I like the idea of being fucked while I suck the Mr, but once the Mr is done I've no interest anymore so I wouldn't do it.

Mrs

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