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"I don't have any friends " Not real ones. I have men online I chat to; but only a couple are not trying to get my knickers off. | |||
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"I don't have any friends " I have imaginary friends (at least that is what my on-line friends are known as by my family). | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? " Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. " Yeah. We know | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. Yeah. We know" Not everybody knows though | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. " What about in real life? | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? " Same rules apply | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply" I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them." Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together?" Absolutely | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together?" Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. " Do women do that sort of stuff? I thought they would be too busy trying to trap you into a relationship! | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. Do women do that sort of stuff? I thought they would be too busy trying to trap you into a relationship!" They can't right now... There's a hidden profile. But they are waiting.... Lol | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. Do women do that sort of stuff? I thought they would be too busy trying to trap you into a relationship! They can't right now... There's a hidden profile. But they are waiting.... Lol" Join the queue sweetcheeks | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. Do women do that sort of stuff? I thought they would be too busy trying to trap you into a relationship! They can't right now... There's a hidden profile. But they are waiting.... Lol Join the queue sweetcheeks" I'd rather poke my eyes out | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. Do women do that sort of stuff? I thought they would be too busy trying to trap you into a relationship!" They do that, when the guy is most likely paying for it all and they're just 'friends' | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. Do women do that sort of stuff? I thought they would be too busy trying to trap you into a relationship!" Oh yeah...alas I somehow manage to evade their cunning traps ... | |||
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" They do that, when the guy is most likely paying for it all and they're just 'friends'" I know you are trolling. So why the heck am I finding you irritating today? I normally just laugh it off as shock jocking. But today this dead horse is feeling decidedly over flogged. | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together?" I drink with, go to rugby with, build and race trucks with my male friends! Not sure I have many hobbies I do with my female friends tbf but am off shopping and having lunch today with my girlies,, not sure any of my male would enjoy this tbh | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. Do women do that sort of stuff? I thought they would be too busy trying to trap you into a relationship! They do that, when the guy is most likely paying for it all and they're just 'friends'" So for my birthday one year...one of my best friends...took me out into Newcastle..SHE paid for dinner cocktails etc..SHE took me to a lap dancing club...SHE paid for our dances... So that would really be an elaborate ruse Real friendship in my experience isn't as exploitative as you think...and gender has nothing to do with it | |||
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"Hmmmm how did I know the exact repeated discussion this thread would go in dominating the majority of the thread, with the same back and forth from the same names involved, just from reading the title. " You must be psychic | |||
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"I've always had more male friends until my last break up where all of a sudden they wanted to be in my knickers, it's kinda put me off. I'll stick with my 1 female friend Mrs " Oooh so they weren't just platonic friends, they were friends because you were taken. Soon as you become available they were all over you like a tramp on chips. | |||
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"I have both. But it is easier to be friend with a woman on here than a man. Due to heteronormativity probably " Do you think it might also be due to the competition between males for the attention or the women. Like many other forum women I’ve made some marvellous friends on here - mostly female but one or two males too. However - whilst I know males who’ve made great female friends on here - I know of none who’ve made a network of good male friends - which is a shame. In the real world I still have mostly female friends interspersed with a few male ones. As others have said - it can be good to get a balance of views and opinions. | |||
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"Hmmmm how did I know the exact repeated discussion this thread would go in dominating the majority of the thread, with the same back and forth from the same names involved, just from reading the title. " Feeding times over lol | |||
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"Hmmmm how did I know the exact repeated discussion this thread would go in dominating the majority of the thread, with the same back and forth from the same names involved, just from reading the title. You must be psychic " Observation and powers of deduction. I'm like a really shit Sherlock Holmes. | |||
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"I've always had more male friends until my last break up where all of a sudden they wanted to be in my knickers, it's kinda put me off. I'll stick with my 1 female friend Mrs Oooh so they weren't just platonic friends, they were friends because you were taken. Soon as you become available they were all over you like a tramp on chips. " Seems that way, it pissed me off to be honest. Mrs | |||
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"Hmmmm how did I know the exact repeated discussion this thread would go in dominating the majority of the thread, with the same back and forth from the same names involved, just from reading the title. " Fancy a game of ping pong? Ping | |||
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"Hmmmm how did I know the exact repeated discussion this thread would go in dominating the majority of the thread, with the same back and forth from the same names involved, just from reading the title. Fancy a game of ping pong? Ping " Pong | |||
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"I've always had more male friends until my last break up where all of a sudden they wanted to be in my knickers, it's kinda put me off. I'll stick with my 1 female friend Mrs Oooh so they weren't just platonic friends, they were friends because you were taken. Soon as you become available they were all over you like a tramp on chips. Seems that way, it pissed me off to be honest. Mrs " Yeah I can understand, your sentiments. They should of been more honest about their intentions. | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. " Don't forget talking them into selling goth piss | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. What about in real life? Same rules apply I would say your missing out... But reality is I'm relieved for them. Really, what fun things do you do with your platonic female friends? Get your nails done together? Yeah nails ...all that shit. But ya know ...also go out get pissed, go to gigs...go out for meals...you know ...pretty much the same stuff I do with my male friends. Don't forget talking them into selling goth piss " One of the better ideas | |||
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"More male friends, cause off gaming I hardly fine women gamers " Discord has gamer girls. Which game do you play the most? | |||
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"What do you find yourself making more of? Do you have more female or male friends? And also, is it healthy just having contributing opinions of just one sex? Have zero female friends on here. I don't join sex / swinging sites to make platonic friends. It kind of defeats the point in my opinion. " A lot of men think the same, they just don't openly admit to it. | |||
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"Hmmmm how did I know the exact repeated discussion this thread would go in dominating the majority of the thread, with the same back and forth from the same names involved, just from reading the title. You must be psychic Observation and powers of deduction. I'm like a really shit Sherlock Holmes. " I thought the same tbh. But I'm in too good a mood to react today. Fuck it. To answer the original question I'd say I have more female friends these days, largely due to what I do for work and the environments I find myself in both for work (where I make a lot of friends) and when I'm not working. It used to be the opposite, largely for similar reasons but as I was in a different profession then I came more into contact with men. On here? Probably 50/50. I don't decide to be friends with people just because I want to fuck them or not. A | |||
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"I've mostly got women friends these days, the lads all got married and the wives don't approve " That’s a shame. You have a gorgeous figure btw - hope you’re having a wonderful time on here. | |||
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"I've mostly got women friends these days, the lads all got married and the wives don't approve That’s a shame. You have a gorgeous figure btw - hope you’re having a wonderful time on here. " Aww thanks lovely! | |||
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"I've mostly got women friends these days, the lads all got married and the wives don't approve " So women feel the same too, they don't like their male spouses having female friends. Not just men then. | |||
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"I've mostly got women friends these days, the lads all got married and the wives don't approve So women feel the same too, they don't like their male spouses having female friends. Not just men then. " Obviously I can't comment on that | |||
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"I have both. The friend I spend the most time with at the moment is male." Because we’re easier to talk to | |||
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"Question within a question - Do we talk different to our same sex friends than we do to the opposite sex? As a male I always thought I could have a deeper more softer conversations that I need, rather than getting a matter of fact exchange with males. " Erm. I'm not sure if it's gender based - some of my conversations with my female friends are definitely not softer. One I almost cried at with the harsh but fairness of it. I think I might have more male friends. Yes, I know I do. It's not because of some daft "oh women never understand me, I'm not like other women" stupid, stupid trope. It's more a case of who I naturally talk to and develop friendships with more easily. | |||
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"Question within a question - Do we talk different to our same sex friends than we do to the opposite sex? As a male I always thought I could have a deeper more softer conversations that I need, rather than getting a matter of fact exchange with males. " I think it always depends if you just want someone to listen, advice or a solution. I tend to talk the same to both though. | |||
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"... men are way more pliable..." Such truth. | |||
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"... men are way more pliable... Such truth. False " I might post comments like these from now on and chuckle at the responses. | |||
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"I have more women than men friends. I don't think it's a good idea to just hear the opinions of people who agree with you regardless of gender" This... | |||
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"... men are way more pliable... Such truth. False I might post comments like these from now on and chuckle at the responses." Me and you | |||
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"... men are way more pliable... Such truth. False I might post comments like these from now on and chuckle at the responses. Me and you " Speak away, speech is free | |||
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"Males friends on a sex site when I'm a straight guy ... Why ?? This isn't Facebook. I have zero desire to chat to men on here. It might happen occasionally if the male half of a couple answers my messages for example but I'm here for the ladies as I'm straight and not one of these new age 'metrosexuals'. I have loads of friends of both sexes outside of fab as anybody else would have. " I met my best male friend through fab and we are both straight. I've never had a close male friend before. Plenty of colleagues but not someone I could confide in. We met through a fab walking group and immediately hit it off with so many things in common and have been friends for 5 years now. Friendship on fab isn't all about sex. I have a number of female friends from that same walking group who are no longer on the site for various reasons and we keep in regular touch but have never had sex. | |||
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